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mango

@mango.falooda

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Posted: 7 years ago

#561

thanks @pamk06; doing ok...

didn't see that dinner episode but that is such weird behaviour. this family is super dysfunctional and acts like kunal is not a human being capable of making any decision. so yea, from that angle, his attraction to nandini makes sense. it would be nice if the CVs actually reveal the backstory with that family because none of their actions make any logical narrative sense. which normal family pretends to such extent? that is dysfunctional to the core.

and it is really difficult to understand mauli as to why she can't seem to read his body language at all. the lamp/candle burning in the background was kind of funny. guess the CVs wanted to show some kind of relationship burning symbolism but I was wondering if the restaurant/set was going to catch fire while kunal mopes. 😉

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@pamk06

Dazzler

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Posted: 7 years ago

#562

Originally posted by: mango_pudding1
thanks @pamk06; doing ok...

didn't see that dinner episode but that is such weird behaviour. this family is super dysfunctional and acts like kunal is not a human being capable of making any decision. so yea, from that angle, his attraction to nandini makes sense. it would be nice if the CVs actually reveal the backstory with that family because none of their actions make any logical narrative sense. which normal family pretends to such extent? that is dysfunctional to the core.

and it is really difficult to understand mauli as to why she can't seem to read his body language at all. the lamp/candle burning in the background was kind of funny. guess the CVs wanted to show some kind of relationship burning symbolism but I was wondering if the restaurant/set was going to catch fire while kunal mopes. 😉

Totally agree on his family and Mauli...

😆 Exactly right...

Mauli is pregnant. They showed that first Dida and Radhika played a trick on her due to which she went running to the airport to stop Kunall, full on stress. Then they show her climbing up the stairs, 9 floors, I was watching the numbers. At the same time, they showed Nandini taking the lift down. Like seriously, who is the pregnant one here and all this happened in a day. Forget the stress that she has gone till now, this day in itself should be alarming

Plus the guard, his only role is to keep tabs on Nandini madam. Everybody will come and ask him about her whereabouts. I think he should start charging her now because that is his only role, not guarding the society 😆

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Soul_Stirrer

@Soul_Stirrer

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Posted: 7 years ago

#563

Have kunal and nandani consummated their relationship??!

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@pamk06

Dazzler

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Posted: 7 years ago

#564

Originally posted by: Soul_Stirrer
Have kunal and nandani consummated their relationship??!

Yes, they have. It was on Mauli's brother wedding day. Mauli mom insults her and she comes home to find a very horrible blood scene created by Rajdeep. There is dead bird on the fan which is throwing blood everywhere and thus on her. Kunal comes after her and find her in a traumatic state. He takes care of her and is leaving but she she stops him.

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Soul_Stirrer

@Soul_Stirrer

Voyager

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Posted: 7 years ago

#565

Originally posted by: pamk06

Yes, they have. It was on Mauli's brother wedding day. Mauli mom insults her and she comes home to find a very horrible blood scene created by Rajdeep. There is dead bird on the fan which is throwing blood everywhere and thus on her. Kunal comes after her and find her in a traumatic state. He takes care of her and is leaving but she she stops him.

That is humorously horrifying. I am shocked.

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@pamk06

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Posted: 7 years ago

#566

Originally posted by: Soul_Stirrer

That is humorously horrifying. I am shocked.

We were too.. That abuse scene was horrible but it definitely did not call for consummation. Also, tthe reason for my total disgust when people compare Rajdeep to Kunal or call him better than Kunal. Kunal is wrong but Rajdeep is a horrible, disgusting scum.

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mango

@mango.falooda

Rocker

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Posted: 7 years ago

#567

a little controversial but I actually liked some of kunal's dialogues though some were absolutely nutty. so when he asks why no one is yelling at him, calling him names etc, my reaction was "exactly!" -- there seemed real anger that he was not being treated as a person. more and more, it seems like his whole attraction to nandini is because he feels invisible and powerless in his own family where he is treated like a puppet.

@pamk06 - do you understand mauli? she makes absolutely no sense to me. even nandini (who is not some shining character) is able to make a decision to go on her own and packs her bags. but mauli?

she is sitting in a house where the husband has openly said that he has no respect or love for her, is openly cheating on her her, is openly obsessed with concern for his lover and she is sitting in that house letting herself be manipulated by two batty ladies.

is she not educated? does she not have money in her bank account? (ignoring how ridiculous it is that both kunal and mauli are doctors and dida was able to fake her heart attack).. but now that mauli knows that dida faked, why is she still sitting there crying? if a character like nandini can walk out, why can't mauli? if mauli was uneducated or financially dependent, her actions would make more sense. she is supposed to be emotionally strong and so why is she staying?

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@ProfMcGonagall

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Posted: 7 years ago

#568

@ mango_pudding: Actually Mauli is running entirely on fumes and emotions right now. It's part of the stages of coping with grief and anger. At one point you become numb and raw. I know both are opposites of each other, but basically it means you've lost all feeling, but you're also open to all types of suggestions without thinking about them.

That's what is happening with Mauli now. She's lost all feeling. She knows that Kunal is no longer hers and she's broken over it. But she's also susceptible. Dida and Radhika (I used to think her name was Yamini for some reason 😆) can say whatever they want and Mauli will do it right now. Later on when she finally regains her thinking power, she'll reflect back on these moments and call herself an idiot, but not right now.

