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Posted: 6 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: chirpyhapibird

If she was marrying veer out of insecurities...then also she was betraying Veer without Ruhaan in the picture.

Just because you had a cheater father and other cheaters in your parents life doesn't mean you will...go with the baggage in someone's else life.

IF her insecurities were so grave...as from shown time to time...why didn't she go for marriage counselling and also see psychiatrist ?

Why make veer's life miserable ?


Bold Black : Yes mishti has made wrong decision of marriage by running behind secure , set , perfect life definition because of seeing mauli's miserable past life now it will going to hamper veer's life too . Ruhaan is nowhere in picture here.

Bold red :Neither She is scared of marriage so no need of marriage counselling nor she needs psychiatrist , all she need is one good friend a part from family member who can guide her properly on how her thought process is wrong by running behind set , secure , perfect life definition because in real marriage doesn't demand set secure perfect life definition, it demands strong love and tranparency at every stage of marriage life.

Yeh baat usko koi psychiatrist ya marriage counselling vale nai samja sakte . Maa-baap ya koi bada samja sakta hai . Maa baap to hai nai , radhika ke level ki baat nai yeh samjana , suu bua is utter nonsense , pari -ansh is younger than her .So family kuch nai kar sakti only good friend can make her understand that stop running behind set , secure , perfect , commitment words because this can't be base of any of new relationship.

Veer will anyways going to suffer because of mishti's faulty marriage definition , why he should suffer for entire life by marring mishti ?
Edited by sweet_tania - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
#52

Originally posted by: sweet_tania




Bold Black : Mishti character ka patchka anyways hoga he hoga because as per theme silsila mishti ki wajah se badalnewala hai by showing her having attraction for other guy being engaged. Season 2 announce hua usi din mishti ke character ka patchka hoga iss bar ye fix he tha so it doesn't bother me much.

Bold red : Shaddi karne ke liye thoda sa pyar nai chalta , strong foundation honi chahiye jo yaha kisi bhi couple ke bich nai hai . Sab ke sab hawa mai udd rahe hai . Mishti ki pagalpanti hai ki set ,secure , perfection , commitment ke piche 23-24 ki age mai bhag rai hai . Ab uske faulty relationship concepts ki wajah se wo or veer dono suffer karege.

Bold Blue : Mishti 's center of life is around set , secure , perfect , commitment as per writers . Since episode 1 writer always maintain one line from mishti's mouth "Veer is perfect for me " which is very faulty concept to survive in marriage. She never said the best part of her relationship is his and her love for each other . Unke relationship mai physical romance tha , goody goody talks the , comfort tha par bewakoof ladki ko yeh lagta tha ki couples mai sirf itna he ho to marriage ke liye kafi hai . For writers also mishti was never in love with veer that's why they chose to give line like veer is PERFECT for me .





Character pachka is not cuz of theme. It is because of execution. There is no mishaan bond whereas Veer ke saath she had.
Writers gave line that VEER IS PERFECT, writers also have lines where she said I LOVE U so many times, agreeing to marry a 100 times etc.

Till Ruhaan came along everything was good between mishveer so what did ruhaan do to bring this flip within her? Why not veer and why ruhaan? What did veer not do that ruhaan did? Mishaan doesn't hv bond.
If she was not committed n shown in love with veer, my above questions wouldn't hv arised.
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Posted: 6 years ago
#53

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

LOL why is Pari being discussed here? The topic is about Mishti. 🤣


Seriously, when you cannot defend Mishti then start bashing Pari although the post is not on her. 😆

Why not? Why can't we bring Pari here when both are part of same show, same writer so comparison banta hai ki sare character faulty hai...why to single out one 😳
Ab example se defend to karege hi mishaan fans..No? Even lawyers use old case laws of others to proove their point 😆😆
And if MISHAAN love is physical attraction then RiHaan is also same , ab Kal ko koi ruhaan se sexy ladka AA gya to Pari uske liye Bhi ready ho jaygi 😭 bechara Arnav is not good looking enough to friend zoned Kar Diya 😳
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Posted: 6 years ago
#54

Originally posted by: pallavi_

Why not? Why can't we bring Pari here when both are part of same show, same writer so comparison banta hai ki sare character faulty hai...why to single out one 😳
Ab example se defend to karege hi mishaan fans..No? Even lawyers use old case laws of others to proove their point 😆😆
And if MISHAAN love is physical attraction then RiHaan is also same , ab Kal ko koi ruhaan se sexy ladka AA gya to Pari uske liye Bhi ready ho jaygi 😭 bechara Arnav is not good looking enough to friend zoned Kar Diya 😳


Pari isn't in a relationship so she is free to do anything she wants. So even if she is physically attracted to ruhaan. It's not a big deal.
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Posted: 6 years ago
#55

Originally posted by: tanvismile


Pari isn't in a relationship so she is free to do anything she wants. So even if she is physically attracted to ruhaan. It's not a big deal.

