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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: FruitToasty

If he wants to take responsibility he should accept his mistakes, why can't he just accept that he was so blind in his love for Nandini that he lost 6 years of his first daughter?

Kunal can definitely bond with Mishti but what does he expects after barging into Mauli's house and accusing her of stuff that he did? Is this how people behave when they want to share custody? If there isn't good relationship between parents, there is constant blame game and bickering victim card by her father what will she do?

Also here people expect Mauli not to tell Mishti about Kunal's reality, I agree to that too that a child should not be burdened with these things then the blame comes on Mauli in front of Mishti know? It's either Mauli's truth or Kunal's lies



but now misti knows the truth...now what next??

kya ab usse kamre main band kar ke rakhoge so that she cant able to meet her father??
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: rajh



that is mistake ..but not crime...

yes..kunal did mistake but mistake itself is human...

kunal is not god..he is human ..

but you cant able to call him demon just because of one mistake...

but leaving mouli is correct decision...otherwise love less marraige would have ruined life of both



Sleeping with someone else while being married was a crime under Indian penal court till few months back and it is still a sufficient reason to get the divorce. Maulli will not need anything other then to just prove this man characterless to get Misti's custody.
This is is what law says, above that custody of the child goes to mother in 90% of cases if she is ready to take the burden. Misty is just 5-6 years old there is no way this characterless man can get her custody.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: rajh



but now misti knows the truth...now what next??

kya ab usse kamre main band kar ke rakhoge so that she cant able to meet her father??



You have to ask Gajra about future story, we are just discussing the narrative here not actions that can be taken by characters, she can meet her sperm donor if she wants to, she can live with him for all I care, I just don't understand why so many expectations of mahanta from Mauli and none from Kunal?
You won't even say that he should at least accept his mistakes because all of a sudden Kunal is this knight in shining armor, Kunal can do anything he wants, he can cheat people, he can leave his daughter but his rights are intact but Mauli has to let go because... I am still trying to figure out the reason Mauli should concede, why should Mauli be the bad guy in front of Mishti?
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Posted: 6 years ago
#24

Originally posted by: rajh





that is mistake ..but not crime...

yes..kunal did mistake but mistake itself is human...

kunal is not god..he is human ..

but you cant able to call him demon just because of one mistake...

but leaving mouli is correct decision...otherwise love less marraige would have ruined life of both



Divorcing Mauli waa the right decision but what about getting married on the very same day of divorce .


And then what about he coming and trying to atleast request his own Mother and Dida to come along as they were his responsibility and if not request Mauli politely that he doesn't doubt her capabilities but he would still like to send some money for the 2 ladies livelihood. But he never came, he happily went and enjoyed his life with Nandini.


He never even tried keeping a tab on these 2 secretly to know whether they were alive or dead. I just saw the OLV where he is pulling his own mothers hand so roughly, to take her to a side.


A person who can manhandle his own mother can manhandle anybody then.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: rajh



reasons are unknown ..but fact is he fell out of love...

so best decision is to go separate ways rather than living in loveless life till end of life...

so decision to go separate is best for both...


If you are a decent man you tell your partner first if you feel that you fell out of love with them of attracted to someone else and no longer wish to continue the relationship with current partner. This is a man does if he really fells out of love. Not like MR. Kunal who went ahead and slept with other woman and even after that never open his mouth till the his wife find out.

This is called infidelity not falling out of love. I hope now you will never say that he fell out of love.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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1. Kunal was a good husband to Mauli for 7 yrs of marriage and then become bad husband to Mauli.
2. Kunal was good son to his parents until EMA
3. Kunal was a good doctor who not only care about their health but also about their financial.
4. Kunal was good husband to Nandini and good father to Pari.
5. Kunal was a good character to public until he had an eye on Nandini then he become bad character.

You see good and bad is always about perception.

Now come to Mauli
1. Why Mauli stop Mil and Dida and Doctor to not tell Kunal about pregnancy.
2. Does Mauli not know that Kunal was back and wanted 2nd chance only because of baby.
3. Why Mauli told a lie that she was not pregnant. Instead why she didn't tell him that she is frustrated with Kunal behaviour and want divorce.

Well Mauli is only responsible for her own action. Mauli is responsible for her baby. She choose to take responsibility for Mil and Dida. She choose to not accept proposal of Ishaant all these 3 yrs.


Edited by Metis - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: IDO20


Donot worry you can controls people s dislike or likes some will support Kunnu whatever the case may be even it is better to ignore them basically they are kundini sippers Maut ka dukh mein jazbati hein so abhi kunal baba ka Bhakti hein

I don't believe people who are in love and happily married can suddenly fall out of love, . Yes people do stop loving their spouse but that usually happens when there's problems in the marriage and when one spouse neglects the other so badly that they become disillusioned..and this usually takes years ...not suddenly like in kunals case. I think Kunal did not truly love Mauli or maybe he can't love deeply as he is incapable of deep love. True love is when the person you love is the most beautiful person to you and you have eyes only for that person, we see that in marriages all the time with couples who've been married for years.. even when the wife has put on weight after having kids and is not as attractive as she used to be when she was younger the husband still thinks she's sexy and gorgeous ...even if he meets attractive younger women daily,,,,he still loves his wife ..he does not go trading her in for a newer model. That is love. I don't believe that Kunal truly loved Mauli ...maybe he would have also got tired of nandini after a few years and left her too...it's a possibility ..but she died so we don't. Know..
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Neutral2

@TM
1. Kunal was a good husband to Mauli for 7 yrs of marriage and then become bad husband to Mauli.
2. Kunal was good son to his parents until EMA
3. Kunal was a good doctor who not only care about their health but also about their financial.
4. Kunal was good husband to Nandini and good father to Pari.
5. Kunal was a good character to public until he had an eye on Nandini then he become bad character.

