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Posted: 7 years ago
I agree with @SummerRain here, Kunal has to take responsibility. God, destiny and now Mauli is his wheelchair basically he's a morally crippled man who can not take responsibility of his actions, God and destiny was an easy way out, he has always been like "God has given me this love" so what was he doing for 7 years, he wasted 7 years of someone's life, he can use God's name Wo to Waise hi badnam hai.. But what about Mauli?

Whenever I watch KuNan scene the only question in my head is "What about Mauli, you wuss?" he is the one who stayed, he is the one responsible for Dida's condition so he should be the one to tell Dida that he can't do this as he loves Nandini now, there's nothing in his relationship with Mauli, Mauli has already wasted 7 years of her life on this leech, why should she waste even a second on him?

Let's say he's doing this for Dida and he can't help it then can't he at least be a man enough to not go to Nandini at night? He is a 30 year old man, teenagers are more mature than him, if someone was ill in my home I wouldn't go and meet my boyfriend, no matter how strong the love is, people do stay away from each other for months working in different region, army officers don't meet their wives for years, but of course they are man and Kunal is a leech and this is the case when relationship is normal, KuNan's relationship is not normal, even in this he didn't say "Mauli, we are doing this for Dida but I will meet Nandini", No even now he needed Mauli as a wheelchair to carry him there..

I don't think people can be listed as one two three four on basis of priorities, it changes according to the situation, Nandini is number one for Kunal but will she be number one, let's say Mauli is in hospital and Nandini asks Kunal not to go there? It's human nature to prioritize people according to the situation, there's no definite sequence, people react according to the situation, like I won't miss my class for a picnic with my brother but I will take leave for his wedding, the person is same but situation is different..

On why Mauli is going along with this? First of all she is not Nandini, she won't say "Dida can die but I want divorce", that's not who she is but one more reason for this can be that for Mauli this is that one last chance, you know even court gives people a chance to change, their punishment is a chance only, they are not being killed, their freedom is taken away but after serving their term they are free and you know no matter how bad someone is you do give them a chance, you think that they will change, see I think here we are so enamored in Nandini's pure love that we don't understand what Mauli is going through, Kunal does not love her but it doesn't mean she doesn't love him, you don't just stop loving people, she has loved him for years, the heartbreak is too big for her, she filed for divorce, with this month she knows that Kunal will leave her in the end but there is a chance that he might not, 7 years of her life maybe a misfortune for Kunal as he stated but it is a hope for Mauli. You can see the reflection of this in her dialogues she taunted Kunal that he can go to Nandini isn't that how we act when someone we love is close to someone we dislike for example you must have felt or said something like "Haan Haan go to her, you don't even care me any more" with a hope that the reply will be "I am not going anywhere".


I still feel that Nandini needs a psychiatrists, true love and all is BS, She's so obsessed with him that she is not even human in her reactions, how can your first thought be "Kunal will come back to me" when you hear that someone had a heart attack, Dida was one of the people who supported her, she even took a stand for her when Makhija insulted her, it's not like Dida is calling Kunal because she hasn't played chess in a while, in this case I would have expected this reaction from Nandini, so he went to play chess, he'll come back when I will call him, We can't say that kunal is the most important person to her, yes he can be the most important person but someone is dying..

This love is not divine or true or even good for these two, flaw is one thing but something that kills the human in you is not, if now Nandini does not care that Dida is dying next time she'll kill someone for Kunal, how is that a good thing? It's like a cancer, cancer cells lose their identity and develop new set of receptor, similarly Nandini is losing her identity, sensitivity and humanity. She has stopped caring for people around her, she doesn't care about Mauli, she doesn't care that Dida had a heart attack because of her actions but she cares when someone blames her, she cries only when people call her names, she doesn't like this new identity of herself, she was thinking about what Mauli's mother said to her in front of the mirror, she didn't like it one bit but then the negative side of hers wins over the one which is trying to bring her on the right path.

I am not saying she should leave Kunal or Kunal should leave her but their relationship is not healthy, trust is non-existent, but I guess it serves Kunal well that he left a woman who trusted him blindly, believed his lies for a woman who has no faith in him...one example of this is that when Rajdeep asked Mauli to watch a footage Mauli insulted him and left but when Dida asked Nandini to watch the local news channel not only Nandini watched it but she came running to Kunal
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

I agree with @SummerRain here, Kunal has to take responsibility. God, destiny and now Mauli is his wheelchair basically he's a morally crippled man who can not take responsibility of his actions, God and destiny was an easy way out, he has always been like "God has given me this love" so what was he doing for 7 years, he wasted 7 years of someone's life, he can use God's name Wo to Waise hi badnam hai.. But what about Mauli?

