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Posted: 6 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: _charu_


Mauli.stopped dida and radhika from revealing the pregnancy truth to kunal because mauli didnt want kunal to come back and lead a loveless life with her only for the sake of the child, she wanted him to come back for her ..anyways , she was ready to give him a second chance for the sake of her unborn child alone but he clearly acted like a zombie without his divine love. he went back to mauli because nandini kicked his ass , not because he felt any responsibility towards the child . Now if he says that "i would have gotten over nandini for my daughter "its all crap..when he got a chance he did not , whats the guarantee that he will, in future... Kunal had told mauli that he doesnt love her , he will always love nandini so what is the point behind stopping him and blackmailing him to come back for whatever xyz reason?


The tm is absolutely correct in telling that kunal hasnt fulfilled any responsibilities towards his family , while mauli has fulfilled all of them so kunal doesnt have a right to even ask about mishti. Mishti is a kid and she is too young to understand why mauli did this , and mauli may allow her to meet kunal n whatever but mauli was abs correct then and now .


Mauli lied about her pregnancy because this is what kunal wanted to hear. When he didnt believe her , that mauli cant lie about such a big thing , went behind her back and spy on her and ask the doc about her reports , he lost the right to be told the truth . And i dare him to say that he did a mistake , that he was wrong to trust maulis lie and marry nandini and fathrr pari ! Its because of maulis lie that nandu and pari were in his life and he will never regret it. Its just that he wanted everything. He wanted mishti with nandini and pari and prolly radhika and dida too and chuck out mauli like doodh ki makhi. Thats why this reaction from him !



You didn't get my point. I am not questioning Mauli's action.
My point is if any relationship does not end property then it will effect someday. In this case if there is no settlement for baby's custody during divorce then it is going to happen in the future.
So Mauli is only responsible for her own action.

My answer is in response with why all responsibility are on Mauli.
Yes there is extra responsiblity as a single mother. But she need to answer Misthi one day why her father is not with them
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Posted: 6 years ago
#42

Originally posted by: Neutral2

@TM
1. Kunal was a good husband to Mauli for 7 yrs of marriage and then become bad husband to Mauli.
2. Kunal was good son to his parents until EMA
3. Kunal was a good doctor who not only care about their health but also about their financial.
4. Kunal was good husband to Nandini and good father to Pari.
5. Kunal was a good character to public until he had an eye on Nandini then he become bad character.
6. Kunal is always bad man for Mauli's fan.

You see good and bad is always about perception.

Now come to Mauli
1. Why Mauli stop Mil and Dida and Doctor to not tell Kunal about pregnancy.
2. Does Mauli not know that Kunal was back and wanted 2nd chance only because of baby.
3. Why Mauli told a lie that she was not pregnant. Instead why she didn't tell him that she is frustrated with Kunal behaviour and want divorce.

Well Mauli is only responsible for her own action. Mauli is responsible for her baby. She choose to take responsibility for Mil and Dida. She choose to not accept proposal of Ishaant all these 3 yrs.



@blue ... You have answered your question yourself.


Kunal returned as he got to know about Mauli's pregnancy


Then one day , Kunal witnesses Mauli escape a near accident while saving a child .

Any normal human being would ask for the persons well being irrespective of whether they being pregnant, acquaintance or not. Yes ! People ask even strangers their well being when they witness them escaping accidents.


What did Kunal do ?


He asked Mauli , how could she run so fast if she is pregnant.


Your so called good man did not feel the need to even ask Mauli her well being for humanity sake.


How much ever he came back for the child but With every breath of his then he only wished the death of his child .


Yes ! The death coz even if Mauli would have undergone a miscarriage, Kunal would have mercilessly gone back to Nandini without an ounce of guilt or pain of losing a child - such heartless he had become.


So Mauli saved Kunal the pain and guilt and killed the baby in his eyes, which he happily accepted and went back to the love of his life , Nandini.


If Mauli would have stated her pregnancy , Kunal was bound to stay with her . He was bound to stay in a loveless marriage and give pain to himself and Mauli and in return the kid too.


So according to you if Kunal was fair by breaking his ties with Mauli as he fell out of love from her and saves her from a loveless marriage then you should take Mauli's side also as she also helped Kunal of letting him go out of loveless marriage by hiding this pregnancy.
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Posted: 6 years ago
#43


Kunnu never wanted Mauli back
Who wants " a padav when Manzil is already there
Yet he was forced to go back because of the pregnancy
He wished with his whole heart that Mauli no preggy
His "kheer filled love was very sweet
Now that mistress died , he needs a maid for
Divine lover's daughter and for himself
So he is putting up drama
He can marry again , any other woman
Why is he disturbing Mauli
If Nannu was alive he would not have come back to his "padav
Manzil disappeared so padav became desirable
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Posted: 6 years ago
#44

Originally posted by: rajh



kunal left mouli because he fell out of love with her..is it sin??other than leaving mouli what other crime he has done??

if he remained with her in loveless life then actually that was biggest sin...
that would have ruined life of both...
love less marriage main zindagi bhar ghut ghut ke rehana koi sazaa se kam nahin...

so even decision to leave mouli is in best interest of both...

actually that is blessing in disguise for mouli..


