'only' Nandini isn't a homebreaker. - Page 2

Originally posted by: ButterflyChaser

Yep, it was Nandini's responsibility to inform Mauli about that. But won't that break Mauli's home? I mean after knowing that ur husband is lusting after ur best friend, You would have left him. So, by that rule.. Nandini would have been a home breaker again.

Nandini is the worst friend anyone could have. But Kunal is the worst husband and all I am saying is it's a couple's responsibility to make their relationship work and not someone else's is. If Mauli had an affair with someone than would we have call that guy a home breaker? No.. Becoz for society, only a woman is a homewrecker.

Originally posted by: ButterflyChaser

Finally, someone understood my point. all I don't support Kunan. I want them to marry n suffer. But I want both of them to suffer and just not Nandini. I don't want their separation as their suffering but their realization and their guilt as their punishment.

Originally posted by: ButterflyChaser

Yep, both r at equal fault but Dida/Radhika are ready to accept Kunal but cursing Nandini.

Nandini fell in love with a married man.. Her fault totally!! The man fell in love with her... Not her fault. Man chose her instead of Wife... Not her fault. His home broke!! What could she do? It isn't her responsibility to keep his home intact. It's the man's is. If not Nandini, his home would have broken for someone else. Nandini doesn't need to think about his home but her own actions. She needs to think that what he is doing to some other lady can happen to her as well.

Here, the victim is her best friend and there she should have realized that what she feels is wrong and she needed to stop Kunal or inform Mauli about his actions. But again I repeat, acc to me Nandini is responsible for breaking trust and not home. Only and only Kunal is responsible for doing it,

Originally posted by: Ruhi122

I guess nobody blaming Nandini alone. Ppl are hating Nandini n Kunal both.

Originally posted by: Nandy141

I don't want to associate the word Affair with a person like Mauli even if it's to quote an example

If Nandini had informed about Kunal 's intention to Mauli and there was no affair , Mauli 's home would be broken but Nandini will not get the tag of Home breaker since she is not at fault

Agreed over what u have said .. If an affair exists , Only the Woman is blamed and that seems to be an okay thing in the society which is terribly wrong. Both the Man and Woman should be equally blamed

Regarding the show, I hate Nandini more than Kunal for two reasons

1 . For betraying a friend like Mauli after all that she has done

2. The Amount of White washing the character is undergoing

Originally posted by: Ruhi122

I guess nobody blaming Nandini alone. Ppl are hating Nandini n Kunal both.

Originally posted by: Silpa91

When a man and woman have EMA I consider both of them as homebreakers.If a woman is willingly having affair with a married man she is definitely breaking a home.So both kundini are homebreakers for me.That's my opinion.

Originally posted by: ButterflyChaser

That's fine with me... That's what m saying.. blame them both if u want to. Curse them both. don't expect one to come back and have a happy life with a child and curse other to go childless.

Originally posted by: Mumoos

We personally want that curse extended to kunal as well..

Though he will have a child thru mauli.. he should not get to father the child.. and should lead a terrible life with his 2nd wife..

Finally yes most women relate to mauli as a wife .. cos its beyond one's imagination to put your self in a home breakers POV.. earlier when Nandi was shown as on the domestic violence victim no body made fun of her or the acting...

Even her dressing at that time was justified cos RD forced her to look good all the time.. but now it could have been toned down a bit. She's no longer a show piece..