Whenever I watch KuNan scene the only question in my head is "What about Mauli, you wuss?" he is the one who stayed, he is the one responsible for Dida's condition so he should be the one to tell Dida that he can't do this as he loves Nandini now, there's nothing in his relationship with Mauli, Mauli has already wasted 7 years of her life on this leech, why should she waste even a second on him?

Let's say he's doing this for Dida and he can't help it then can't he at least be a man enough to not go to Nandini at night? He is a 30 year old man, teenagers are more mature than him, if someone was ill in my home I wouldn't go and meet my boyfriend, no matter how strong the love is, people do stay away from each other for months working in different region, army officers don't meet their wives for years, but of course they are man and Kunal is a leech and this is the case when relationship is normal, KuNan's relationship is not normal, even in this he didn't say "Mauli, we are doing this for Dida but I will meet Nandini", No even now he needed Mauli as a wheelchair to carry him there..

I don't think people can be listed as one two three four on basis of priorities, it changes according to the situation, Nandini is number one for Kunal but will she be number one, let's say Mauli is in hospital and Nandini asks Kunal not to go there? It's human nature to prioritize people according to the situation, there's no definite sequence, people react according to the situation, like I won't miss my class for a picnic with my brother but I will take leave for his wedding, the person is same but situation is different..

On why Mauli is going along with this? First of all she is not Nandini, she won't say "Dida can die but I want divorce", that's not who she is but one more reason for this can be that for Mauli this is that one last chance, you know even court gives people a chance to change, their punishment is a chance only, they are not being killed, their freedom is taken away but after serving their term they are free and you know no matter how bad someone is you do give them a chance, you think that they will change, see I think here we are so enamored in Nandini's pure love that we don't understand what Mauli is going through, Kunal does not love her but it doesn't mean she doesn't love him, you don't just stop loving people, she has loved him for years, the heartbreak is too big for her, she filed for divorce, with this month she knows that Kunal will leave her in the end but there is a chance that he might not, 7 years of her life maybe a misfortune for Kunal as he stated but it is a hope for Mauli. You can see the reflection of this in her dialogues she taunted Kunal that he can go to Nandini isn't that how we act when someone we love is close to someone we dislike for example you must have felt or said something like "Haan Haan go to her, you don't even care me any more" with a hope that the reply will be "I am not going anywhere".


I still feel that Nandini needs a psychiatrists, true love and all is BS, She's so obsessed with him that she is not even human in her reactions, how can your first thought be "Kunal will come back to me" when you hear that someone had a heart attack, Dida was one of the people who supported her, she even took a stand for her when Makhija insulted her, it's not like Dida is calling Kunal because she hasn't played chess in a while, in this case I would have expected this reaction from Nandini, so he went to play chess, he'll come back when I will call him, We can't say that kunal is the most important person to her, yes he can be the most important person but someone is dying..

This love is not divine or true or even good for these two, flaw is one thing but something that kills the human in you is not, if now Nandini does not care that Dida is dying next time she'll kill someone for Kunal, how is that a good thing? It's like a cancer, cancer cells lose their identity and develop new set of receptor, similarly Nandini is losing her identity, sensitivity and humanity. She has stopped caring for people around her, she doesn't care about Mauli, she doesn't care that Dida had a heart attack because of her actions but she cares when someone blames her, she cries only when people call her names, she doesn't like this new identity of herself, she was thinking about what Mauli's mother said to her in front of the mirror, she didn't like it one bit but then the negative side of hers wins over the one which is trying to bring her on the right path.

I am not saying she should leave Kunal or Kunal should leave her but their relationship is not healthy, trust is non-existent, but I guess it serves Kunal well that he left a woman who trusted him blindly, believed his lies for a woman who has no faith in him...one example of this is that when Rajdeep asked Mauli to watch a footage Mauli insulted him and left but when Dida asked Nandini to watch the local news channel not only Nandini watched it but she came running to Kunal



I totally get what you are saying but this was an EMA show and Mauli was supposed to brutally get hurt and Nandini/ Kunal were supposed to be hated. Let's move on. Currently the track is how women even after men cheat still try to salvage their marriage based on family pressure when both the parties know that the marrriage is over? Is it actually possible? Yes it but not how they are showing on the screen. That's ridiculous and that is what we should discuss.