Good way to handle such thing. Instead of coming clean and honest, kunal still kept being with Mauli and slept with Nandani behind her back. You can not justify what Kunal did in the name of love which he did with Mauli too. In fact he married her and promised to be with her for rest of her life. Looks like love is more important then promise to Kunal and even you. No wonder its easy for people like Kunal out there to cheat and break the rules. What I am saying is yes, it is better to end thing when one doesn't feel the same way about other but there is a better way of doing it then the way Kunal choose which has left Mauli traumatized and depressed for years. Imagine how long it took Mauli to get over that, in fact she still isn't over yet and has hard time trusting people. What did she did to deserve this? Just because you are in love doesn't mean you can go around sleeping with someone's else behind your back not specially when you are married or else every cheating bf and husband out there is not at fault too, if we really have to see things your perspective.
Edited by Empress_Boa - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Kunal is Looser in every way...
But not liking Mauli character anyway...the way Kunal rejected her , trashed her...and here she is still😕
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Posted: 6 years ago
#46

Originally posted by: Neutral2


You didn't get my point. I am not questioning Mauli's action.
My point is if any relationship does not end property then it will effect someday. In this case if there is no settlement for baby's custody during divorce then it is going to happen in the future.
So Mauli is only responsible for her own action.

My answer is in response with why all responsibility are on Mauli.
Yes there is extra responsiblity as a single mother. But she need to answer Misthi one day why her father is not with them


Why should there be a settlement for baby? Thr baby was born "after" their divorce . Mauli doesnt have any issues whatsoever . She is living a happy and contended life and is ready to move on (unless she flips towards kunal again) . Kunal has an issue . Maan liya mauli lied to him and kunal was devoid of his daughters love . Maan liya kunal feels affection towards his blood. But he is the same person who never looked back to check on his dida and mother ! How can he claim to have undying love towards mishti? How do we verify that he is right ? And what is his credibility now? What values will he teach his children ? Will they look upto him? I am saying all this because you said in your post that mauli fans will always see kunal as wrong . I wanna ask where is he right ?


My dear , the the topic was why all responsibilities on mauli but plz chk the complete post. Kunal has no right to ask / complain because he never fulfilled any of his responsibilities . And mauli has a right on mishti and take every decision for mishti because she has fulfilled all her duties and responsibilities well.



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Posted: 6 years ago
#47

Originally posted by: _charu_


Why should there be a settlement for baby? Thr baby was born "after" their divorce . Mauli doesnt have any issues whatsoever . She is living a happy and contended life and is ready to move on (unless she flips towards kunal again) . Kunal has an issue . Maan liya mauli lied to him and kunal was devoid of his daughters love . Maan liya kunal feels affection towards his blood. But he is the same person who never looked back to check on his dida and mother ! How can he claim to have undying love towards mishti? How do we verify that he is right ? And what is his credibility now? What values will he teach his children ? Will they look upto him? I am saying all this because you said in your post that mauli fans will always see kunal as wrong . I wanna ask where is he right ?


My dear , the the topic was why all responsibilities on mauli but plz chk the complete post. Kunal has no right to ask / complain because he never fulfilled any of his responsibilities . And mauli has a right on mishti and take every decision for mishti because she has fulfilled all her duties and responsibilities well.




Is there any law in India that if baby born after divorce then husband have no right on the child?

Regarding responsibility, Mauli does not have any responsibility towards Kunal whether he should know or not. I am saying Mauli is responsible only for her own action.

Why I am saying this because when the whole world know that Mauli is single mother, she can't hide from Kunal forever. At some point of time they need to go to the court for legal custody.

Also do you really think Mauli moved on. No. If she really moved on then Kunal won't affect her.

And what if Misthi blame Mauli that she lied to Kunal that she doesn't exist.


Edited by Neutral2 - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
#48

Originally posted by: rajh



why he is bad man?? just because he left mouli because he fell out of love with her??give me any other reason...


Not just because of that. That is mild. It's because he had an EMa with her best friend knowing it would break her. Because he manhandled Mauli many times. Because he did not care about hurting Mauli s feelings . Because he did not show any regret to his wife of 5 yrs which any normal decent man would. Because he returned back to her and his unborn child only because his mistress forced him. Because he was just ok with child support and did not want the custody of the child as he told Nandini. Also he lied to Mauli about wanting to give the marriage a second chance. Also he was constantly looking for ways to doubt Maulis pregnancy. Also because when his wife falls down trying to save a child. His first thought is why isn't she hurt as she is pregnant., whereas any decent man even out of love with his wife will ask is she ok and worry about the unborn baby.
Also because he was fine to dump his family on Mauli whom he called a giri hui aurat and not looking back. A phone call does not help, he did not want to make amends with his family as they would not accept his new wife.

There may be many people falling out of love with their wives, but do not behave like Kunal.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Neutral2

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Is there any law in India that if baby born after divorce then husband have no right on the child?

Regarding responsibility, Mauli does not have any responsibility towards Kunal whether he should know or not. I am saying Mauli is responsible only for her own action.

Why I am saying this because when the whole world know that Mauli is single mother, she can't hide from Kunal forever. At some point of time they need to go to the court for legal custody.

Also do you really think Mauli moved on. No. If she really moved on then Kunal won't affect her.

And what if Misthi blame Mauli that she lied to Kunal that she doesn't exist.



The legalities were discussed in the episode already .


No, mauli doesnt have any responsibility to tell kunal , this was not her decision alone but dida and radhika too. So she was right in lying to him . Dida and radhika were keen on telling kunal (dida also faked heart attack) but after they saw his behavior with mauli, throwing divorce papers on her face and doubting her pregnancy, they decided to stop convincing him further . Mauli is responsible for her actions so? She has no regrets nor does she owe any explanation to anyone because she was right .


Kunal knows and mishti also knows the truth now . Mishti didnt question her mother , perhaps a 6 yr old also understands that her her father doesnt live with them , he has another family so he ditched mauli. Mishti should question her father n ask him who is pari and why isnt he with them .


Mauli moving on or not is the story writers wish . They can twist it anyways

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