awwww perfangel!!! 🤗
btw, do i know you? their was a user-name similar to yours on Rakhi ka swaymar forum, are you the same girl or someone different?!
But whatever you wrote, its so very sad. Why dont parents realize that this world cant run by only doctors and lawyers..you need all type of people, all types of profession in order for this world to run! You need nurses to assist the doctors, and they are just as important as them. But no, if you tell your parent you want to be a nurse they would turn around and say ''Why not a doctor''. Look down on low profession jobs, but these low profession jobs we rely more on then most of the high paid jobs!...i mean, a bus driver, or a driver of any sort is more important in your daily life than a lawyer or a doctor is. How often do you pay them a visit? God forbid, you never want to pay a doctor a visit coz nobody likes being sick, and same applies with lawyers...you want your life to run smoothly, not messed up by court visits and lawyers etc . Drivers on the other hand, are a very important part of your life since they take you to your destination, your kids to school, you to your work etc etc...but are they valued? nope.
I am glad that my parents have never pressurized me into anything...and the only thing they demand from me is to do whatever my job is/study is with full passion, its your chance to make a better standard of life for yourself and passion is what makes a person genius. Like what Einstein said, he is not a genius just passionate about science and sticks to his problems longer than us ordinary people to find the solution.
Make your parents watch three idiots, then talk to them after that 😆....tell them, it you they should care the most about. Your passion they should encourage, not what the neighbors are passionate about. If you enjoy what your doing, it no longer becomes a job, it becomes a hobby that you just want more and more of and when your job becomes your hobby - you excel at it.
I know this guy who was forced to study engineering coz his parents forced him to...he went on to do phD, but as soon as his studies was over and he got the doctorate title added to his name like his parents desired he left home and went to work abroad. His parents always thought he was working as some sorta engineer until he returned home one day and opened his own restaurant ( he was actually studying hospitality abroad)...his parents were frustrated and enraged ...and told him to rent a room somewhere else since they were too ashamed of having a doctorate son running a take-away...what would the society think? the guy just turned round and said..all my life ive been thinking about the society and not doing what i love doing. I am engineer for you not for myself...food is my passion and i would do what i want to do. He continued on his business, and it has been such a success that he has now opened 7 chains of take-aways....named chapati 1, all the way down to chapati 7. Anyone in Glasgow, would be well aware of his take-away...its such a success.,,Baz you heard of it? ....now looking at his son's success and his passion for food, his parents have accepted him now and at this moment of life, he cant be any happier.
That guy is my dad's best friend....so i guess thats why my parents have never pressurized me into anything, and only tellin us to follow our passion and excel at it!
Good luck!
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