Why all responsibilities are on Mauli?

I don't get this, was this woman born to think about people around her, people who have betrayed her, hurt her, accused her in worst way possible, manhandled her?
I have always loved Mauli because she is real, her reaction at most times are what I feel when I put myself in her situation, but I don't understand why she has to be good to everyone?

Kunal cheated on her, Kunal is not a bad man (People keep saying), but tell me one thing he has done to show that he is a good man? One...

Meeting Mishti is Kunal's right knowing about his daughter is Kunal's right but what has he done to deserve this right?

He was sulking because he broke up with his mistress but did he once enquire about the baby when he went to Mauli? Didn't he cheat her once again by lying to her about a new start then crying for Nandini?

Kunal has right to know about Mishti
Kunal has right to meet Mishti
Kunal has right to be angry at Mauli

So all rights go to Kunal and all duties are for Mauli?

It's Mauli's duty to be nice to her Ex husband who slept with her best friend, it's Mauli's duty to let Kunal take away her daughter from her, it's Mauli's duty not to judge Kunal and take preventive measures, it's Mauli's duty to make sure Mishti doesn't get to know about why Kunal left Mauli.

What should she do? Why can't she have a right for a change? She has fulfilled every responsibility she ever got but why none talks about her rights?
She worked day and night to give her daughter and Kunal's family a respectable life when he left them, she was pregnant, she didn't have a right to be hurt or angry, when she lashed out at Nandini when she was hurt, it was Kunal's right to manhandle her.

Mauli shouldn't have lied about her pregnancy, what else was she supposed to do? Bichh jaye Kunal ke pairo pe like a real doormat?

Mauli has fulfilled every responsibility and she has utmost right on Mishti's custody, why should she suffer Kunal's presence? Why should she take the blame of Kunal being separated from Mishti because she can't tell Mishti the truth that her father is a despicable man, who's first question about Mauli's pregnancy was "Are you sure?"
Don't say Mauli didn't tell him about her pregnancy, she did tell him but his next question wasn't about his baby's health or baby's mother's health his next statement was
"Itni zor se girne par to tumhe chot lagni chahiye thi par tumhe kuch nahi hua, jabki tum pregnant bhi ho"
My heart melted seeing his love for his daughter, the best father on planet earth indeed.
Even then Mauli didn't lie to him, she still gave him a chance for whatever reason and completed her Karwachauth.

Then people say that he asked her but she lied -
Radhika - Mauli ka vrat tha nirjala, usne Pani se muh jhutha nahi Kiya hai
Kunal - Muh jhutha karne se pahle jhuth to tyag de Mauli.

Again my heart did a flip seeing how nice this man is, who has decided that his compulsive liar wife is lying again, who by the way has history of lying, last I recall she was ahead of Trump in lying.

Kunal - Batao Mauli, Sach nahi bata sakti tum, karvachauth par jhuth ke binah par is rishte ki shuruwat karna chahti ho tum.

Also Kunal - Mauli mai hamare rishte ko ek dusra mauka dena chahta hu


Kunal - Kasam Khao aur mujhe batao ki tum pregnant ho

When exactly did he give her a chance. When did he ask her? He made his mind that Mauli is lying about the baby, but of course Mauli should fulfill her responsibilities, she should not be bitter towards this man. She should trust that kunal won't take Mishti from her because admi ka history dekho, heera hai heera

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

I don't get this, was this woman born to think about people around her, people who have betrayed her, hurt her, accused her in worst way possible, manhandled her?
I have always loved Mauli because she is real, her reaction at most times are what I feel when I put myself in her situation, but I don't understand why she has to be good to everyone?

Kunal cheated on her, Kunal is not a bad man (People keep saying), but tell me one thing he has done to show that he is a good man? One...

Meeting Mishti is Kunal's right knowing about his daughter is Kunal's right but what has he done to deserve this right?

He was sulking because he broke up with his mistress but did he once enquire about the baby when he went to Mauli? Didn't he cheat her once again by lying to her about a new start then crying for Nandini?

Kunal has right to know about Mishti
Kunal has right to meet Mishti
Kunal has right to be angry at Mauli

So all rights go to Kunal and all duties are for Mauli?

It's Mauli's duty to be nice to her Ex husband who slept with her best friend, it's Mauli's duty to let Kunal take away her daughter from her, it's Mauli's duty not to judge Kunal and take preventive measures, it's Mauli's duty to make sure Mishti doesn't get to know about why Kunal left Mauli.

What should she do? Why can't she have a right for a change? She has fulfilled every responsibility she ever got but why none talks about her rights?
She worked day and night to give her daughter and Kunal's family a respectable life when he left them, she was pregnant, she didn't have a right to be hurt or angry, when she lashed out at Nandini when she was hurt, it was Kunal's right to manhandle her.

Mauli shouldn't have lied about her pregnancy, what else was she supposed to do? Bichh jaye Kunal ke pairo pe like a real doormat?

