mistis imaginary pain... - Page 2

Originally posted by: dmegha

Yeah of-course. It doesn't hurt when your biological father leaves your mother, refusing to even accept that the child existed. It doesn't hurt when your biological father leaves your mother for some other woman, for some other child.

It shouldn't hurt because hey! you have this new father, just perfect! Kunal toh Mishti ka papa hai hi nahi na, chalo yeh bhi maan liya. But he his her sperm donor, no? At-least they share something in the name of blood and genes. Toh kuch attachment to hoga na? She is human after all.

Mishti's pain isn't just related to Kunal-Mauli-Nandini situation and I wonder how difficult is it to understand. And that Pari and Mishti's pain and burdens come from different situations but nahi, humme toh sirf ek standard hi dekhna hai. Human nature is just so f**king flat-lined that har musibat ki jad ek hi hoti hai.

Mishti's pain is derived from the fact that love isn't always enough, that love isn't perfect, that love doesn't give you stability! Her pain is her fear, the fear that makes her run away from love and seek stability. The fear that makes her deny her true self and pretend to be someone perfect. The fear that makes her deny hide her true feelings and do everything to make others happy because you never know when the other person will leave you.

Mishti knows what her mother went through when her sperm donor left her for some other woman. She knows just how much Mauli loved Kunal but at the end Kunal went to Nandini. For Mishti, Kunal was Mauli's love and Ishaan was Mauli's stability, a commitment. Which is why Mishti has chosen Veer at first place.

I am surprised by how favoritism can affect someone. It's not just you but there are others who consider that Pari's pain is just imaginary. Is it like some tit for tat or you will do that then I will do this thing?

Kamaal hai nahi?😆 We just see what we want to see and deny the existence of something we don't even care about.

And please do not term me as a pro-Mishti and anti-Pari, go through my posts first and you will notice that I consider Mishti and Pari as equals.

Originally posted by: rajh

1st point --i am not anti misti person...

now coming your points--yes..i surly feel --she should not get get affected by kunal...mouli and kunal ke beech agreement and patchup hochuka tha at airport scene...

in that scene kunal actually assured misti that he will there for her whenever she requires him...so she should be happy with this agreement...usse apna man chaha family mila aur biological father assurance mila...

but why even now kunal and nadini affecting her??if they affect her so much then she should be away from pari as she will remind her kunal and nandini every minute...

and teju interview also confirmed this on 1st day--kunal se misti ko problem hai...

now gajra need to tell us what exactly mistis problem with kunal...i cant able to assume everything myself...

other i will stick to my point -she got perfect atmosphere all along and her pain imaginary...

Originally posted by: dmegha

And I have to take Digital Marketing & Cognitive Analytics tests tomorrow so I am signing off to prepare for them.

I will be commenting to the responses to my posts after my exams

Originally posted by: Cinnamonn

What the hell are you talking about. of course, like everyone else in the world, Mishti has pain. She may not show it but she has it. What nonsense are you saying that her pain is imaginary! Just because she ain't shedding tears like Pari or vividly showing her insecurities?

Did you wonder why she is a perfectionist? Why everything has to be a certain way? She lost her parents at a certain age. Her father cheated on her mother and left her.

Just because a person is happy on the outside doesn't mean everything is always fine. She could be battling an inner turmoil and pretend to be fine so no one would know. Sometimes, the happiness people are the saddest.

Also, they haven't yet showed Mishit's insecurity or pain. You shouldn't judge a book by it's cover.