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Posted: 10 years ago
#61
Kunti is one of the most strong and shrewd characters in the epic.
She asks Surya to give her a son just like him. She asks for the kavach and kundal ( I believe that they were the sons of gods). She is sad to leave him but you can forgive her since she was young.
She also genuinely feels happy when karna becomes the king of anga.

She did have a harsh life, She did not have a proper marital life, her husband preferred another younger and more beautiful woman. She became a widow and had to single handedly bring up 5 kids and protect them from her brother's in law family.
In fact she probably did nt get a lot of love from others except her 5 kids who worshiped the ground she walked on.
That is one of the main reasons I feel she is so over protective of the 5, because they completely loved and respected her unlike the other persons in her life. She probably would have felt that she would lose that reverence if she discloses the truth to them, it was probably stupid but you cant blame her for clinging on to the only love she had.

As for her comments on wicked soul, at that time karna did commit a lot of sins and mistakes against the pandavas. Going to tell Karna about his true lineage was a politically astute and strategist move to demoralise him and it worked. She was ambitious and wanted her sons to rule.

She felt immensely guilty after Karna's death, because he kept his promise to her when she probably did not deserve it. She did not have to tell the pandavas the truth after his death, nobody would have told them either but she did, because she felt guilty, he was her son after all and probably felt that she could have been there more for him.

After Karna's truth revelation there was a change in the pandavas attitude towards her , they still respected her but accepted that she was flawed and human and did not blindly worship her like they did.
Even Kunti probably felt guilty till the end of her life, she leaves with gandhari and dhritharashtra
and gets consumed in fire.



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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: AnuMP


I dont agree with IB either on any of the things. But the fact is that if Panchali did any wrong, Vyasa didn't record it.

Re: war mongering. It amazes me that she gets blamed while G-man gets away for far worse!

This eternal course of morality is ever followed by the virtuous--viz., that the husband, however weak, protecteth his wedded wife! By protecting the wife one protecteth his offspring and by protecting the offspring one protecteth his own self! One's own self is begotten on one's wife, and therefore it is that the wife is calledJaya.A wife also should protect her lord, remembering that he is to take his birth in her womb! The Pandavas never forsake the person that soliciteth their protection, and yet they abandoned me who solicited it!

I DO believe Draupadi was never wrong. Perhaps she is the only completely right character related to main thread of MB. I also have no doubt on citations. I know what Jaya is. GOING STRICTLY BY CITATIONS, the only doubt about IB' saying Drau being a hero of MB is how do you call a character the central chracter or hero of the story when he/she has no visible, at least one scene that he/she influenced so much to divert whole story? I don't find any such scenes that involves Draupadi to that extent. Except Dyuta Sabha, Draupadi has no control over any event that happened in Mahabharata. And in DS also, it is difficult to believe she acted upon her instinct/intelligence when it is clear written she was asked by Yudhi to do as he said. I do not mean Draupadi was some fool or some idiot. She cartainly was intellegent. Her talks with Yudhi in Kamyaka vana proves the sheer brilliance of her intelligemce & knowledge. Still, she had no control over anything that happened. So how could you call her the HERO of the story? I am not being anti feminist here. Call Kunti the Hero - I agree. She certainly controlled most of events. But the way Draupadi is being described in Mahabharata, (not the Draupadi of my imaginations, please note), she is nothing than an ouspoken, traditional, obedient, wife to five men. --- That is why I always believe Draupadi was something else, one of the best Vyasa wrote but later editors edited away as they could not concieve the excellancy of a woman --- But lets strictly go by the book - she was NO hero.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Jamy.
In the DS, even her opponents acknowledge Draupadi got her 5 useless hubbies out of the hole they were in.

I believe it was Karna who said that she was the boat which rescued them. Without her they would have remained slaves. She got back their entire empire too, only to lose it again because of Yudhi.

Dury sends Uluka to YBANS and says the same thing to Yudhi during Udtiga Parva that Draupadi rescued them. And that Yudhi didn't deserve the empire.

I have a list of citations which I can post in a bit which actually says Draupadi did manage the economy of the Empire which stretched from sea to shining sea.

