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Sana Mehta

@Sanam_26

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Posted: 6 years ago

Mishti looked really uncomfortable with Veer's touch today. Now showing this after proximity with Ruhaan, looks cheap. Looks like out with old, in with new.

My complaint with show. Most of us started watching neutrally except actor's fans. I started same way. But I dont find anything new in story. S1 had a married couple and S2 has an engaged couple. Be it marriage or engagement, love, commitment and trust are basic foundation. This show, both seasons, is showing you can break that bond, dump your partners if someone new comes along. 2 people when decide to marry without any force from anyone, we take is for granted that they must have thought about all aspects. So why is it so easy to break that bond?

Now coming to most imp talk abt S2, it is better to call quits b4 marriage than after. Accepted. Here we are watching a story where 2 people WERE in love, bride to-be was totally happy, totally in love and planning romantic dates too. Someone comes along and she getting pulled towards him minus any emotional bond. Now it is shown she is not liking her to-be's touch whereas last week she planned romance. Whereas she was quite ok with other guy's proximity. It is bound to raise questions about her. This is love? Really? For someone she hardly knows, she is pushing away the guy she used to love. Yes I am using past tense because she doesnt love veer now. Faster than dad dear, atleast he had point percent emotional bond. As of feelings for ruhaan, where is love? How is it love? Where is emotional bond?

Now after reading this people will start jumping on pari that she got ready for him and fell in love. It was definitely not love. It was not even an attraction It was infatuation. But u cant deny that pari ruhaan share amazing friendly bond. For ruhaan she is a friend but somewhere she started liking him more GRADUALLY.

Why didnt makers show that mishti had jitters and was in 2 minds? Along side, they could have shown her bonding with ruhaan. It would have been so much more relatable. This angle now simply looks like physical attraction. Mauli and Ishaan didnt have proximity but had beautiful bond. Wanted to see something like that here.

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Adhya

@Agni_Jytsona

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Posted: 6 years ago

umm right now mishti is confused about her emotions so i think its only natural plus its better to avoid any sort of intimacy with veer for the time being till mishti does not sorts out her messed up emotions this is better plus its not like she enjoys ruhaan s proximity when ruhaan came close to her to wish her hands immediately clenched ( they showed it in yesterday s epi) hell she even refuses to take flowers from him and got down from the car

plus this just the start of mishaan s story so let us wait and watch

Edited by Poorabhforever - 6 years ago

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Nandy141

@Nandy141

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Posted: 6 years ago

Was waiting for your post .. habituated reading yours and thank you for writing it today as well..

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If she was shown super comfy with Veer today , the lines of bashing would have been - " Oh yesterday she was thinking about Ruhaan and Today she is enjoying with her fiancee ".. So end of the day Mishti will never be given the just judgement she deserves

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sweet_tania

@sweet_tania

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: Poorabhforever
umm right now mishti is confused about her emotions so i think its only natural plus its better to avoid any sort of intimacy with veer for the time being till mishti does not sorts out her messed up emotions this is better plus its not like she enjoys ruhaan s proximity when ruhaan came close to her to wish her hands immediately clenched ( they showed it in yesterday s epi) hell she even refuses to take flowers from him and got down from the car

plus this just the start of mishaan s story so let us wait and watch

She was in love with veer 2 days back and suddenly she has started showing hesitation for reciprocating veer 's gestures and today her hesitation was clear that's why she was unable to hug veer back .

I mean how come one can stop loving that person so soon for whom 2 days back you were planning surprises and all.

There is only 2 possibility either you were never in love with that person at first place or your love for that person was not enough strong to survive with him forever.

In the strong marriage you must have the heart to fall for same man everyday because I know how much I fall in love with my husband everyday so for me either mishti was never in love with veer and misunderstood commitment as love or her love was never strong enough to sustain in marriage with veer.

I seriously can't digest that hug scene and still wondering how illogical writing is this where that girl is having hesitation to hug that guy back for who m she was planning surprises 2 days back and was so much comfortable with him during shower scene .

For me ruhaan is nowhere in the picture here . My complete thought process and reply is focusing mishti 's hesitation. Agree one can be confused for having attraction for third person while being engaged but my point is only revolves around why sudden hesitation for veer ?

If you really love him than hugg him more tightly to fight back against your attraction because that hug to your love will give you strength to fight against odds .

Edited by sweet_tania - 6 years ago

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Adhya

@Agni_Jytsona

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

She was in love with veer 2 days back and suddenly she has started showing hesitation for reciprocating veer 's gestures and today her hesitation was clear that's why she was unable to hug veer back .

I mean how come one can stop loving that person so soon for whom 2 days back you were planning surprises and all.

There is only 2 possibility either you were never in love with that person at first place or your love for that person was not enough strong to survive with him forever.

In the strong marriage you must have the heart to fall for same man everyday because I know how much I fall in love with my husband everyday so for me either mishti was never in love with veer and misunderstood commitment as love or her love was never strong enough to sustain in marriage with veer.

I seriously can't digest that hug scene and still wondering how illogical writing is this where that girl is having hesitation to hug that guy back for who m she was planning surprises 2 days back and was so much comfortable with him during shower scene .

well i think she even refused to acknowledge even to herself you know trying to fake there nothing has changed that everything is as it but it was not the case she was trying to fool herself even her anger i was a defence mechanism she was fooling herself but now slowly and steadily she was acknowledge that no something is wrong that something has changed which is good that instead of running away from her problems she has decided to face it boldly she even had a monologue about this yesterday that she will no more ignore ruhaan who is the cause her messed up life but will face it bravely and will not let anything happen to her perfect life

but in course of time as you said she will reliase that misunderstood her feelings for ruhaan that mistook commitment for love and them she will ambicably break up

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731627

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Posted: 6 years ago

one accidental unknowingly love with ruhaan, mishty ka veer ke liye pyar choo mantar ho gaya .

mishty song for ruhaan. na na karte pyar tumhi se kar baithe Karna tha inkaar magar ikraar tum hi se kar baithe

yeh commitment yeh sub rubbish hai jazbaati hona is most important thing in life

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Nandy141

@Nandy141

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

She was in love with veer 2 days back and suddenly she has started showing hesitation for reciprocating veer 's gestures and today her hesitation was clear that's why she was unable to hug veer back .

I mean how come one can stop loving that person so soon for whom 2 days back you were planning surprises and all.

There is only 2 possibility either you were never in love with that person at first place or your love for that person was not enough strong to survive with him forever.

In the strong marriage you must have the heart to fall for same man everyday because I know how much I fall in love with my husband everyday so for me either mishti was never in love with veer and misunderstood commitment as love or her love was never strong enough to sustain in marriage with veer.

I seriously can't digest that hug scene and still wondering how illogical writing is this where that girl is having hesitation to hug that guy back for who m she was planning surprises 2 days back and was so much comfortable with him during shower scene .

For me ruhaan is nowhere in the picture here . My complete thought process and reply is focusing mishti 's hesitation. Agree one can be confused for having attraction for third person while being engaged but my point is only revolves around why sudden hesitation for veer ?

If you really love him than hugg him more tightly to fight back against your attraction because that hug to your love will give you strength to fight against odds .

What if she didn't want to be intimate with Veer having all those confused feelings in her mind ??

May be She is trying to stay loyal . She will sort out her feelings first rather than faking it for Veer

If she was shown happy and comfortable with Veer , she would be labelled as a two timer ..who is having feelings for Ruhaan and also enjoying with Veer.

So probably both the options are giving chances for Mishti to be bashed or judged .

We should wait for her to end this confusion in her mind .