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Posted: 7 years ago
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mistis imaginary pain...

actually what pain misti going through ??

she got everything she wished for perfect family..then kya kami raha gayi??[ her version of perfect family is mouli -ishaan-herself -and pari ].so she got everything she wished far... i see no pain in her life..

kunal aur mouli ke beech kya huwa tha uska usse koi vaasta nahin...then which pain she gone through??

her pain actually just imaginary not real...

paris pain is real where as mistis pain is imaginary...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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She is in early 20s and has lost her parents. Isn't that painful?
Yes, she may have got the perfect family she wished for but whats the use when she doesn't have her parents (Ishaan and Mouli) and has lost them at such a young age.

Yes, Pari has suffered but how can you claim that Mishti's pain is imaginary? She is suffering too. Both of the girls have lost their parents.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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As we are getting Pari's insights we can think that way..But that won't confirm that Mishti is not having any inner turmoil.As the elder daughter of the family she might be hiding her feelings ..How can one not suffer when they lost their parents at a very young age..Also being elder one she took all the responsibilities as mentioned by Radhika..If writers start showing her thoughts then we will get to know about Mishti's inner feelings
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Posted: 7 years ago
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It's quite harsh of you to call her pain imaginary. She's still a young adult suffering from the loss of her parents. It's quite real, not imaginary at all.
Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: rajh

mistis imaginary pain...

actually what pain misti going through ??

she got everything she wished for perfect family..then kya kami raha gayi??[ her version of perfect family is mouli -ishaan-herself -and pari ].so she got everything she wished far... i see no pain in her life..

kunal aur mouli ke beech kya huwa tha uska usse koi vaasta nahin...then which pain she gone through??

her pain actually just imaginary not real...

paris pain is real where as mistis pain is imaginary...


Yeah of-course. It doesn't hurt when your biological father leaves your mother, refusing to even accept that the child existed. It doesn't hurt when your biological father leaves your mother for some other woman, for some other child.

It shouldn't hurt because hey! you have this new father, just perfect! Kunal toh Mishti ka papa hai hi nahi na, chalo yeh bhi maan liya. But he his her sperm donor, no? At-least they share something in the name of blood and genes. Toh kuch attachment to hoga na? She is human after all.

Mishti's pain isn't just related to Kunal-Mauli-Nandini situation and I wonder how difficult is it to understand. And that Pari and Mishti's pain and burdens come from different situations but nahi, humme toh sirf ek standard hi dekhna hai. Human nature is just so f**king flat-lined that har musibat ki jad ek hi hoti hai.

Mishti's pain is derived from the fact that love isn't always enough, that love isn't perfect, that love doesn't give you stability! Her pain is her fear, the fear that makes her run away from love and seek stability. The fear that makes her deny her true self and pretend to be someone perfect. The fear that makes her deny hide her true feelings and do everything to make others happy because you never know when the other person will leave you.

Mishti knows what her mother went through when her sperm donor left her for some other woman. She knows just how much Mauli loved Kunal but at the end Kunal went to Nandini. For Mishti, Kunal was Mauli's love and Ishaan was Mauli's stability, a commitment. Which is why Mishti has chosen Veer at first place.

I am surprised by how favoritism can affect someone. It's not just you but there are others who consider that Pari's pain is just imaginary. Is it like some tit for tat or you will do that then I will do this thing?

Kamaal hai nahi?😆 We just see what we want to see and deny the existence of something we don't even care about.

And please do not term me as a pro-Mishti and anti-Pari, go through my posts first and you will notice that I consider Mishti and Pari as equals.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: dmegha


Yeah of-course. It doesn't hurt when your biological father leaves your mother, refusing to even accept that the child existed. It doesn't hurt when your biological father leaves your mother for some other woman, for some other child.

It shouldn't hurt because hey! you have this new father, just perfect! Kunal toh Mishti ka papa hai hi nahi na, chalo yeh bhi maan liya. But he his her sperm donor, no? At-least they share something in the name of blood and genes. Toh kuch attachment to hoga na? She is human after all.

Mishti's pain isn't just related to Kunal-Mauli-Nandini situation and I wonder how difficult is it to understand. And that Pari and Mishti's pain and burdens come from different situations but nahi, humme toh sirf ek standard hi dekhna hai. Human nature is just so f**king flat-lined that har musibat ki jad ek hi hoti hai.

Mishti's pain is derived from the fact that love isn't always enough, that love isn't perfect, that love doesn't give you stability! Her pain is her fear, the fear that makes her run away from love and seek stability. The fear that makes her deny her true self and pretend to be someone perfect. The fear that makes her deny hide her true feelings and do everything to make others happy because you never know when the other person will leave you.

Mishti knows what her mother went through when her sperm donor left her for some other woman. She knows just how much Mauli loved Kunal but at the end Kunal went to Nandini. For Mishti, Kunal was Mauli's love and Ishaan was Mauli's stability, a commitment. Which is why Mishti has chosen Veer at first place.

I am surprised by how favoritism can affect someone. It's not just you but there are others who consider that Pari's pain is just imaginary. Is it like some tit for tat or you will do that then I will do this thing?