I have not seen the episode yet and I am definitely not taking sides here's but are you saying that Mauli is not Nandini, hence she cannot say that " I want a divorce because Dida can die but Kunal should say "I love Nandini and wants a divorce even though Dida dies. Sorry I did not get that part. If that's the case why are the rules different for Kunal and Mauli? Just because he is cheating and so everything is fine. Cheating is something that you choose to do but it does not change you. You are still the same person and this person cant it hurt Dida.

I just want to point out that this current situation is Dida's creation not Kunal's. I do agree with the fact that Kunal needs to take responsibility and admit his real feelings and intentions to his family but this situation is not the ideal setting to do so as Dida apparently had a heartache. Let all think for a moment on how one feels when someone close to us is sick and what we do at that moment. If they ask for the moon, we would not hesitate to bring it. That's what Kunal and Mauli are doing.

No, he cannot stay away from nandini because think back on the excitement you felt in the initial days of falling in love and knowing it's reciprocated. The constant need to talk to that person, the constant need to be with that person. That's exactly how he is feeling now and no it does not change with age. Prime example is that old man from BB12 who is making the news currently.

None of us like him at the moment but let not be blind to the situation or circumstance that they are showing. I think what we all should object on how this whole situation is being handled. Try salvaging the marriage but please use the right way. First would be to ask Kunal question so that he can take responsibility. Believe me, what I know of him, if Dadi was not sick, he would have never come back home. He was not planning to come back home.

My whole issue is with his family. They have put him on this pedestal and are sweeping all his mistakes under the rug. What I would want to know is why is this family not blaming him? Why are they not asking him questions? Why are they assuming that this is a fling for him and trying to get him back with Mauli without asking for clarifications or his intentions?Dida and everybody else is blaming Nandini, explaining Mauli, why is no one questioning Kunal?

Edited: I thought you wanted Mauli's journey. Now that's what they are showing us in parallel. Mauli needs to totally and completely believe that Kunal has moved on, that hope in her needs to completely die that he will come back. Only then her recovery will start and that's what CVs are showing.
Edited by pamk06 - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
I might have missed this in all your discussions, but one thing I wanted to mention here was that this was the first time I felt that Kunal was finally realizing his mistake and was feeling guilty about it. The way Mauli just said, without emotion, "naa hi mujhe jaane ka haq hai aur naa hi koi zaroorat" and then told him to go was like an eye opener for him because he finally realized how far he had gone and what he had done to Mauli.

At the same time, I'm starting to question all those rumours about Nandini turning revengeful and leaving their life. When Kunal has already told Nandini everything and she has accepted it, then why would she suspect him? And if Kunal can meet Nandini every night, then there is no way for Nandini to misunderstand Kunal. So those rumours must be wrong? Unless the CVs somehow do it so that Nandini runs away right after seeing Mauli in Kunal's arms and suddenly Kunal has no way to contact her or reach her or anything. But this is the same man who found her at a bus station and brought her back. So how will the CVs show something like this without messing up the show and characters even more?
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Posted: 7 years ago

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@summerrain7 -- totally agree with you; am really cheesed off that no one asks kunal to take responsibility for his actions or calling him out on his behaviour. he was the one who initiated this ema by stopping her at the bus stop. ugh, I am really losing patience with this show.

if you are going to show ema as a choice that people make, then show that both are responsible. where is the lectures for kunal? no one, not even his own family, takes him down but dadi and people from other serial will lecture nandini alone. umm, did she cheat by herself? so kunal is "innocent"????? so he is absolved of any responsibility because he is a husband? 😡

and dadi's lecture on love to mauli -- umm, why not give that same lecture to your grandson???? no, mauli has to sit and listen because kunal does not need it?

and how long will he keep quiet? he will not take any initiative and just go along with whatever dadi says?? yea, the CVs are totally losing the plot at the moment. from divine love to divine marriage and kunal is always innocent.


@bold: we will have wait till this whole heart-attack drama is over. He is not going to do anything till he believes Dadi is recovering.


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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: WhyHate

I might have missed this in all your discussions, but one thing I wanted to mention here was that this was the first time I felt that Kunal was finally realizing his mistake and was feeling guilty about it. The way Mauli just said, without emotion, "naa hi mujhe jaane ka haq hai aur naa hi koi zaroorat" and then told him to go was like an eye opener for him because he finally realized how far he had gone and what he had done to Mauli.

