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Posted: 6 years ago
#31
Lol what is wrong with people? I can't believe that people are defending Kunal for cheating on, manhandling, and then having the audacity to doubt his loving wife. Maybe you should try and put yourself in Mauli's shoes. She made sacrifices for both Kunal and Nandini and what did they do to thank her? Started an affair behind her back. How would you react if you were in her position?
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Posted: 6 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: NainoMeinSapna

Lol what is wrong with people? I can't believe that people are defending Kunal for cheating on, manhandling, and then having the audacity to doubt his loving wife. Maybe you should try and put yourself in Mauli's shoes. She made sacrifices for both Kunal and Nandini and what did they do to thank her? Started an affair behind her back. How would you react if you were in her position?


that is the problem here these people don't see things through and think that EMA and all is cool but it is proven fact that EMA destroys the victims capability to trust again leaves them so much broken psychologically that they find themselves not able to trust anyone.


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Posted: 6 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: rajh



kunal left mouli because he fell out of love with her..is it sin??other than leaving mouli what other crime he has done??

if he remained with her in loveless life then actually that was biggest sin...
that would have ruined life of both...
love less marriage main zindagi bhar ghut ghut ke rehana koi sazaa se kam nahin...

so even decision to leave mouli is in best interest of both...

actually that is blessing in disguise for mouli..



Kunal n Nandini were pathetic. Romancing in the same house literally in front of everyone.
Kunal treated Mauli cruelly. He was blind with his lust for pathetic Nandini.
He fell in love with that pathetic woman, ok. But spare some consideration for Mauli ? Respect her? Handle the issue maturely?
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Posted: 6 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: Neutral2

@TM
1. Kunal was a good husband to Mauli for 7 yrs of marriage and then become bad husband to Mauli.
2. Kunal was good son to his parents until EMA
3. Kunal was a good doctor who not only care about their health but also about their financial.
4. Kunal was good husband to Nandini and good father to Pari.
5. Kunal was a good character to public until he had an eye on Nandini then he become bad character.
6. Kunal is always bad man for Mauli's fan.

You see good and bad is always about perception.

Now come to Mauli
1. Why Mauli stop Mil and Dida and Doctor to not tell Kunal about pregnancy.
2. Does Mauli not know that Kunal was back and wanted 2nd chance only because of baby.
3. Why Mauli told a lie that she was not pregnant. Instead why she didn't tell him that she is frustrated with Kunal behaviour and want divorce.

Well Mauli is only responsible for her own action. Mauli is responsible for her baby. She choose to take responsibility for Mil and Dida. She choose to not accept proposal of Ishaant all these 3 yrs.



Mauli.stopped dida and radhika from revealing the pregnancy truth to kunal because mauli didnt want kunal to come back and lead a loveless life with her only for the sake of the child, she wanted him to come back for her ..anyways , she was ready to give him a second chance for the sake of her unborn child alone but he clearly acted like a zombie without his divine love. he went back to mauli because nandini kicked his ass , not because he felt any responsibility towards the child . Now if he says that "i would have gotten over nandini for my daughter "its all crap..when he got a chance he did not , whats the guarantee that he will, in future... Kunal had told mauli that he doesnt love her , he will always love nandini so what is the point behind stopping him and blackmailing him to come back for whatever xyz reason?


The tm is absolutely correct in telling that kunal hasnt fulfilled any responsibilities towards his family , while mauli has fulfilled all of them so kunal doesnt have a right to even ask about mishti. Mishti is a kid and she is too young to understand why mauli did this , and mauli may allow her to meet kunal n whatever but mauli was abs correct then and now .


Mauli lied about her pregnancy because this is what kunal wanted to hear. When he didnt believe her , that mauli cant lie about such a big thing , went behind her back and spy on her and ask the doc about her reports , he lost the right to be told the truth . And i dare him to say that he did a mistake , that he was wrong to trust maulis lie and marry nandini and fathrr pari ! Its because of maulis lie that nandu and pari were in his life and he will never regret it. Its just that he wanted everything. He wanted mishti with nandini and pari and prolly radhika and dida too and chuck out mauli like doodh ki makhi. Thats why this reaction from him !


Edited by _charu_ - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
#35
This is what is expected out of a woman in Indian society. For a woman to consider their husbands as gods and there is no fault in husbands. To sacrifice everything for their husbands' happiness even if they live in sufferings themselves. Indian's society is still very unchanged from what it was 100 years ago.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Mauli is wrong here. Because of her lie Misti got deprived of her father's non existing love. She also lost her choti ma's pyar who would have loved her more than Kunal and mouli. She should have become mahaan and tolerated Kunal's abuse, pain given to her. Only she should be responsible others can be selfish and get away with everything.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ragiballs

Mauli is wrong here. Because of her lie Misti got deprived of her father's non existing love. She also lost her choti ma's pyar who would have loved her more than Kunal and mouli. She should have become mahaan and tolerated Kunal's abuse, pain given to her. Only she should be responsible others can be selfish and get away with everything.


