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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: music_l0ver036

Oh thank god because they have finally come to their senses. Yes I just want Nandani to be persistent in denying Kunal. If she doesn't, we'll start hearing "humne bahod koshish ki" lmao.

Yeah that's why I get so defensive of Nandani, they could have done so much with her you know? Like how they are handling Mauli till now, that kind of rawness is what I expected from Nandani as well. According to spoilers Mauli is ready to forgive Kunal just because he says sorry so even Mauli is going to be a little frustrating. But I hope it's just a moment of weakness with the baby and she quickly realizes that Kunal doesn't deserve shit.


@bold: Actually according to the OLV, the message is for Nandini, and Mauli thinks it for her. She has to go through all this phases. Her hope that Kunal will return really needs to shatter completely for her to actually start moving forward. If she does not go through this steps then she might always think that may be if she would have tried harder, he might have come back to her. So they are making her follow the correct path for now. Actually its become a fight between Kunal's will vs Dida's determination.It would be interesting to see if Mauli's hope wins or Nandini returns to Kunal or Kunal loses everything in his quest and blindness.

Have you noticed the subtle changes theyhave done to Nandini's character. She did not like Kunal throwing the chair and when he was clutching her tightly, she retaliated saying that she was getting hurt. That's recovery right there. She also gave back to theneighbor when she was taunting her. So they are turning her from this meek woman who could not speak to a person who can and will stand for herself. Hopefully they will continue this growth of her character.







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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: pamk06

Have you noticed the subtle changes theyhave done to Nandini's character. She did not like Kunal throwing the chair and when he was clutching her tightly, she retaliated saying that she was getting hurt. That's recovery right there. She also gave back to theneighbor when she was taunting her. So they are turning her from this meek woman who could not speak to a person who can and will stand for herself. Hopefully they will continue this growth of her character.



I tried staying away from the show, but I can't seem to. I don't watch every episode, but I do watch parts that I like from each episode based on an update.

Anyways, I wanted to comment on this part. I actually like the way they've developed Nandini's character. Even in the spoilers showing her kidnapping, she's crying, but she's also fighting back. She's trying to get freed. When she sees Rajdeep, she looks scared, but she's also determined it seems. I like that. It shows that she's progressing and that Rajdeep can't just scare her with the Look anymore. She won't succumb to his terror and she will move on from it now.

I like that. That's what I wanted to see. I wanted to see the progress Nandini shows and then if they wanted to go into EMA that was fine, but the CVs ruined it by going to EMA first and then Nandini's progression.
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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: ProfMcGonagall



I tried staying away from the show, but I can't seem to. I don't watch every episode, but I do watch parts that I like from each episode based on an update.

Anyways, I wanted to comment on this part. I actually like the way they've developed Nandini's character. Even in the spoilers showing her kidnapping, she's crying, but she's also fighting back. She's trying to get freed. When she sees Rajdeep, she looks scared, but she's also determined it seems. I like that. It shows that she's progressing and that Rajdeep can't just scare her with the Look anymore. She won't succumb to his terror and she will move on from it now.

I like that. That's what I wanted to see. I wanted to see the progress Nandini shows and then if they wanted to go into EMA that was fine, but the CVs ruined it by going to EMA first and then Nandini's progression.


I have tried so many times to let this show go but I still cannot help myself. I just want to see where they take Mauli and Nandini.

I did see the OLV. Before she could not look at Rajdeep or even if she looked at him, it was with full of fear, a meekness but in the OLV, they show her giving him this look with all anger. They show her fighting and struggling. I hope in the episode also they show the same. I want her to fight Rajdeep and free herself before Kunal reaches there. Also, I want her to stand firm on her decision. Even if she faces Kunal, I want her to tell him that she cannot break her promise to Mauli and separate is the way to go. This is her decision. That would be actual progress. Last time during confession she gave in to Kunal but this time I hope she stays firm on her stand.

CVs have ruined her till now and like you, I do wish they would have shown character growth, career growth, friendship before the EMA but alas its too late for that but I hope now that they got her back on track, they show her forward progress and not backtrack.