Her conversations with Krishna in Kamyaka had the effect if lighting a fire under him and they were ready to go.to war right then and there, while G promised her large scale destruction. And this, after his student Arjun calmed him down.

In AV, she goes to Bheem and gives HIM a version of Geeta. And no, she didn't seduce him into it, unlike what is usually thought. Keechak dies.

In Udyoga Parva again, while readers find it clear that Krishna wanted war, the participants didnt know. Panchali has no qualms about lecturing him that he will be sinning if he forgives the Kauravas for continual wrongdoing (not sure what the sin is here). Again he promises her death and destruction.

Without Panchali, the Pandavas would have remained slaves even if they had somehow managed to.come out of the wilderness and build an empire. Without her, they would have remained in exile. Without her, there would have been no Jaya.

Of course she is the central character driving the story.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: riti4u

Crew member- But how sir, we are so far from hastinapur.. how can we make them meet...
SidT ls angry...- Don't you dare question me with logic... 😡



🤣 logic is something that is at a premium here. let's wait and watch what they have next in store for us!! 😆


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Anu,
Let me ask sorry & correct a mistake I made unknowingly. I dont wanna edit the previous post now. My query was actually what make Draupadi THE HERO of MB as you claimed? I have no doubt on her being a central chracter (but one who has no control over the story).
As far as Karna's dialogue is concerned, he was the same person who humiliated her just a moment ago. That gives a room to doubt either him humiliating her or praisig her to be an interpolation. So let us keep him aside. Even if we consider his words, he didnt say she acted out of her brain/inelligence. And no boat can carry passengers of ys own to the other shore, right? There must be a driver. It is pretty evident in the Mahabharata that she was only following what Yudhi wanted her to do. Karna or Yudhi had never objected that fact. So unless we are able to disprove Yudhi here, we cannot say Draupadi acted of her own. She was not a woman of such a mean brain. I cannot think she was cheap enough to think in the way Yudhi did.
Also, maintaining treasury does not make someone a hero, I think.
In Kamyaka vana, she was not doing any peaceful conversation. She is seen venting out her frustration. And she failed to influence Krishna there. The mass destruction he promised Draupadi was something he already said to all who were present there. Krishna was boiling with anger & Arjuna cooled him down seeing the vehemance of his anger. Then only Draupadi spoke her frustration. So how can you say she influenced him?
Also in Udyoga parva, even before Draupadi spoke, Krishna was evidently supporting war but got ready to go with peace mission only for the sake of Yudhi. There Yudhi was the one who needed to take the decision, not Krishna. In what Krishna says to Arjuna, right after he spoke to Draupadi, Krishna's intentions are pretty clear there. Krishna was just consoling Draupadi in both cases. We cannot say she influenced him in any visibly evident ways.
I dont know about the Gita she gave Bheema. So no comments there. Still, it failed to alter the events, right?
Tell me how Ps would have remained slaves without Draupadi if Yudhishthira had not asked her to act upon her intentions & instructions? How would they have remained in exile forever without her? Also how would there have been no Jaya without her? No verbal exercises please - only facts & evidences. Keeping aside the fact that I like Draupadi, there is no single direct evidence in entire Mahabharata that proves she controlled the direction of any major event that changed story...!!! Remember, I am not questioning her being a queen or a women, but the claim of Draupadi directly controlling major events to the level of being called a hero and the impossibility of Mahabharata/Jaya/whatever without her. You are free to disprove me & I am happy to get disproved - Truth alone shall dominate. Prove that she was THE HERO, at least considering my ignorance. I like to be enlightened on this.
Edit - One more thing. Draupadi was able to free Pandavas from slavery only because Dhritarashtra granted her boons which happened only after some jackals/wolves/donkeys began to howl outside the hall. So the fear of bad omens more influenced Dhritarashtra to grant her boons, not Draupadi's majesty. Besides, Duryodhana agreed to free Pandavas only after Arjuna said Yudhishthira was no more their master. So how will you prove Draupadi saved Pandavas? She only used the opportunity of the boons she was given. But any other women in her place could have done the same. It is not Draupadi's intelligence. But I salute her guts to keep her head straight even in that condition. Unfortunately, that did not influence main story.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: KURT15