I was talking about hypothetical situation that some members pointed out here that If Mishti find someone better than ruhaan she should left her and move on so we can say that same with Pari , abhi tak to she hated commitment ..hot ladka dekha to I guess m in love 🥱😕 ab usse jyada hot koi dikha to she will do same??
And suppose for argument sake maan lete hai Mishti is physically attracted to ruhaan so what's big deal? If we are in love we won't be attracted to anyone ,no matter how hot he is..same was Kunal in S1. so it only prooved u r not stable in relationship,move on and find yourself what you want
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: pallavi_

I was talking about hypothetical situation that some members pointed out here that If Mishti find someone better than ruhaan she should left her and move on so we can say that same with Pari , abhi tak to she hated commitment ..hot ladka dekha to I guess m in love 🥱😕 ab usse jyada hot koi dikha to she will do same??
And suppose for argument sake maan lete hai Mishti is physically attracted to ruhaan so what's big deal? If we are in love we won't be attracted to anyone ,no matter how hot he is..same was Kunal in S1. so it only prooved u r not stable in relationship,move on and find yourself what you want

That was my comment n I suggest u to go n read it again
Did i use hotness n looks as an aspect
Someone quoted me n said mishti is seeing ruhaan's good side...she meant his nature n i too meant that only
Nowhere in my comment i used physical attraction u just imagined that by yourself
N regarding pari hot or cool...physically or emotinally doesn't count coz she is single...she can date anyone
n i guess she is commitment phobic not love phobic...being commitment phobic is different...it means a person doesn't want to commit...there isn't any rule that she can't fall for a guy the problem is commitment not falling in love

Edited by SONAL30 - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: SONAL30

That was my comment n I suggest u to go n read it again
Did i use hotness n looks as an aspect
Someone quoted me n said mishti is seeing ruhaan's good side...she meant his nature n i too meant that only
Nowhere in my comment i used physical attraction u just imagined that by yourself
N regarding pari hot or cool...physically or emotinally doesn't count coz she is single...she can date anyone
n i guess she is commitment phobic not love phobic...being commitment phobic is different...it means a person doesn't want to commit...there isn't any rule that she can't fall for a guy the problem is commitment not falling in love

So by your logic straight away...being in commitment and being in love are two different things 😆 so why we are bashing Mishti for this 😳
And what good side? Arnav helps her more ..stand by her since childhood.why not he?? And yeah good side tabhi ruhaan ko dekhte hi ready Hui thi Pari 😆😛 and Pari can date anyone but it's her one sided love as of now so she can't date anyone or ruhaan untill and unless feelings are reciprocated...
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Posted: 6 years ago
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pehli bar pyar mein padna aur doorse ke liye pyar mein Dhokha dena baatein chupana mein bahut difference hai. in dono mein koi equality nahi hai

pari yahan pehli baar pyar mein pad kar kisi unmarried se kisi ko Dhokha nahi de rahi

pure yahan mishty baaten chupa kar veer se Dhokha de rahi hai veer ko
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: pallavi_

I was talking about hypothetical situation that some members pointed out here that If Mishti find someone better than ruhaan she should left her and move on so we can say that same with Pari , abhi tak to she hated commitment ..hot ladka dekha to I guess m in love 🥱😕 ab usse jyada hot koi dikha to she will do same??
And suppose for argument sake maan lete hai Mishti is physically attracted to ruhaan so what's big deal? If we are in love we won't be attracted to anyone ,no matter how hot he is..same was Kunal in S1. so it only prooved u r not stable in relationship,move on and find yourself what you want


it means kunal was also right except cheating part.. got it
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: pallavi_

So by your logic straight away...being in commitment and being in love are two different things 😆 so why we are bashing Mishti for this 😳
And what good side? Arnav helps her more ..stand by her since childhood.why not he?? And yeah good side tabhi ruhaan ko dekhte hi ready Hui thi Pari 😆😛 and Pari can date anyone but it's her one sided love as of now so she can't date anyone or ruhaan untill and unless feelings are reciprocated...

@ bold
This is not my logic...these two things r actually different
Falling for a guy means...u r liking him or falling in love with him...it can be one sided or may be u told him...pari's case
Commitment means that u love a guy n you told him that n in return he accepted ur feelings n now u both r together...it means u both r together by ur choice hence u r committed to each other...MishVeer's case
No one put a gun on mishti's head n told her to accept veer's proposal...she herself accepted his love so this is her duty to be faithful to him
@blue...u yourself differentiated the two things
@red...that's pari's choice...she is clear about her feelings n arnav is aware about it...he knows she doesn't love him
Do u guys (whoever compares mishri's situation) seriously listen to yourself sometimes...why is it so hard to understand that pari n mishti r not on same page...mishti is engaged for god's sake...she can not be compared to a single girl
Mishti is getting bashed for her flip flop behavior...if u don't have guts to stay true to ur partner then don't commit at least do not spoil anyone's else life if u can't get a grip on ur feelings...simple
Edited by SONAL30 - 6 years ago

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