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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: pamk06


I did see the OLV. Before she could not look at Rajdeep or even if she looked at him, it was with full of fear, a meekness but in the OLV, they show her giving him this look with all anger. They show her fighting and struggling. I hope in the episode also they show the same. I want her to fight Rajdeep and free herself before Kunal reaches there. Also, I want her to stand firm on her decision. Even if she faces Kunal, I want her to tell him that she cannot break her promise to Mauli and separate is the way to go. This is her decision. That would be actual progress. Last time during confession she gave in to Kunal but this time I hope she stays firm on her stand.



Yes! She needs to save herself and then stand firm on her decision. But not only that, once she leaves Mauli can't take Kunal back either. Kunal has proven that he loves only Nandini and taking him back would demean the independent streak that Mauli has as well.

But somewhere I doubt this will actually happen. Kunal is the male lead and Nandini's saviour. He'll be the one to find Nandini, beat up Rajdeep, probably get him arrested again, and then take care of Nandini. Nandini will once again succumb to his confession and they'll probably have sex to make up and live happily together.
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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: ProfMcGonagall



Yes! She needs to save herself and then stand firm on her decision. But not only that, once she leaves Mauli can't take Kunal back either. Kunal has proven that he loves only Nandini and taking him back would demean the independent streak that Mauli has as well.

But somewhere I doubt this will actually happen. Kunal is the male lead and Nandini's saviour. He'll be the one to find Nandini, beat up Rajdeep, probably get him arrested again, and then take care of Nandini. Nandini will once again succumb to his confession and they'll probably have sex to make up and live happily together.



Your last sentence cracked me up.,

It's my dear wish to see all three separate and to see Kunal suffer but they will keep one pair together and one separate because of budget. I am unable to decide which one is the lesser evil. If K and N unite, then there is no Karma and if K and M unite then it's not fair on Mauli but the child worries me. TRP aunties would like M and K United because of the kid and there is an OLV where Kunal's mom is asking her to tell Kunal about the child. But I have hope in the writer based on her previous work of EMA victims.

Everything will depend on the conclusion of this kidnapping drama. I can always hope that they will keep N intact for a change and separate all three. Also, TRP was maintained, so N and K separation worked with the TRP audience. Thus there is a chance they might just continue with it.
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Posted: 6 years ago
TRP aunties can want what they want, but the lesser of the two evils is Kunal and Nandini uniting. The reason I feel that is because now if Kunal and Mauli unite it would be because of the kid and Kunal and Nandini will not have learnt any lesson.

If they do bring Kunal and Nandini together, both will come together knowing that they have destroyed their relationship with Mauli, with their families, and with society. They'll come together knowing that Nandini was willing to separate from Kunal so that Mauli would be happy. That isn't a big punishment, but it is punishment enough. It'll be two people brought together by EMA and forced to stay together as a compromise.

Not only that but I want them to stay near Mauli, but somewhere where Mauli doesn't see them everyday. I want them to see her everyday with her child (yes her child not her and Kunal's child or Kunal's child). I want them to see how happy she is now that she has gotten over Kunal. In fact I wouldn't even mind if they showed some male friend in Mauli's life who Kunal and Nandini believe is her love but isn't. He's the fatherly figure in her child's life and both are just happy being friends.

Actually I believe that Kunal staying alone is no lesson learnt at all. He'll just think that Mauli and Nandini both screwed up his life. He won't understand that he was the one who started everything with his stupid "juzzbaat juzzbaat hote hain" line. He'll only understand that when he realizes what he lost in Mauli and sees Mauli happy without him, especially with a kid and another man in her life (even if it isn't a boyfriend or husband). Kunal can only learn what he did when he feels cheated on, jealous, or betrayed and this option does that.

