Originally posted by: soapwatcher1
Kools, if Purvi had accepted Punni's deal she would have been hammered as well, just as she was for accepting Ovi's deal. Damned if she does and damned if she doesn't.
I take hope in that with the Arjun fiasco, Purvi kept him in the dark, this time around she not only said no to the blackmailing, deal proposing female but also informed Onir about the situation, albeit after the fact, though to her credit she did try to call him right away.
Also, it is good that the truth be dealt with now in all its ugly aspects rather than hang over their heads eternally. Onir should be punished for his part, he will be acquitted, Mittal needs to be brought to justice for his sickening trade and the latter can be done only if Onir and Purvi have a reason to go after Mittal which the imprisonment will provide.
As for Arjun being a MCP, I think all these soaps are geared to make the women seem inferior and appear long-suffering and the men to misunderstand and act like lords. That said, I was trying like our Pari to analyze Arjun's psyche. I have been one of his harshest critics so I am trying to be as objective as possible. The guy is without a backbone, sure but why and when? When it comes to the women he loves. He loves Ovi but is in love with Purvi, he cannot disappoint or hurt either and because of this he fails. He is not a strong person mentally, maybe cos of his age, maybe cos of his lack of a mother growing up (we are granting that to Ovi and granting the adopted syndrome to Purvi so let us make that admission for him as well).
I do not think Arjun liked baby Pari any less before and more now that she is Purvi's. In fact, I don't think he considers the baby as Purvi's at all but just as his. At the party, he thanked Ovi for Pari and I think he means it, Ovi is Pari's mother so to speak, she has taken care of the baby to date and to him Ovi, Pari and him are family now. He apologizes to Ovi for not telling the truth, he does realize her hurt, he did not disclose the truth the other day because he felt she would break if she knew the truth. His intentions were not bad, yes, he should never have lied to her about the phone call but we all know how Ovi has reacted in the past and it was an innocent call. As he told her, he has not been unfaithful to her, he even tells her lets chuck all this and head back to Canada. When he asks her to think of Pari, he is not seeing Pari as Purvi's daughter but as "their" (Ovi's and his) child. Dumb, yes, idiotic, yes, inconsiderate, perhaps. Of course, it is easier said than done, Ovi is a woman scorned and hell hath no fury to beat that. His plea for them to remain a family is a sincere request to put the past behind them and move on. He has laid his ghosts to rest and he wants Ovi to do the same. Revenge, hurt, separation can go round and round, what these two need is healing. If Ovi divorces Arjun, what is the guarantee that the next man will not be just as inconsiderate. Better a known devil than an unknown angel. If she were my daughter, I would console her, cry with her (even though I know in my heart that she went into it knowing he loved another) but will try to help her make peace with her husband. Arjun will never be able to forget how much she loves him, he will owe her an eternal debt of gratitude, the buniyad that Manav was talking about would be as strong as a house built with mortar and bricks and not flimsy like a house built with a deck of cards, and Purvi will be a forgotten dream of Arjun's.
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