Mishti, a kind kiddo !!! - Page 2

Originally posted by: looseseal

Yes, yes, yes to all of your point.

In this show everyone is held accountable for hurt or inconvience they caused to Kunal (and earlier Nandini).

Mouli has shamed for asking Kunal back (while drunk btw)

Mouli was blamed for Nandinis kidnapping ---> wasnt true. ---> no apologies from divine lovers

As if they werent don with cheating and falsely accusing ----> Kunal.again blames and shame Mouli

Kunal comes to.know tha Mouli was infact not lying but he had falsely accused her -----> again no.apologies

Where are people asking for Kunal psychologically harming Mishti by blurting the truth? (If Sandhya has to pay for traumatizing Pari, doesnt Kunal have to do the same?)

Kunal yet again humiliates Mouli by throwing her out of home ----> Radhika (andfans) praises him for doing tje sacrifice

All this while making Sandhya the villain. Is Sandhya moophat? Yes. And yes I know she is increasingly becoming more and more evil and annoying. But its hard to make Sandhya the evil, when the so called hero has been given not just a free pass but praises for hurting everyone around him. Every single time.

Wordt part of loosing Ishaan-Misti is (if tha happens, and I hope it doesnt) that Mishti will be losing a father who whi loved her and wanted her to a man who so much wanted to not have her that he went on to make fictional stories about his faithful.and honest wife.

I will say tho Mishti has shown lore self respect and loyalty and decisiveness than Mouli post leap. So, maybe all is not lost.

Originally posted by: mili9

Good evening girls and boys!!!

Hope all of you are well. Today, I really don't care about anybody else, except for Mishti. Because, I just don't understand anybody else's stand at this point. I want to limit myself to Mishti alone. I watched the last 2 days, so please don't hold me on the specifics.

Mishti, a KIND, GENEROUS, LARGE HEARTED kiddo 👏 !!!! Still a 6 year old kid to throw her tantrums when she doesn't understand why and what is going on around her. She wants a logical progression of things, a structure to her life, and just like any one of us, when life and its events don't makes sense, she reacts in a way she knows, by throwing tantrums😃.

She is a spitting image of Mauli in how she makes herself available to Pari when she feels she needs her. Nobody had to invite or prod her to be present to help Pari out of her distress. She is generous with her care and time❤️. Intuitive for a small child to volunteer to feed Pari. Large hearted in not holding her grudges against Pari as somebody who had taken her place with the father she never had or experienced any love from😭

Loves and is possessive of her father, Ishaan🤗 immensely enough to fight with her mom and the whole world to get him, Involve herself in whatever nonsense the jerk engineered, because she has the big picture in front of her, her precious Popsie, not the petty details of who she is siding with. She is fiesty in putting her points across👍🏼

She is the larger person in her relationship with her biological father👍🏼❤️ She is thankful to whatever he has done for her. Out of no mistake of hers, she apologized😭 for potentially being responsible for his accident. I am surprised that nobody moved a finger to reassure that child that she is at no fault😡Did the great biological father ever, ever apologize to Mishti for leaving her, for letting her grow up fatherless, for causing such a a huge dhamaka in her young life, for shattering her confidence in herself as the unwanted, discarded child?😡NEVER as far as I know🤢 Please correct me if I am wrong, as I haven't watched all episodes. What a petty, small hearted guy!👎🏼

She has as much self respect, if not more than her mother. She gives a rat's behind about her biological father. So far, that guy is " Pari ke papa or Dr. Kunal " for her, never, once did she allow herself to call him papa👏Doesn't yearn for his love or attention, no jealousy for Pari. She understands accurately what a father should be, not just sharing DNA, but be the Lion King, like her Popsie, Ishaan🤗❤️👍🏼She doesn't take or hope for what is not hers!❤️👏👍🏼

She is sensitive just like her mom, she cries when she sees other people in pain, Pari and uske Papa. She feels and experiences other people's pain, she is not somebody who would play happily when others are hurting👏

I am in love with this child, a generous, kind, sensitive, large hearted, responsible little girl who is beautiful inside and out❤️ Not sure what the writer has in mind, but I hope kissi ka bhi nazar na lage for her and her Popsie's relationship🤗. She deserves her very own Lion King, to whom she is the most precious princess🤗😭.