Also Nandini still hasn't learnt her lesson as well. She keeps repeating the same mantra "I tried, I didn't want to hurt you, I didn't hurt you". She's separating herself from Kunal, not because she realizes that she was wrong to break Kunal and Mauli's relationship, but because she wants to see Mauli happy and she thinks that Mauli's drunken request is actually going to make her happy. Nandini will only learn her lesson when she gets Kunal, but loses Mauli and her own happiness. Because one thing I've seen in all the scenes where Kunal is with Nandini is that Kunal actually doesn't seem that happy. When he had his accident and was living in Nandini's place for a day or two, the two barely spoke. He didn't even react to her sympathetic hand when he remembered Mauli. When he wants to meet Nandini and Nandini doesn't open the door, he gets antsy and starts banging on the door and manhandling Nandini. There is no middle ground of cuddling, talking about their pains, etc. So Nandini will learn her lesson when she gets Kunal, but they aren't happy together. When she sees Kunal staring at Mauli and her child whimsically for what could have been, then only she'll realize what she did and how her trying wasn't enough because she didn't really try to stop herself at all.
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Posted: 6 years ago
What you just described already happened in BV or something similar. It was the same writer too so it can happen again if they have decided to make Mauli the center character of the show. I guess based on how they are not giving any importance to the other two characters that's the route they are going.

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: pamk06



Your last sentence cracked me up.,

It's my dear wish to see all three separate and to see Kunal suffer but they will keep one pair together and one separate because of budget. I am unable to decide which one is the lesser evil. If K and N unite, then there is no Karma and if K and M unite then it's not fair on Mauli but the child worries me. TRP aunties would like M and K United because of the kid and there is an OLV where Kunal's mom is asking her to tell Kunal about the child. But I have hope in the writer based on her previous work of EMA victims.

Everything will depend on the conclusion of this kidnapping drama. I can always hope that they will keep N intact for a change and separate all three. Also, TRP was maintained, so N and K separation worked with the TRP audience. Thus there is a chance they might just continue with it.



finally kunal spoke! just as we laughed a few weeks back, mauli would do all the talking and just forgive kunal and that was about to happen. she didn't read his reactions at all. but he finally stepped up and told her that there was no going back. while he doesn't really explain why he fell for nandini, he is very firm that the chapter with mauli is closed and he has no intention to go back. he said that given his feelings for nandini, he can neither go forward with mauli or go back to how they were.

this whole time, everyone was acting like kunal is some sort of doll that they can just pass to each other. nandini has the doll and so it was mauli's job to get the doll back according to dida and his mom. mauli requests nandini back for her doll and nandini is unable to refuse. no one acted like kunal was a person, a man who has his own thoughts and can make his own decisions. so we finally saw that very self-assured kunal step out -- he apologizes for hurting mauli but will not back down because of fear of hurting mauli. he also acknowledges that he was ashamed for not being able to say anything and clears up his end.

so mauli has finally woken up that no matter how hard she tries, if her husband is not willing to put in that same effort, it will not work. also given the preview, she will also realize to some extent how serious kunal is about nandini and that he is the one who is chasing her. so now, just waiting for the episode where dida and mom also wake up and realize kunal is not some puppet they can control. they may hate his actions but he is not someone who is going to dance to their whims.

@bold - even after the kidnapping track, can see nandini going her separate way because she no longer wants to be involved in the middle despite how she feels for kunal. so she will leave. so will kunal. and mauli will figure out things alone. so we might either have a leap where we see all 3 of them leading separate lives after a certain time and then meeting again. or we might see how they figure out their own solo journeys.
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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: pamk06



It's my dear wish to see all three separate and to see Kunal suffer but they will keep one pair together and one separate because of budget. I am unable to decide which one is the lesser evil. If K and N unite, then there is no Karma and if K and M unite then it's not fair on Mauli but the child worries me. TRP aunties would like M and K United because of the kid and there is an OLV where Kunal's mom is asking her to tell Kunal about the child. But I have hope in the writer based on her previous work of EMA victims.

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sorry to re-quote again but just wanted to respond to @bold
think it would depend on the life experience of the TRP aunties. we have relatives at home at the moment and I was flipping through the channels this morning and so ended up catching this episode. my aunts also sort of took a peek. one of my aunts asked "so that is the girlfriend?" and I explained that the black sari was nandini while the red sari was mauli. she rolled her eyes and said, "what an idiot. why is she begging him? doesn't she have any self-respect? if he doesn't want her, why is she still staying in his house?" ... so while there would be a section of TRP aunties who would want kunal and mauli united, there would also be a section of aunties who think this is ridiculous.
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Posted: 6 years ago

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finally kunal spoke! just as we laughed a few weeks back, mauli would do all the talking and just forgive kunal and that was about to happen. she didn't read his reactions at all. but he finally stepped up and told her that there was no going back. while he doesn't really explain why he fell for nandini, he is very firm that the chapter with mauli is closed and he has no intention to go back. he said that given his feelings for nandini, he can neither go forward with mauli or go back to how they were.