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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: riti4u




Well it is better here to agree to disagree. She can be small child but she initiated out of curiousity( you can call it mantra or you can call it mutual sex or attraction ) ofcourse i do agree bigger fault lies with father.. of course it is,... but being a child gives you excuse of doing anything.. then how would you describe juvinile crimes. I got what you were trying to say.. but even then 5 yr old or 10 yr old are found to be rapist too.do they know actually what they are doing... would you question them on being child...to me this looks more like a teenage attraction going to extent where she didnt know what result would be... if you considered this having sex in young age as equal to rape .. then I do differ.. I don't see any occurence for that interpretations.
Doing a mistake out of ignorance is one thing... but completely neglecting that mistake is other thing... I consider her mistake out of ignorance more... and indeed thousand times.. I would say father was responsible too.. but our scriptures says he was immortal and bounded by mantra( if that is to be believed) ,mantra that was invoked by kunti
If you want to compare this with modern situations... then my dear friend there can be many cases... I think you have believed this more to be child molestation.. while I have interpreted it as curiousity of young mind in trying something with someone she is attracted too not realising what outcome could be. we can have different examples for both but age doesnt justify a mistake.. it can differentiate between a mistake and a crime...but surely cant neglect that it was a mistake..
You dont consider her floating a young child into river as fault..? I do differ here too.. This is more like a murder .. if considered this too in modern era... would you even leave a small puppy in river like this to put his life in danger and this was her own son... though unwanted... still was her own..
on Karna.. I would not reply here since i might write long post which i already have written.. n since i have less time.. i wont go there...but dont worry I will write on karna when time comes for sure..😊



Riti...I partially agree with you and partially with Anu on this matter...
Kunti was really really young then, and hence it's wrong to blame her for abandoning Karna...and yes, the manner of abandoning him was wrong...but when I read the citations and came to know about the spy thing, I really wondered did she really float him?

I think, the problem with MB fans is that, people get extreme in their beliefs...Some say, she committed a 'heinous crime' and some say 'so wat she floated him'...Personally I feel, that the truth lies always somewhere in between...Kunti was NOT completely responsible for everything...n she should not be blamed for doing that...but at the same time, I agree, the manner of abandoning Karna, as per the text, sounds really harsh...but this harshness is slightly lessened when I see her sending spies to make sure Karna was in safe hands...So, what exactly Kunti felt for Karna is really hard to judge...😊


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Posted: 10 years ago
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😛 Let's wait n watch 😉
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Posted: 10 years ago
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1) She saved the Pandavas in DS. Fact. This was acknowledged by Karna, then by Dury through Uluka in Udyoga Parva. Fact.
Without that rescue, NO JAYA.

2) FACT. G and Dhrisht actually wanted to go to war after Arjun consoled G and then Panchali spoke up. He wasn't consoling hwr. He said DDK will be killed and wanted immediate war. Yudhi wa a the one who said no.

3) FACT. Panchali wasnt venting frustration . She clearly states that she wants Yudhi to act. That is the first time that Bheem is ready to act (even though he speaks up in DS, he actually says Yudhi had the right to do what he did). Till Vyasa came and asked them prepare for war.

4) FACT When Keechak hassled her, she vented frustration. She had Bheem kill Keechak. No turn in events?

5) FACT. G's intentions are ambiguous even to Arjun. But when he speaks to Panchali, he clearly says Kauravas will be killed. How is that consoling?


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Brahmaputra

Isn't he the same guy who told Draupadi dropped tomato sauce on her white saree & ran to DS saying "drag me not, idiot, can't you see I am menstruating????". AFAIR, Idrajeet also said Drau & Yudhi planned DS & Drau fell all DDSK using the trap of her sexuality like Devi Shachi did...hmmm, ineresting.
DISCLAIMER - I don't agree with a word IB wrote on Draupadi, except the one article on her birth. I simply disagree with him there.



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Seriously, I couldn't stop laughing at the way you said that...I remember my own reaction after reading that article...🤬Some of us had criticized IB on it, and he came back at us, when he was invited, and said how some feminists had bashed him in the forum...😆

By the way, welcome back...glad to see u after a long time...😊

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