At the same time, I'm starting to question all those rumours about Nandini turning revengeful and leaving their life. When Kunal has already told Nandini everything and she has accepted it, then why would she suspect him? And if Kunal can meet Nandini every night, then there is no way for Nandini to misunderstand Kunal. So those rumours must be wrong? Unless the CVs somehow do it so that Nandini runs away right after seeing Mauli in Kunal's arms and suddenly Kunal has no way to contact her or reach her or anything. But this is the same man who found her at a bus station and brought her back. So how will the CVs show something like this without messing up the show and characters even more?


There is an OLV where they show that he is talking to her for whole night. Its looks like they are starting Mauli journey and will show K&N in an insecure relationship. Or my favorite, all three separate.
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: pamk06


There is an OLV where they show that he is talking to her for whole night. Its looks like they are starting Mauli journey and will show K&N in an insecure relationship. Or my favorite, all three separate.



The insecure relationship reminds me of Arth. It was on a similar tangent. Smita Patil's character feels insecure after getting married to Kulbhushan's character even though Shabana Azmi's character moved on and is secure in life. They could end up doing something similar to that. In a way Silsila just seems to be a rehash of some good movies and shows.

Rajdeep is like a comic version of Viraj from Dil Se Di Dua. The whole abuse angle could basically have been lifted from there. Then we have movies like Arth, Nikaah, and others that are copied for many of the subplots and to take the story forward. Did the CVs do anything original so far?
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: pamk06



I totally get what you are saying but this was an EMA show and Mauli was supposed to brutally get hurt and Nandini/ Kunal were supposed to be hated. Let's move on. Currently the track is how women even after men cheat still try to salvage their marriage based on family pressure when both the parties know that the marrriage is over? Is it actually possible? Yes it but not how they are showing on the screen. That's ridiculous and that is what we should discuss.

I have not seen the episode yet and I am definitely not taking sides here's but are you saying that Mauli is not Nandini, hence she cannot say that " I want a divorce because Dida can die but Kunal should say "I love Nandini and wants a divorce even though Dida dies. Sorry I did not get that part. If that's the case why are the rules different for Kunal and Mauli? Just because he is cheating and so everything is fine. Cheating is something that you choose to do but it does not change you. You are still the same person and this person cant it hurt Dida.

I just want to point out that this current situation is Dida's creation not Kunal's. I do agree with the fact that Kunal needs to take responsibility and admit his real feelings and intentions to his family but this situation is not the ideal setting to do so as Dida apparently had a heartache. Let all think for a moment on how one feels when someone close to us is sick and what we do at that moment. If they ask for the moon, we would not hesitate to bring it. That's what Kunal and Mauli are doing.

No, he cannot stay away from nandini because think back on the excitement you felt in the initial days of falling in love and knowing it's reciprocated. The constant need to talk to that person, the constant need to be with that person. That's exactly how he is feeling now and no it does not change with age. Prime example is that old man from BB12 who is making the news currently.

None of us like him at the moment but let not be blind to the situation or circumstance that they are showing. I think what we all should object on how this whole situation is being handled. Try salvaging the marriage but please use the right way. First would be to ask Kunal question so that he can take responsibility. Believe me, what I know of him, if Dadi was not sick, he would have never come back home. He was not planning to come back home.

My whole issue is with his family. They have put him on this pedestal and are sweeping all his mistakes under the rug. What I would want to know is why is this family not blaming him? Why are they not asking him questions? Why are they assuming that this is a fling for him and trying to get him back with Mauli without asking for clarifications or his intentions?Dida and everybody else is blaming Nandini, explaining Mauli, why is no one questioning Kunal?

Edited: I thought you wanted Mauli's journey. Now that's what they are showing us in parallel. Mauli needs to totally and completely believe that Kunal has moved on, that hope in her needs to completely die that he will come back. Only then her recovery will start and that's what CVs are showing.




Kunal should not say that he has to take responsibility for his actions, he loves Nandini right? He is the one who cheated so why shouldn't he be the one to carry the news to Dida? His family does not know the extent of his relationship with Nandini because he never says anything in front of them, they have asked him a countless time, if he was brave enough to indulge in an EMA, he should be brave enough to tell his family about it.