@bold - even after the kidnapping track, can see nandini going her separate way because she no longer wants to be involved in the middle despite how she feels for kunal. so she will leave. so will kunal. and mauli will figure out things alone. so we might either have a leap where we see all 3 of them leading separate lives after a certain time and then meeting again. or we might see how they figure out their own solo journeys.


First of all, loads of Hugz dear... Hope everything has kind of settled for you and am glad to see you back even if its only for one episode.

Sorry cutting your post...

I cannot even tell you how much I wanted to share @bold with someone but only summerrain and you would have understood that tidbit of information. I was just shaking my head when I saw that scene. She did not understand his expression, sense his body language nor noticed that he did not hug her back. She was on a roll, all ready and set to go back in her happy bubble. I definitely remembered our discussions on this very fact, how we were expecting it and making fun of it. Suffice to say, they have still kept her intact. Thank God, she stopped before blurting out about the baby and Kunal opened his mouth because I would cursed that guy right, left and center, if he would have just gone with the flow. But that scene was so them, their relationship has always been this way. Mauli the headstrong one who is ready to move at top speed on a path that she has decided on, and Kunal the calm one who pulls her back and gives her a reality check.

Whatever my issues with Kunal, sometimes I actually pity him. You might have missed this episode but when Nandini decided to break his relationship with him, he came home and no one in his family sensed his unhappiness, his pain, his sadness. He looked like he was crying, was almost in tears and they happily invited him to have food. Then they continued eating as if this is his normal behavior which its definitely not with relation to food. When he left the table, his mom who should be the first one to sense the difference, went to him, not to ask whats wrong, but to scream at him because he left the table in a huff. Kunal then, asked his mom to sit with him and kept his head on her lap. At this moment, at least, all the red lights in a mother should have been blaring but no, nada, nothing. She ask him is everything ok and then in the next moment finds out he is having fever and that's it, hands him over to Mauli.
I was like, OMG, no wonder this guy strayed because they do not consider him as a living breathing thing with feelings. His feelings do not matter, as long as, he behaves as they expect him to behave. If he dares to do anything different either they ignore him, like they are ignoring this whole affair, or they berate him by screaming or slapping him. No one tries to understand his perspective, his thoughts, his views. He is just not in their consideration.
Now the only person to whom he used to talk, share or was connected to is behaving weirdly so as we had thought that when Kunal's limit is crossed he will just scream, declare his love for Nandini to his family and that would be it. This is exactly what is going to happen now. His fear of losing Nandini is going to make him cross all boundaries.

@bold2: When I saw Nandini taking her decision, I again remembered us discussing that when time comes she is capable of looking at the situation and take the decision based on that. She has that perception and that is exactly what happened. She saw Mauli, saw the state she was in and decided that she does not want to be in the middle of that relationship. That is so her, analyze, take the decision and implement on it without telling, discussing about the why and how. Now she has decided on her path and like you, I do see her taking the same path after kidnapping too if they do not mess with her again or make her do a U turn after so much progress. I so hope they show us the repeat of confession but with a different outcome this time.

I also think that Kunal will not go back to Mauli. Based on his dialogues, he knows and acknowledges that their relationship has ended and it is only going to lead to unhappiness for both of them. I do feel that Kunal has already decided to separate. Mauli is not far away as she has finally got the confirmation from Kunal and she will not walk the reconciliation path anymore. I can see both of them standing up to Dida and telling her that this is it, their marriage is over and hopefully this time the family pressure will be zero.

The signs all indicate three separate journeys for now. Let see how the baby factor and the aftermath of kidnapping pans out...

PS: I hope all TRP aunties are like your aunt who knows what is right and what is wrong. 😊

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