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Posted: 6 years ago
#91

Originally posted by: anshvi



Umm no again a strong reason is asked for seeking a divorce and it is not ki bhai Aise hi sparks ude aur kisi aur se pyar ho Gaya althofuh my partner jaan chidkos on me !

It doesn't work like this ! Valid reason is needed be it abuse or compatibility issues etc.
Happy Relation mein rehkar no one goes for a divorce



Kisi aur se pyar hua is liye usi ke saath rehna hai. That's reason enough 😆 . No one breaks a relation due to sparks. Mishti is not doing either. She will break it when sparks lead to love.

If the partner falls for someone else, how is the earlier relation happy ?? It becomes a burden for him/ her.
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Posted: 6 years ago
#92

Originally posted by: surabhi01

aise silly reason mein koi engagement ya marriage nahi todta until there is serious reason like unless there is emotional abuse, verbal abuse and physical abuse . abhi tuk veer ne mishty ko kisi baat ke liye torture nahi kiya so I find no reason mishty leaving veer



You mean abuse ke bina koi relation break nahi karta? That's quite extreme.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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even court does not accept such stupid reason for divorce. court also want valid reason unless there is valid reason Petioner is not eligible to file case of divorce
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: surabhi01

even court does not accept such stupid reason for divorce. court also want valid reason unless there is valid reason Petioner is not eligible to file case of divorce



Engagement to kisi bhi reason se break kar sakte hain. Court mein Jane ki zaroorat hi nahi hai.
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Posted: 6 years ago
#95
I find it extreme when spouse leave his or spouse with out any reason


if anyone break marriage with out any serious reason iska matab yeh Hua ki uske liye marriage commitment sub mazaak hai ki jub man kiya commitment kiya aura jub man kiya commitment tod diya

kyon bhai saamne wala koi khilona hai kya
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Posted: 6 years ago
#96
if mishty break commitment with out any serious or valid reason that means she is making joke of commitment
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Posted: 6 years ago
#97
So does not matter u don't love a person anymore ...if he is sweet just to please him u should sacrifice ur emotions 😆? Aise na khud Khush reh payge na use rakh payge 😊 Compatibility issues hote hai they are as serious as violence 😃 they disturb your mind.
And shopping thing is not silly , veer could have done things that mishty likes may be going out to orphanage, helping others or there r many ideas but he decided easy and materialistic way out 😛 no every girl loves shopping... Aisa relation real me bhi nhi tikta...
Fancy gifts are nothing , love n spark keeps a Rln moving on
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Posted: 6 years ago
#98

Originally posted by: krystal_watz


Every single human being has had crushes or loves in their lives, so I don't see why you think I'm an exception. 😆 I'm not from Uranus ya know.

'Love at first sight' is an oxymoronic term. Love is something deep and develops with getting to know someone. Being attracted to someone is not love, no matter how 'special' it mighty feel. Love is when you love someone for their nature and the ways in which they appeal to you. How can that happen at first sight? Or a hundred sights for that matter? Love comes from knowing someone as a human being. Anything else is attraction. Infatuation or crush is also a form of lust only. Its lust+a little something more, but still its lust and not love. Crush feels like love, but its not love right?


You yourself said that Ruhaan fell for her looks. There's a name for that. It's 'lust'. Lust doesn't always have to be nasty and cringe worthy. Any physical attraction you feel towards someone you don't love is lust, no matter which form it might take. And Ruhaan did fantasize about her in THAT way. How else can you explain him caressing the tissue with her lipstick mark on it? Obviously in Indian TV they cannot show him thinking about her naked body. 😛

Mishti was irritated with him at first but now she's also feeling lust for him. That's why her heartbeat increases and she feels tense around him. That's a sign of physical attraction.


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Posted: 6 years ago
#99
what a funny reason to break engagement just because mishty don't like shopping .??

kya is choti moti baat ka hal baat cheet ke dwara nahi nikala jaa sakta koi zaroori hai hard choti baat ke liye engagement break kiya jaaye


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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: sweet_tania



Bold Black : Mishti character ka patchka anyways hoga he hoga because as per theme silsila mishti ki wajah se badalnewala hai by showing her having attraction for other guy being engaged. Season 2 announce hua usi din mishti ke character ka patchka hoga iss bar ye fix he tha so it doesn't bother me much.

Bold red : Shaddi karne ke liye thoda sa pyar nai chalta , strong foundation honi chahiye jo yaha kisi bhi couple ke bich nai hai . Sab ke sab hawa mai udd rahe hai . Mishti ki pagalpanti hai ki set ,secure , perfection , commitment ke piche 23-24 ki age mai bhag rai hai . Ab uske faulty relationship concepts ki wajah se wo or veer dono suffer karege.

Bold Blue : Mishti 's center of life is around set , secure , perfect , commitment as per writers . Since episode 1 writer always maintain one line from mishti's mouth "Veer is perfect for me " which is very faulty concept to survive in marriage. She never said the best part of her relationship is his and her love for each other . Unke relationship mai physical romance tha , goody goody talks the , comfort tha par bewakoof ladki ko yeh lagta tha ki couples mai sirf itna he ho to marriage ke liye kafi hai . For writers also mishti was never in love with veer that's why they chose to give line like veer is PERFECT for me .





I agree...love should be there in the marriage...but they are not married yet right?...Many ppl are opting for arranged marriages these days...sometimes love can happen after the marriage...So you shouldnt generalise the statement that "Shaadi karne keliye love is necessary"...In arranged marriages...ppl see the secure,set,perfection,commitment...which you mentioned...it doesnt mean that all those marriages will fail...There is no garentee whether it is love or arranged...marriage can fail sometimes ...So we should accept that love can happen after the marriage if it was not there before the marriage...and at the same time..there is no garentee that the couple who are in love before the marriage will stay together forever...they may divorce for various reasons




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And also how many ppl are marrying after loving their fiancee these days??...In arranged marriages it takes time for developing of trust and love between the couple...sometimes its possible only after the marriage...i am not saying Mishveer's is arranged marriage...but you are generalising the statement that love should be there before the marriage...so i am giving the example of arranged marriages
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