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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: chicksoup


Not at all contradictory.

I have explained clearly that love cannot be contained in one strict definition.

It is one way for Pari, another way for Arnav, different way for Ruhaan and Mishti.
This is Clearly why Mishti is as confused as you. She believes in your definition of love. 😆
Ruhaan is not confused. This is the first time he has felt this way about someone and he knows it is love.

If you are looking for a love story that is supposed to go according to some rule, you won't find it. Anyway, since you're happy watching this show and love judging characters , that is your way of enjoying the show. Good for you. Hope you find the love story you are looking for in any one of the characters. 😆 For me, I find love in stories of all the characters. 😊

The point in Mishti's love story - if you are really looking for a reason - all those arguments are created. They are her reactions to the feeling she is not comfortable with. Those are all interactions that have brought them closer without any conversations . Ruhaan knows her better than she knows him, because he has paid attention to every detail related to her. Like, he knows she will listen to whatever Veer says because he observed how she agreed to him Immediately when asked to go to the cafe with Ruhaan. It is the same amount of interaction, similar feelings, but different level of understanding. That's because Mishti resisted, Ruhaan didn't.



I'm not really talking about any 'rule of falling in love' here. What I said is, that you need to know someone to a certain extent to fall in love.

And in my opinion, just observing someone and hearing about them is not enough to know someone deeply.

All three-Pari, Mishti and Ruhaan are not in love, it's a crush.

Do you think what happened to Pari after she first met Ruhaan was 'love'? 😆 If that was the case, then there would be no such word as 'infatuation' or 'attraction'. Only the word 'love' would exist. There's a reason we differentiate between infatuation, attraction and love.


There are no rules for falling in love except one---and that is, you have to know the human being to a certain level before you can fall in love with them. And this is generally accepted by all.

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