You see good and bad is always about perception.

Now come to Mauli
1. Why Mauli stop Mil and Dida and Doctor to not tell Kunal about pregnancy.
2. Does Mauli not know that Kunal was back and wanted 2nd chance only because of baby.
3. Why Mauli told a lie that she was not pregnant. Instead why she didn't tell him that she is frustrated with Kunal behaviour and want divorce.

Well Mauli is only responsible for her own action. Mauli is responsible for her baby. She choose to take responsibility for Mil and Dida. She choose to not accept proposal of Ishaant all these 3 yrs.





If you read my post, you will understand that I didn't say that kunal is a bad man, if he is not a bad man, be isn't a good man either.
A man can come into politics struggling for his life, being a messiah for millions of people but if he takes bribe, you can't say he is a good person, he was a good person doesn't mean he will remain that even after losing every ounce of humanity. There is a little sense of responsibility towards his family, his ex wife, his daughter but he kicked everything for Nandini.
You are right it's about perception, but when it's in real life, when you don't know two sides of a coin, when we watch a tv show, we are watching every aspect of these characters, there's no room for imagination because this is not in our hands, that belongs to writer, I have written what they narrated to us in their show, if you find something incorrect then you can definitely correct me.

Also, cheating is wrong. If Kunal was as good as you people claim he would have divorced Mauli before sleeping with Nandini, he wouldn't have accused Mauli of lying, don't say Mauli lied to him, I have clearly written what transpired between them, Mauli did give him many chances but you can only do so much.

Mauli is ready to take all responsibility of her family, the responsibility I am talking in this post is moral responsibility, Kunal can accept for once that he was wrong, but of course he can't even do that much, people don't even expect him to do and I do understand the reason behind this somewhat, the man is so far gone that all expectations of viewers are from Mauli but my expectations from her are about her happiness and your expectations from her are about Kunal's happiness because he is incapable of doing anything good even for himself.
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Posted: 6 years ago
#29

Originally posted by: Indira1211

I don't believe people who are in love and happily married can suddenly fall out of love, . Yes people do stop loving their spouse but that usually happens when there's problems in the marriage and when one spouse neglects the other so badly that they become disillusioned..and this usually takes years ...not suddenly like in kunals case. I think Kunal did not truly love Mauli or maybe he can't love deeply as he is incapable of deep love. True love is when the person you love is the most beautiful person to you and you have eyes only for that person, we see that in marriages all the time with couples who've been married for years.. even when the wife has put on weight after having kids and is not as attractive as she used to be when she was younger the husband still thinks she's sexy and gorgeous ...even if he meets attractive younger women daily,,,,he still loves his wife ..he does not go trading her in for a newer model. That is love. I don't believe that Kunal truly loved Mauli ...maybe he would have also got tired of nandini after a few years and left her too...it's a possibility ..but she died so we don't. Know..


I do not want to talk about this K and falling out of love is just a shit to me he just got physically attracted to N and he found a better sex life with her which he could not ignore because n was hotter on bed they would have continued if mauli would not have caught them but ... we all know
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Neutral2

@TM
1. Kunal was a good husband to Mauli for 7 yrs of marriage and then become bad husband to Mauli.
2. Kunal was good son to his parents until EMA
3. Kunal was a good doctor who not only care about their health but also about their financial.
4. Kunal was good husband to Nandini and good father to Pari.
5. Kunal was a good character to public until he had an eye on Nandini then he become bad character.
6. Kunal is always bad man for Mauli's fan.

You see good and bad is always about perception.

Now come to Mauli
1. Why Mauli stop Mil and Dida and Doctor to not tell Kunal about pregnancy.
2. Does Mauli not know that Kunal was back and wanted 2nd chance only because of baby.
3. Why Mauli told a lie that she was not pregnant. Instead why she didn't tell him that she is frustrated with Kunal behaviour and want divorce.

Well Mauli is only responsible for her own action. Mauli is responsible for her baby. She choose to take responsibility for Mil and Dida. She choose to not accept proposal of Ishaant all these 3 yrs.




why should she give a chance to a person just because she is carrying his sperm inside him. He is just a sperm donor for her until unless he fulfils all the responsibilities of a father. He never fulfilled one responsibility of a father then how can he be a father.
And about him giving a chance for child's sake what was the guarantee that he will not sneak to Nandini's bed every-night after mauli falls asleep what was the guarantee that he will remain faithful to her. Why should she be with a man who sleep every night on other woman's bed ?

He should have asked for divorce and said that he would like to be a part of his daughter's life but he never did that.

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