Mauli has fulfilled every responsibility and she has utmost right on Mishti's custody, why should she suffer Kunal's presence? Why should she take the blame of Kunal being separated from Mishti because she can't tell Mishti the truth that her father is a despicable man, who's first question about Mauli's pregnancy was "Are you sure?"
Don't say Mauli didn't tell him about her pregnancy, she did tell him but his next question wasn't about his baby's health or baby's mother's health his next statement was
"Itni zor se girne par to tumhe chot lagni chahiye thi par tumhe kuch nahi hua, jabki tum pregnant bhi ho"
My heart melted seeing his love for his daughter, the best father on planet earth indeed.
Even then Mauli didn't lie to him, she still gave him a chance for whatever reason and completed her Karwachauth.

Then people say that he asked her but she lied -
Radhika - Mauli ka vrat tha nirjala, usne Pani se muh jhutha nahi Kiya hai
Kunal - Muh jhutha karne se pahle jhuth to tyag de Mauli.

Again my heart did a flip seeing how nice this man is, who has decided that his compulsive liar wife is lying again, who by the way has history of lying, last I recall she was ahead of Trump in lying.

Kunal - Batao Mauli, Sach nahi bata sakti tum, karvachauth par jhuth ke binah par is rishte ki shuruwat karna chahti ho tum.

Also Kunal - Mauli mai hamare rishte ko ek dusra mauka dena chahta hu


Kunal - Kasam Khao aur mujhe batao ki tum pregnant ho

When exactly did he give her a chance. When did he ask her? He made his mind that Mauli is lying about the baby, but of course Mauli should fulfill her responsibilities, she should not be bitter towards this man. She should trust that kunal won't take Mishti from her because admi ka history dekho, heera hai heera

PS : I am not so connected with Mishti, if she wants to be with Kunal she can because I want Mauli to live for herself and away from all these ungrateful people

He fell out of love with her and fell in Nandini's bed? Lol
It's not wrong to stop loving someone, it's completely OK but how one handles it makes the difference, first thing he should have done was tell Mauli then continue his life with Nandini but he decided to get married to Nandini the day he got divorce.
Love how people defend him
Again can you state one good thing this man has done?

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

He fell out of love with her and fell in Nandini's bed? Lol
It's not wrong to stop loving someone, it's completely OK but how one handles it makes the difference, first thing he should have done was tell Mauli then continue his life with Nandini but he decided to get married to Nandini on his divorce.
Love how people defend him

Again can you state one good thing this man has done?

Originally posted by: rajh

kunal left mouli because he fell out of love with her..is it sin??other than leaving mouli what other crime he has done??

if he remained with her in loveless life then actually that was biggest sin...

that would have ruined life of both...

love less marriage main zindagi bhar ghut ghut ke rehana koi sazaa se kam nahin...

so even decision to leave mouli is in best interest of both...

actually that is blessing in disguise for mouli..

1 I did not call him a demon
2 The post is not about "Why Kunal left Mauli?" the title says that "Why all responsibilities are on Mauli?"
3 I can thank him for leaving Mauli and sleeping with Nandini but I am not so keen on this right now
4 Why is he a good man?

@Looseseal
Exactly, he could have asked Mauli to share custody but he chose to lie because he had to fulfill the promise he made to Nandini. It was never about the baby, even if people hate their wife and she is pregnant at least they will ask for her reports to see if the baby is fine but he gets leeway with everything. He should be given everything

Originally posted by: looseseal

He questioned Mouli's pregnancy. Mouli went to Kunal after she found out she was preggy. She gave Kunal a chance to a father because she might have thought just because he was a shitty husband doesnt mean he couldn't be a good father.

Kunal NEVER talked about sharing custody with Mouli. In fact Kunal never once showed any interest in the baby. He didn't even ask how the baby was even when he thought the baby was real.

Every effort of keeping Kunal in the child's life was done by Mouli and funnily enough by Nandini. IF he wanted a shared custody of the baby, he could have still done that without Nandini. He could have gone to Mouli and said: look, I am single, but still we should get divorced and share custody because we will be miserable together". Did he do that? No,, he didn't. Because going back to Mouli was never about the baby. It was about Nandini's promise to get him back to Mouli.

So, lets not pretend that Kunal wanted the child at any point in his life. Like Mouli said Kunal thinking the pregnancy was fake wasn't his misunderstanding but his wishful thinking.

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

1 I did not call him a demon
2 The post is not about "Why Kunal left Mauli?" the title says that "Why all responsibilities are on Mauli?"
3 I can thank him for leaving Mauli and sleeping with Nandini but I am not so keen on this right now

4 Why is he a good man?

i don't think my question will be answer at all...'why did kunal fall out of love from mauli'...i fail to understand when he was deeply in love and devoted to her and they had a perfect marriage