I'm actually more angry at Dida and Radhika. Are they stupid? Kunal announced it today: I don't care for Mauli, I only love Nandini. Do they really think that a baby can bring Kunal back? And let's suppose Kunal does come back. Do they even understand the situation that Mauli and Kunal will be in? They'll both be in a loveless marriage, with full knowledge that Kunal wanted to stay with Nandini but couldn't. They'll both project it on their child without even knowing it. Like what type of atmosphere will the kid be raised in? Did they think about that? Or are they just showing stupid societal norms without thinking about them?

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mango

@mango.falooda

Rocker

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Posted: 7 years ago

#569

@profmcgonagall -- ah ok; the stages of grief better explains mauli. as for dida and radhika (I also thought her name was yamini), these two really annoy me. if I take a step back, here's what I see.

this is a highly dysfunctional family (there has to be a reason! tell us CVs) where they pretend that everything is normal. kunal is treated like a puppet and his job is to sit there while they pamper him but all decisions are taken by dida and radhika while mauli implements. so as far as they are concerned, kunal does not have what it takes to make any decisions and therefore there was zero need to talk to him or even confront or yell at him. instead they just wanted to pretend in front of society that their family is good.

hence, their initial game plan was "guilt trip nandini" -- basically they figured if nandini leaves, the whole problem will get resolved as kunal could not have chased after nandini as he is a puppet. kunal will come back home emotionally as well and all they have to do is persuade mauli. since kunal can't make any decisions on his own, if mauli stays, then kunal will come back to his original position was their thinking.

now they are still under that misconception and don't realize that this kunal is a different person. we have often talked in this thread about the two kunals who seem such weird contrasts. nandini's kunal is very self-assured and assertive. he owns his decisions and even though he is aware he is wrong, he will not back down because his life, his wants matters more to him. whereas mauli's kunal is quieter, can easily be arm twisted into doing something he doesn't like. so both dida and radhika are seeing glimpses of this kunal v2.0 but have yet to realize that this game plan won't work.

in addition to being old style thinking (where they think a baby will solve everything), they are really doing this for themselves. if kunal gets together with nandini, then due to society as well their stand, they can't welcome or stay with him. and if kunal and mauli divorce, then they can't stay with her and have someone to implement and do things for them. so in other words, they end up alone. that is the crux of the matter.

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@pamk06

Dazzler

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Posted: 7 years ago

#570

@mango_pudding: Totally agree on you with Kunal dialogues.Some were so tacky but some were so to the point. Something that I wanted someone on this show to ask and point out. I had hope on his friends but they just went tangent. Finally someone held him responsible, even if its was he himself. From the beginning everyone from his family to mahila morcha to her mom to his neighbor are blaming her. No one, absolutely no one bothered to ask him. When Dida said,"mera nalayak pota" does not deserve this, I was like, that should be the first thing you should have done, asked him what he wants. You have put both of them through hell specially Mauli for your selfish reasons. I, totally, get Dida but not her ways on how she went about the whole reconciliation. Intervention was needed but for both of them not only Mauli. I also kind of felt that he was literally begging today that see me, I am capable of taking decision and this was my decision, I am standing here ask me dammit what is the truth, do not assume and blame her, blame me. 😆. Funnily enough from the beginning he has held himself responsible for their relationship, in front of everyone, in front of Nandini herself and even to himself. Why do you think that is? because he was the one who stopped Nandini or because he was the one who kept pursuing her... like even now after everything she is ok to walk out but he is not able to let go...Seems very weird right? generally it is the other way round. The woman is the insecure one but here Kunal comes out that way... One whiff of she moving away and he panics and it been like that since the beginning.

Moving on, I know, today was so Kunal and when he is scared, he just does not think and keeps going on a blasting spree (We have seen this many times in the past ) but today he crossed so many limits. He is so going to regret his words. (This time if he comes to apologise , Mauli will not explain his words and his actions...hopefully, 😆)

I agree with @profmcgonall on Mauli's reaction. I think right now she is just numb, she has just got that verbal confirmation from Kunal which she did not have till now and she is trying to get her bearings. She is not thinking just feeling and following. I guess once she starts thinking again, comes out of this haze, her reaction might be completely different. But I did not understand the precap: It can either be that Kunal does not listen to her at all, one more rejection or she goes with him to save Nandini which might lead to miscarriage. Either way Kunal is going to repent.

I know I am in the minority here but I do feel that Kunal should know about the child. Even in this, they are not letting him take the decision. It should not be the reason for reconciliation,I mean Kunal is pretty clear that it is not Mauli he wants. But whether he wants to be part of the child's life or not should be his decision. Divorced couple share children all the time and the child's future is both parents equal responsibility. Its not about finance at all, its about the emotional security of the child. We talk about equality all the time and this child is theirs and its future should be decided by both of them not only Mauli or not only Kunal. He can decide he does not want to be part of the child life or he can decide he wants to be part of child life with/ without Nandini on his side but its needs to be his decision. A child should not be punished for a father's mistake. I agreed with Mauli to keep the child a secret when they were talking about reconciliation but now when they are both clear on the path that they want to walk, the child and its future needs to be discussed. They owe it to the unborn child. But that just my view.

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