See you later, guys!

Originally posted by: prettywomaniya

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mili..

such a lovely post !

i so so love mishti.. not bcz she is mauli's kid but bcz she is so mauli..

and her character is far more relatable than any other character..

she doesnt give a damn about kunal bcz he isnt her father.. her father is ishaan.

this gives a message "kuch rishte dil se hite hain khoon se nhi" 😊

she is love and she is pure..

nothing more to add.. u hve said it all..

Originally posted by: ritzbitz786

Also, regarding Mishti, I think the writers and CVs got amnesia long before Kunal did😆

Remember the pre-leap episode when Nandini/Kunal break up (on the park bench) and Nandini tells Kunal to go back to Mauli for the sake of his child and Kunal tells Nandini he can be a great father and take care of Mauli/his child while also marrying Nandini, and that Nandini too will love his child. Then Nandini tells him that is not realistic, and the kid will hate them (foreshadowing much?) if the kid finds out about their EMA, and Kunal tells Nandini that he also doesn't want his child growing up in a house where there is no love, only silence between the parents (referring to him and Mauli) but Nandini convinces him to go back to Mauli and he only goes because Nandini makes him promise.

Writers conveniently forgot about this whole episode (I think it was episode 106 on Voot), and then post-leap they showed the whole Mauli-Kunal confrontation with Kunal saying he didn't know Mauli was pregnant and had he known he would have made the marriage work, etc.

The fact of the matter is, Kunal did at one point (park conversation with Nandini above) not care about the future birth of Mishti and even after knowing Mauli was pregnant, he still wanted to marry Nandini.

So Mishti's whole anger that she had towards him, for me, was justified. She is 6, that is how they deal with emotions at that age. They don't have higher level thinking yet. They just have defense mechanisms, anger being one of them.

So I never understood why Mishti (or Pari) get so much negativity some
times.

Originally posted by: Rhimjhimsawan

Mishti is great. Also according to the show so much like her father, the real one. I can see it too. She has most similarities with Kunal

She has been so impressive in last few episodes. She is kind, so extremely thoughtful. And the best thing of all she is very observant. It is amazing.

Originally posted by: mili9

Girls, thanks for all the opinions and comments. Enjoyed reading each and every one of them😃.

Especially liked the bolded part here, @ looseseal ( not sure if this is how you want to be addressed ). Exactly, people in the show seem to have conveniently forgotten everything bad that happened to Mishti as a result of Kunal. The show made Mishti into a villain instead, for reacting to what was doled out to her.😡👎🏼 Mishti's emotional pain, acts were consequences of lewd, selfish and irresponsible behavior of her biological father all through her life.👎🏼

However, the same is not true with Sandhya. Not sure, why and how that works. Pari's kidnap, her distress and Kunal's shooting are because of irresponsible behavior of Sandhya, if I twist myself hard enough. Because, Kunal is blessed with divinity on earth, he doesn't get touched by any of his bad deeds???😡 Is that it? But because, Sandhya is sent into the show with a stamp on her forehead as " evil", she has to be looked at as an evil person? I am just talking about the bolded part ONLY, not all the other stupid utterings. I am sure I can find analogous utterings from Kunal as well ( may not be similar ) if I looked hard enough. 😲

Originally posted by: looseseal

You can call me Looseal :)

Regarding Sandhya: she is nor evil nor the best person. The only thing she has done thats objectively wrong is not telling Mouli/Kunal or his family that Pari had come by. Like the kid was missing and she could have said yes Pari came here but left without saying anything (which is also true, remember Sandhya was gonna find someone to bring Pari home).I totally disagree that it was Sandhya's fault that Pari got kidnapped or Kunal got shot.

Secondly, there was "blackmailing" Pari into silence. Thats the bitchiest thing she has done and I am sure it will come out.

And yes there are other stuff like her taunting Mouli about being a divorcee or telling Pari about Nandini, its bitchy sure. But its not malicious nor evil.She was initially shocked about Mouli but after Mouli came back she seems pretty accommodating, no? It wasn't her place to tell Pari but its not like she went around telling people or Pari. Pari was there, she asked and Sandhya told her the truth. Also Pari wasn't leaving without an answer. Could she have been more more sensetive sure. But honestly, people are making waaay big of a deal out of it.