Kamaal hai nahi?😆 We just see what we want to see and deny the existence of something we don't even care about.

And please do not term me as a pro-Mishti and anti-Pari, go through my posts first and you will notice that I consider Mishti and Pari as equals.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: MsChanadlerBong

She is in early 20s and has lost her parents. Isn't that painful?

Yes, she may have got the perfect family she wished for but whats the use when she doesn't have her parents (Ishaan and Mouli) and has lost them at such a young age.

Yes, Pari has suffered but how can you claim that Mishti's pain is imaginary? She is suffering too. Both of the girls have lost their parents.


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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: dmegha


Yeah of-course. It doesn't hurt when your biological father leaves your mother, refusing to even accept that the child existed. It doesn't hurt when your biological father leaves your mother for some other woman, for some other child.

It shouldn't hurt because hey! you have this new father, just perfect! Kunal toh Mishti ka papa hai hi nahi na, chalo yeh bhi maan liya. But he his her sperm donor, no? At-least they share something in the name of blood and genes. Toh kuch attachment to hoga na? She is human after all.

Mishti's pain isn't just related to Kunal-Mauli-Nandini situation and I wonder how difficult is it to understand. And that Pari and Mishti's pain and burdens come from different situations but nahi, humme toh sirf ek standard hi dekhna hai. Human nature is just so f**king flat-lined that har musibat ki jad ek hi hoti hai.

Mishti's pain is derived from the fact that love isn't always enough, that love isn't perfect, that love doesn't give you stability! Her pain is her fear, the fear that makes her run away from love and seek stability. The fear that makes her deny her true self and pretend to be someone perfect. The fear that makes her deny hide her true feelings and do everything to make others happy because you never know when the other person will leave you.

Mishti knows what her mother went through when her sperm donor left her for some other woman. She knows just how much Mauli loved Kunal but at the end Kunal went to Nandini. For Mishti, Kunal was Mauli's love and Ishaan was Mauli's stability, a commitment. Which is why Mishti has chosen Veer at first place.

I am surprised by how favoritism can affect someone. It's not just you but there are others who consider that Pari's pain is just imaginary. Is it like some tit for tat or you will do that then I will do this thing?

Kamaal hai nahi? 😆 We just see what we want to see and deny the existence of something we don't even care about.

And please do not term me as a pro-Mishti and anti-Pari, go through my posts first and you will notice that I consider Mishti and Pari as equals.


U said it all...on point ...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: dmegha




Mishti knows what her mother went through when her sperm donor left her for some other woman. She knows just how much Mauli loved Kunal but at the end Kunal went to Nandini. For Mishti, Kunal was Mauli's love and Ishaan was Mauli's stability, a commitment. Which is why Mishti has chosen Veer at first place



excuse me lol 😆 ishaan was not a stability or commitement he is mauli s true love she herself said that and mishti was very well present there smiling brightly she knows that only ishaan is her mumma s true as she choose her over kunal even though everybody from dida to par was pleading mauli to accept kunal

i suggest you t watch the first epi of season 2 and please do clearly watch the airport scene what mauli said and please do not forget to note mishti s bright smile when her mumma confessed her love for mishti s popsie

so no for mishti her popsie was her mumma s true love


and mishti s pain is her deep-rooted insecurities the fear f ending up with somebdy like her biological father
Edited by Metis - 7 years ago
Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Poorabhforever


excuse me lol 😆 ishaan was not a stability or commitement he is mauli s true love she herself said that and mishti was very well present there smiling brightly she knows that only ishaan is her mumma s true as she choose her over kunal even though everybody from dida to par was pleading mauli to accept kunal

i suggest you t watch the first epi of season 2 and please do clearly watch the airport scene what mauli said and please do not forget to note mishti s bright smile when her mumma confessed her love for mishti s popsie

so no for mishti her popsie was her mumma s true love

i dont get it how hard it is for people to accept this simple fact when mauli herself confessed that ishaan is her only true love


and mishti s pain is her deep-rooted insecurities the fear f ending up with somebdy like her biological father


There is something called taking an example!😆
I never said that Ishaan wasn't love for Mauli, I just represented the extra quality that Ishaan had over Kunal. That one quality that Mishti thinks of as a standard.

I think you didn't actually understand my words, maybe I didn't explain properly.😳

And I have watched the episode and guess what I actually treated my friends (who watch Silsila) with an extra cheeseburger and KitKat milkshake because I was extremely happy for Mauli choosing Ishaan.

What my point is that though Mishti knows that Ishaan was the one for Mauli but that isn't just because of love, it's also because of the stability and commitment that Ishaan gave to Mauli which Kunal couldn't. Take it as an error of omission from my side and chillax!😃

@bold - isn't that exactly my point? That no matter how much perfect family Ishaan gave to Mishti, having Kunal around was always a reminder that her mother was cheated on. That's why I said that Mishti's pain is her fear.

Next time try understanding a statement first before mocking anybody. That would help greatly. And I apologize for the error of omission😊 it wasn't deliberate.
Edited by dmegha - 7 years ago

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