Why should it be different for Kunal and Mauli? Because Mauli is not the culprit here, this situation is not Dida's doing, this situation is a mess generated by Kunal's actions and the only one paying a price here is Mauli, Kunal is meeting Nandini and keeping the face of a caring grandson in front her so he's happy, but does he realize that his ex wife is covering for him? When we talk about responsibility, I don't understand just because kunal loves Nandini now why is it that Mauli's freedom is not his responsibility, Mauli cleared she wants a divorce, Kunal's grandmother is ill and Mauli is staying with him for her, he sees that she's getting hurt in the process and he's not helping her either, after cheating on her, the least he could do is free her. Funny how he has left all of his responsibilities on Mauli from his family to covering for him when he goes out to see his girlfriend. He used her for 7 years and is thinking about using her for a lifetime. Then he says he's sorry, his actions speak louder than his words.

In this one month thing, the whole burden and heartache is for Mauli and that's why we are asking Kunal to man up, no?

"Kunal doesn't want to hurt Dida" he is hurting his whole family, even when he knows that his dida had heart attack he is sneaking out at night to meet Nandini, you don't go to meet your boyfriend or girlfriend, no matter how new the love is when someone in your family is ill and in Kunal's case she is ill because he is in love with Nandini, so a person who says he does not want to hurt his dida would not do anything like this thinking "What if she finds out?"

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: SummerRain7

Can anyone tell me, what exactly did Kunal tell Nandini about his one month stay.? Did he say it was just to take care of Dida or did he tell her the truth? I know he did not tell her about the Puja. I had to step away from the TV and so missed it.



Ahhh (putting both hands on my face and looking shocked) .. How did you miss the most historical moment of this show? This was the moment they talked, talked, you know and that too with words not silence... and then another historical moment, are you ready for it..There was self talk.(Both eyes are wide open)..Shocking right,and you missed it... Tu...Tu...Tu (shaking my head)🤣🤣🤣

He told her about Dida but did not tell her about the puja he did with Mauli because he thought that she will feel bad and she thought, that I know that you were in puja, but you are not telling me that fine but she did not like it She later also thought that, though our relation is not right, its strong (not sure if this ended with question mark or full stop)

Basically, Kunal just dug a hole for himself. He has no idea what he did today. He completely forgot that he was talking to Nandini not Mauli. Mauli is a person who will forgive and forget this small lies and move on but Nandini might forgive but never forget.

Trust is the key here. Because of her past, the only person she could trust and rely on was herself. But Kunal changed that and slowly she started trusting him. Then with different events during her recovery that trust become strong and currently he is the only person, other than herself she trusts and thus believes everything he says.

Today with his half truth, he put the first strike in that trust. It will not be easy to close that again and things are stacking against him, Starting with his promise that he will stay with her forever but now he cannot because of Dida. Second, he promised her he will take her to the temple, he could not do it. Third, today again he promised her, he will come and meet her everyday late in the night. Based on OLV, we know he will not be able to do it. Dida's tactics, Chakor;s and Mauli's mom words are all going to start making a impact and she might start putting a distance between them and also start questioning his actions. I think her breaking point would be the moment she feels that their bond is not strong,

Whichever route they choose, insecure or her going away (I hope its this), this half truth is the foundation of it. In short, Kunal is heading toward tough times or a breakdown and it will be all his doing. I almost feel pity for him


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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: WhyHate



The insecure relationship reminds me of Arth. It was on a similar tangent. Smita Patil's character feels insecure after getting married to Kulbhushan's character even though Shabana Azmi's character moved on and is secure in life. They could end up doing something similar to that. In a way Silsila just seems to be a rehash of some good movies and shows.

Rajdeep is like a comic version of Viraj from Dil Se Di Dua. The whole abuse angle could basically have been lifted from there. Then we have movies like Arth, Nikaah, and others that are copied for many of the subplots and to take the story forward. Did the CVs do anything original so far?


I don't like it. I want Nandini to go and become a strong women. Mauli to become a strong women after this heartbreak and Kunal to be alone. Why do they insist on making the other women weak and suffer? That such a cliche view. Let the man suffer for a change.
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Question fr you ladies:
Today Dida said, "This is the story of true love. In love, people are tested and they go through lot of tribulations. They meet, they separate, they fight, they cry but finally they unite as true love never loses. If you lose hope, you will never win but that person will wins who with full trust waits for their love to return"

So CV's are telling us the this is the story of true love but, according to you,who are they referring to here? Kunal and Mauli or Kunal and Nandini? @bold: This is Kunal but is he going to wait for Mauli to return to him or is he going to wait for Nandini to return if she leaves? Thoughts??

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