Like I said, when your favorite is an insensitive cheater, its much easier to find and magnify others"flaws". If Mouli can still be kind to Kunal after everything he himself did, Mouli can definately be with Ishaan and look past Sandhya's flaws.

Originally posted by: mili9

@looseseal , agree with everything you said, here. Specially the bolded part👍🏼.

I am going to digress like mad today. People who don't like lectures, shouldn't read this. I have already warned you guys !😊

I feel that the writers are intentionally showing two very different households. One where everything is neat, homely, with an amazing mamma and dida and the other with a grating MIL and Sweety👎🏼. But tell me guys, which mature woman/girl would choose her life partner based on what the packaging is😲.

Here is where my problem lies. They are dumbing down Mauli i👎🏼n front of Sandhya for the one and only reason, to highlight the other household. Realistically speaking, a lot of MILs can be like Sandhya, preaching and hoping to mould their DILs for their liking or for the comforts of their sons, not truly bad intentions. For me, there is nothing wrong if Mauli shared with Ishaan, her displeasure with Sandhya's words of severing ties with mamma and dida and to deal with his mom about that aspect. It would have been perfectly fair if she let him handle his mother about this unrealistic expectation. Ishaan doesn't need to have an ugly, stand offish confrontation with his mother in front of Mauli to express his allegiance to Mauli but can talk to his mom in private that he wouldn't tolerate her putting conditions to Mauli. This would have given Ishaan space and his mom an opportunity to save face. Because at the end of the day, she is still his mother, and just like any of us who have a intense emotional bonding with our parents despite our day to day spats, the guys' also would have had similar bonding with their parents. But hiding this fact or other facts from him, with some stupid altruism of not breaking mother-son bond is utter bullshit.👎🏼 Instead of dealing with it head on, she is now resentful, shooting hurtful, pained, can't believe she is saying this, kind of expressions are annoying me😡. By keeping Ishaan in the dark about his mom's conditions, he will not understand where Mauli is coming from if she is annoyed at his mother for other things😒This secrecy is serving no purpose for either Mauli or Ishaan.

If it were some teenager or an immature 20 something, I wouldn't have complained as much. This is Mauli we are talking about, she dealt with creeps like Rajdeep and Makhija with no fear, she was in their face, but now hesitates dealing with a dominating MIL? She is a physician, she had dealt with people from all sorts of backgrounds, intentions, famuly dynamics and emotions. If I were in her place, I wouldn't have let anybody, be it MIL or Ishaan interfere with my professional life😡😡 I can't believe what I saw the other day, when she meekly goes to the hospital to take care of an emergency while she is grieving. That was unpardonable on her part, so she had effectively put another 2 lives in danger by operating on somebody not being in a good frame of mind😡👎🏼For what? I know it is a show, but I am so angry at this. But, this is somebody's life ( patient ), you don't do anything to them just to prove something. Very disappointing. Mind you guys, I am not blaming Mauli, I am just pointing out the fact that they are intentionally dumbing down Mauli and Ishaan in front of Sandhya👎🏼

At the end of the day, Kunal comes packaged with a great, understanding mamma, dida and a cute baggage from the EMA, a homely house, a pleasant Promila added in for a good measure. And Ishaan has dominating Sandhya and a meddlesome Sweety? The writers want us to choose Kunal with a bow on his head and discard Ishaan. But why would or should any girl/woman choose a pretty package when you know the contents are simply kachra😡😡👎🏼? Would you not wash away the dirt around a brightly shining diamond, Ishaan and keep that diamond close to your heart🤗😭? I am so very hopeful that the writer would let Mauli have her head and heart in the right place. If not, the writer would have done grave disservice to a lot of women out there living in similar predicament.

Again, a disclaimer, I am not a psychologist or a psychiatrist. It is a hobby of mine. It is extremely tiresome reading, understanding and learning about human psychology. So please, guys, take whatever I am saying here with a pinch of salt😃

Have a great day !