Yeah. Kunal lost the right on mishti because "kunal" cbose to fall out of love with mauli . This was a part of collateral damage caused by his divine love . Mauli must remind him
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ragiballs

Mauli is wrong here. Because of her lie Misti got deprived of her father's non existing love. She also lost her choti ma's pyar who would have loved her more than Kunal and mouli. She should have become mahaan and tolerated Kunal's abuse, pain given to her. Only she should be responsible others can be selfish and get away with everything.


Mauli should have allowed kunal to be with her and also be with Nandini she should have listened to his stories of how haute Nandini is and how divine is his love he should have allowed mishti to have the kheer cooked by divine woman why not people do have two three wives what is wrong in it
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Posted: 6 years ago
#39
I do not understand the concept of falling out of love for me it is just an exercise to leave your wife.
But MR Right went above all humanity she cheated with a baharwali at his home outside behind the back of his wife. He mentally tortured his wife by staying with another woman dating her before the divorce. He insulted her left right Centre accusing her humiliating her in front of his mistress. He distrusted her in whatever she said. This is only because of falling out of love. If this is to be accepted them 90 percent of the marariges would have gone for a divorce. Kunal s unethical behavior cannot be labeled as falling out of love. People who are supporting them is just blind fan of the couple.
Coming to kunal s act now it is just he is whitewashing him so that no one points finger at him and also he is upset mauli is getting everything while he is alone with no partner to sleep with. Selfish and opportunist. He as per what I understand has not shown any interest to co parent mishti or any love or affection to her as his first born.
He took mishti from school if he has done so only because pati wanted to know what happened during engagememt and talk to mishti and she did not took her call. So kunal got mishti so that pati can gossip.
As a parent should not I guide my kid to concentrate more ok studies and other ctiviteis rather than gossiping on friends parent engagement. Or I want my kid to become a damsel who just cook dress up and gossip oops her mother was also nothing more than that. Kunal has no interest in mishti he just want spark to be happy and a family for him. To get a new damsel dancing in the rain so he wants to go back to mauli. Mishti is just a Mohra. And what can kunal give her she has a mom and to be dad who can be her mentor she has a working mom who can financially support her. Leave Radhika and Didda they can move with kunal. She is better off without his divine father even if she goes to him what will she get second hand treatment and Pari s whims and exposure to a series of bitter truth.
Only mauli has to handle her with care so that she herself denies to go with kunal like I saw a movie ela where the father just left the family no EMA but just left he came back after years the mom asked him to stay but the son said we do not need you REHANA hein to raho but we are happy without you.
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Posted: 6 years ago
#40

Originally posted by: FruitToasty



Don't "fan" me
Mauli is a character and I like this character in a show, there is nothing about fangirling...

If you read my post, you will understand that I didn't say that kunal is a bad man, if he is not a bad man, be isn't a good man either.
A man can come into politics struggling for his life, being a messiah for millions of people but if he takes bribe, you can't say he is a good person, he was a good person doesn't mean he will remain that even after losing every ounce of humanity. There is a little sense of responsibility towards his family, his ex wife, his daughter but he kicked everything for Nandini.
You are right it's about perception, but when it's in real life, when you don't know two sides of a coin, when we watch a tv show, we are watching every aspect of these characters, there's no room for imagination because this is not in our hands, that belongs to writer, I have written what they narrated to us in their show, if you find something incorrect then you can definitely correct me.

Also, cheating is wrong. If Kunal was as good as you people claim he would have divorced Mauli before sleeping with Nandini, he wouldn't have accused Mauli of lying, don't say Mauli lied to him, I have clearly written what transpired between them, Mauli did give him many chances but you can only do so much.

Mauli is ready to take all responsibility of her family, the responsibility I am talking in this post is moral responsibility, Kunal can accept for once that he was wrong, but of course he can't even do that much, people don't even expect him to do and I do understand the reason behind this somewhat, the man is so far gone that all expectations of viewers are from Mauli but my expectations from her are about her happiness and your expectations from her are about Kunal's happiness because he is incapable of doing anything good even for himself.


You asked "tell me one thing he has done to show that he is good man".
I gave you the list.

There is nothing called good or bad human being/person. It is your perception. For you he is doing wrong so he is not good person. For Kunal, he is doing right so he is not bad person
You can say Kunal is selfish, impulsive, looser, characterless, lustful person. These word have proper definition. But there is no definition for good/bad person. It's all about your view.
As I said above he is bad husband to Mauli but he is still good doctor.

Why I am telling you because many male person who is accused of something like molestation/rape etc, they will loss job/earning without court decision and they are forced to do suicide. Please understand the sensitivity. What is happened in somebody's personal life, do we need to judge their professional life.

I get your point of Mauli taking moral responsibility. My answer is Mauli is only responsible for her own action. Nothing else.

She lied to Kunal about pregnancy. When the whole world know that Misthi is Mauli's daughter then how can she is going to hide from Kunal. Now Kunal know that Misthi is his daughter, Mauli has to deal with it. It's simple. There is no morality here. Every action has consequence.


Edited by Neutral2 - 6 years ago

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