'only' Nandini isn't a homebreaker.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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EDIT : Here in below post.. I am not saying that we forum people do not find Kunal and Nandini both at equal fault... I just want Radhika to say same things to Kunal too. I feel the reel people of the show doesn't blame Kunal enough. I want him to suffer too.

I know everyone is loving Radhika's dialogue and appreciating her it. But I guess I am the only one who doesn't agree with her. Why is everyone finding only Nandini at fault.. No, m not saying Nandini is not wrong but she is as much wrong as Kunal is. Why is only she being held as responsible one for breaking a house?
Nandini isn't a home breaker. Kunal is. Nandini is at fault for betraying her friend. She is responsible for breaking their friendship and hurting Mauli but it was Kunal who chose extramarital affair over his marriage. It was he, who forgot his seven vows and broke wife's trust. Why is only Nandini being called names?

Why is it that Radhika feels it's Nandini's magic that Kunal doesn't care abt his wife, family or unborn child? Why can't the dialogue be like Kunal has lost his mind and not caring about them? Why doesn't she confront Kunal? Why did she curse Nandin but ready to accept Kunal back in Mauli's life? Why dint she curse Kunal to never get happiness or love or child in his life?

My question is simply to the society that when two persons are committing a crime then why is female considered as wrong and being punished while a man goes scot free.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Both of them are equally responsible.The moment nandini chose to have EMA with her friend's husband she became a homebreaker.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: ButterflyChaser

I know everyone is loving Radhika's dialogue and appreciating her it. But I guess I am the only one who doesn't agree with her. Why is everyone finding only Nandini at fault.. No, m not saying Nandini is not wrong but she is as much wrong as Kunal is. Why is only she being held as responsible one for breaking a house?

Nandini isn't a home breaker. Kunal is. Nandini is at fault for betraying her friend. She is responsible for breaking their friendship and hurting Mauli but it was Kunal who chose extramarital affair over his marriage. It was he, who forgot his seven vows and broke wife's trust. Why is only Nandini being called names?

Why is it that Radhika feels it's Nandini's magic that Kunal doesn't care abt his wife, family or unborn child? Why can't the dialogue be like Kunal has lost his mind and not caring about them? Why doesn't she confront Kunal? Why did she curse Nandin but ready to accept Kunal back in Mauli's life? Why dint she curse Kunal to never get happiness or love or child in his life?

My question is simply to the society that when two persons are committing a crime then why is female considered as wrong and being punished while a man goes scot free.



Kunal is responsible but Nandini is also equal responsible......Kunal chosen Nandini but what Nandini chose - Sindoor pooja with Kunal,Pandit pooja at home with Kunal,Engagement ring before divorce...😡...Radhika came at her house to confront Kunal only ; she questioned Nandini after seeing marriage decorations and Suhaag Thaal which any person will react seeing all this..🤢...

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Posted: 7 years ago
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If Kunal had an affair with some xyz , Mauli , Radhika and the Audience would 've cursed only Kunal
But Nandini was Mauli 's best friend , if Kunal shows signs of attraction , isn't it Nandini 's duty to tell her best friend about what her husband is doing behind her back.. A friend like Nandini is a home breaker and even worse
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Silpa91

Both of them are equally responsible.The moment nandini chose to have EMA with her friend's husband she became a homebreaker.


Yep, both r at equal fault but Dida/Radhika are ready to accept Kunal but cursing Nandini.

Nandini fell in love with a married man.. Her fault totally!! The man fell in love with her... Not her fault. Man chose her instead of Wife... Not her fault. His home broke!! What could she do? It isn't her responsibility to keep his home intact. It's the man's is. If not Nandini, his home would have broken for someone else. Nandini doesn't need to think about his home but her own actions. She needs to think that what he is doing to some other lady can happen to her as well.

Here, the victim is her best friend and there she should have realized that what she feels is wrong and she needed to stop Kunal or inform Mauli about his actions. But again I repeat, acc to me Nandini is responsible for breaking trust and not home. Only and only Kunal is responsible for doing it,
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Posted: 7 years ago
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This is the mentality of the society you can get an example of that from the different posts posted everyday in the forum.women are afraid that their husband will go away from them everyday.they see hemselves in mouli's place.they can take back their husbands back because it is not their husbands fault it is the other woman's fault who lured their husbands not their husbands who are lured.so deal with it.society wl never change.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Coolsheetal


Kunal is responsible but Nandini is also equal responsible......Kunal chosen Nandini but what Nandini chose - Sindoor pooja with Kunal,Pandit pooja at home with Kunal,Engagement ring before divorce...😡...Radhika came at her house to confront Kunal only ; she questioned Nandini after seeing marriage decorations and Suhaag Thaal which any person will react seeing all this..🤢...



Yes, Nandini is at fault but again I believe she isn't responsible for saving someone's relationship. She chose to do all those things with her love and I would have been fine with it if she wasn't Mauli's best friend. She could have turned blind eye to her lover's wife and I won't have minded it as that's her nature. AS no matter how wrong EMAs are.. they happen in real life too.

@Bold : No.. Radhika din't go to confront Kunal or curse him. She went to take him back to Mauli as she wants Kunal to take responsibility of his child. She would have never cursed him to have unhappy married life or do not able to see his child's face as he has hurt a mother badly.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nandy141

If Kunal had an affair with some xyz , Mauli , Radhika and the Audience would 've cursed only Kunal

But Nandini was Mauli 's best friend , if Kunal shows signs of attraction , isn't it Nandini 's duty to tell her best friend about what her husband is doing behind her back.. A friend like Nandini is a home breaker and even worse



Yep, it was Nandini's responsibility to inform Mauli about that. But won't that break Mauli's home? I mean after knowing that ur husband is lusting after ur best friend, You would have left him. So, by that rule.. Nandini would have been a home breaker again.

Nandini is the worst friend anyone could have. But Kunal is the worst husband and all I am saying is it's a couple's responsibility to make their relationship work and not someone else's is. If Mauli had an affair with someone than would we have call that guy a home breaker? No.. Becoz for society, only a woman is a homewrecker.


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Posted: 7 years ago
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Nandini kyu bcoz nandi ka role dd play kar rahi hai aur jis tarah se rumours failaya gaya woh serial quit karne wali hai audience se usko sympathy mile isliye sara taunt usipe focus kiya ja raha hai oose tyag ko murat show kiya ja raha hai audience kya chati hai usse matlab nahi wo kunandi dono ko suffer karte hue dekhna chati hai aur mauli individually aage bade per makers sirf nandini ko sympathy dilwana chati hai audience se isliye sirf usike saath ho raha hai per makers bhul jati hai audience itni fool nahi hai
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Feynmann

This is the mentality of the society you can get an example of that from the different posts posted every day in the forum.women are afraid that their husband will go away from them everyday. they see themselves in Mauli's place.they can take back their husbands back because it is not their husbands fault it is the other woman's fault who lured their husbands not their husbands who are lured.so deal with it.society wl never change.



Finally, someone understood my point. all I don't support Kunan. I want them to marry n suffer. But I want both of them to suffer and just not Nandini. I don't want their separation as their suffering but their realization and their guilt as their punishment.

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