Out of love already - Page 8

Originally posted by: anshvi

I guess maybe I am old school

But the thing is the way people are thiking here , no marriage and no relation will ever work out and people will stop believing in terms like commitment and marriage

Yes marriages can be broken and so can the relations but at least the partner should have flaws or be at fault

If both partners feel it's not working out or there are problems in the relation that can't be settled and both feel thst moving on is better then it makes sense

Also if a partner is a cheat or abusive or alcoholic etc Then leaving him or her makes total sense

But in a situation where one partner is very much in love, tries to keep the other partner happy, is totally committed to the relation ehile on the other hand the other partner decides to leave him coz he or she falls for someone else...how can this ever be justified????????

I am sorry but I DISAGREE with those who say it's okay if the partner left in this case

Originally posted by: surabhi01

look like people really not understanding point . if mishty feel that she is no more in love with veer and start love with ruhaan then she should make her feelings clear to veer. before going to ruhaan

Originally posted by: chicksoup

First of all, let us see how deep in love Veer is actually with Mishti . Mishti was committed to him too. She was reciprocating in all sincerity. If she feels distant from him, he might too at some point. Let us see.

So many good friendships progress to love, break up and get back to friendship. Let us see how their relationship grows.

Originally posted by: anshvi

what I have said is on the basis of what has been shown so far

I don't think he is going to feel distant as he is shown to be very much committed to the relation. .rest let's see

I really don't have much faith in the writers of this series to show something that is complex yet beautiful

they are unable to handle their plot and it's execution so I expect the least from them

Someone mentioned the reason for mishti falling for ruhaan is him being nice & caring towards Ansh, Pari & family. So that's the reason? Veer is not lacking there too, one call by Radhika and he was there. There was not a single scene between mishti ruhaan to show they emotionally connect. Seeing someone being nice to family is love? Arnav is nice too na. Pari is clear that he is a friend.

What made her fall for veer earlier? Perfect life? Now isn't that showing her as shallow?
Tomo third guy can provide perfect life, passion, love, family love n whatever she dreamt for, wud she drop the second guy?

Here makers fail to show that relationships are never perfect but u make them happy, loving & accept flaws too.

Originally posted by: tanvismile

This is news to me. Kunal and mauli s relationship was loveless. They were passionately in love.

Yes . But Kunal fell in love with Nandini for reasons he knew best. He didn't want to stay with Mauli after that and continue his marriage. He wanted to spend his life with Nandini. So he should have informed Mauli about his decision, taken a divorce and Married Nandini . That would be perfectly fine.

But he cheated on Mauli, slept with Nandini, had an affair while being married to Mauli , that's where he was wrong. He should have got a divorce before having a relationship with Nandini.

Originally posted by: anshvi

I guess maybe I am old school

But the thing is the way people are thiking here , no marriage and no relation will ever work out and people will stop believing in terms like commitment and marriage

Yes marriages can be broken and so can the relations but at least the partner should have flaws or be at fault

If both partners feel it's not working out or there are problems in the relation that can't be settled and both feel thst moving on is better then it makes sense

Also if a partner is a cheat or abusive or alcoholic etc Then leaving him or her makes total sense

But in a situation where one partner is very much in love, tries to keep the other partner happy, is totally committed to the relation ehile on the other hand the other partner decides to leave him coz he or she falls for someone else...how can this ever be justified????????

I am sorry but I DISAGREE with those who say it's okay if the partner left in this case

That's your POV. You cannot generalise. There might be divorces by mutual consent. But there are many instances where a single partner may want a divorce and it's granted. There may not be physical abuse or cheating involved, but courts grant the divorce.

Also it's a fact that divorce rates are much higher than 20 years back.


A single partner CAN OPT out even if the other person is not willing or not at fault.

Is there a reason always to fall in love? I don't think so .

I have seen people fall in love aiwayi.

I mean I have never seen x has 3 good qualities and y has 4 so the girl will fall in love with y?

Is this maths or science? I learn something new on the forum everyday 😆

Originally posted by: poiu123

Is there a reason always to fall in love? I don't think so .

I have seen people fall in love aiwayi.

I mean I have never seen x has 3 good qualities and y has 4 so the girl will fall in love with y?

Is this maths or science? I learn something new on the forum everyday 😆

Originally posted by: pallavi_

Why not? Why can't we bring Pari here when both are part of same show, same writer so comparison banta hai ki sare character faulty hai...why to single out one 😳

Ab example se defend to karege hi mishaan fans..No? Even lawyers use old case laws of others to proove their point 😆😆

And if MISHAAN love is physical attraction then RiHaan is also same , ab Kal ko koi ruhaan se sexy ladka AA gya to Pari uske liye Bhi ready ho jaygi 😭 bechara Arnav is not good looking enough to friend zoned Kar Diya 😳