looking at the CVs - Page 37

Originally posted by: music_l0ver036

I agree with both of your comments. I feel like at the end of the day Kunal is really a family man. He doesn't want to upset his family members (hence why he didn't say anything) and he doesn't want them to be angry at him either. He wants to create the least amount of problems. I'm glad he knows that he's wrong and he's said it too. Unfortunately, it's Dida and Mauli's mom that have been the problems. They are not blaming the person who is actually responsible for the betrayal. Yes you can blame Nandani but in this society, no matter what you believe, friendship is never considered to be in a higher standard than a marriage. It goes without saying (apparently not) that Kunal should never have cheated on his wife. But these two women are not blaming him, are not giving him the backlash that he needs to fully understand that what he did was wrong. And then maybe if his love for Nandani is really as strong as he makes it out to be, he would have said something out loud. If Dida and Mauli's mom, who has the most power and the biggest voice respectively, had also blamed Kunal, the divorce process would have probably been over and done with.

Originally posted by: pamk06

Question fr you ladies:

Today Dida said, "This is the story of true love. In love, people are tested and they go through lot of tribulations. They meet, they separate, they fight, they cry but finally they unite as true love never loses. If you lose hope, you will never win but that person will wins who with full trust waits for their love to return"

So CV's are telling us the this is the story of true love but, according to you,who are they referring to here? Kunal and Mauli or Kunal and Nandini? @bold: This is Kunal but is he going to wait for Mauli to return to him or is he going to wait for Nandini to return if she leaves? Thoughts??

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

I agree with @SummerRain here, Kunal has to take responsibility. God, destiny and now Mauli is his wheelchair basically he's a morally crippled man who can not take responsibility of his actions, God and destiny was an easy way out, he has always been like "God has given me this love" so what was he doing for 7 years, he wasted 7 years of someone's life, he can use God's name Wo to Waise hi badnam hai.. But what about Mauli?

Whenever I watch KuNan scene the only question in my head is "What about Mauli, you wuss?" he is the one who stayed, he is the one responsible for Dida's condition so he should be the one to tell Dida that he can't do this as he loves Nandini now, there's nothing in his relationship with Mauli, Mauli has already wasted 7 years of her life on this leech, why should she waste even a second on him?

Let's say he's doing this for Dida and he can't help it then can't he at least be a man enough to not go to Nandini at night? He is a 30 year old man, teenagers are more mature than him, if someone was ill in my home I wouldn't go and meet my boyfriend, no matter how strong the love is, people do stay away from each other for months working in different region, army officers don't meet their wives for years, but of course they are man and Kunal is a leech and this is the case when relationship is normal, KuNan's relationship is not normal, even in this he didn't say "Mauli, we are doing this for Dida but I will meet Nandini", No even now he needed Mauli as a wheelchair to carry him there..

I don't think people can be listed as one two three four on basis of priorities, it changes according to the situation, Nandini is number one for Kunal but will she be number one, let's say Mauli is in hospital and Nandini asks Kunal not to go there? It's human nature to prioritize people according to the situation, there's no definite sequence, people react according to the situation, like I won't miss my class for a picnic with my brother but I will take leave for his wedding, the person is same but situation is different..

On why Mauli is going along with this? First of all she is not Nandini, she won't say "Dida can die but I want divorce", that's not who she is but one more reason for this can be that for Mauli this is that one last chance, you know even court gives people a chance to change, their punishment is a chance only, they are not being killed, their freedom is taken away but after serving their term they are free and you know no matter how bad someone is you do give them a chance, you think that they will change, see I think here we are so enamored in Nandini's pure love that we don't understand what Mauli is going through, Kunal does not love her but it doesn't mean she doesn't love him, you don't just stop loving people, she has loved him for years, the heartbreak is too big for her, she filed for divorce, with this month she knows that Kunal will leave her in the end but there is a chance that he might not, 7 years of her life maybe a misfortune for Kunal as he stated but it is a hope for Mauli. You can see the reflection of this in her dialogues she taunted Kunal that he can go to Nandini isn't that how we act when someone we love is close to someone we dislike for example you must have felt or said something like "Haan Haan go to her, you don't even care me any more" with a hope that the reply will be "I am not going anywhere".


I still feel that Nandini needs a psychiatrists, true love and all is BS, She's so obsessed with him that she is not even human in her reactions, how can your first thought be "Kunal will come back to me" when you hear that someone had a heart attack, Dida was one of the people who supported her, she even took a stand for her when Makhija insulted her, it's not like Dida is calling Kunal because she hasn't played chess in a while, in this case I would have expected this reaction from Nandini, so he went to play chess, he'll come back when I will call him, We can't say that kunal is the most important person to her, yes he can be the most important person but someone is dying..

This love is not divine or true or even good for these two, flaw is one thing but something that kills the human in you is not, if now Nandini does not care that Dida is dying next time she'll kill someone for Kunal, how is that a good thing? It's like a cancer, cancer cells lose their identity and develop new set of receptor, similarly Nandini is losing her identity, sensitivity and humanity. She has stopped caring for people around her, she doesn't care about Mauli, she doesn't care that Dida had a heart attack because of her actions but she cares when someone blames her, she cries only when people call her names, she doesn't like this new identity of herself, she was thinking about what Mauli's mother said to her in front of the mirror, she didn't like it one bit but then the negative side of hers wins over the one which is trying to bring her on the right path.

I am not saying she should leave Kunal or Kunal should leave her but their relationship is not healthy, trust is non-existent, but I guess it serves Kunal well that he left a woman who trusted him blindly, believed his lies for a woman who has no faith in him...one example of this is that when Rajdeep asked Mauli to watch a footage Mauli insulted him and left but when Dida asked Nandini to watch the local news channel not only Nandini watched it but she came running to Kunal

Originally posted by: pamk06

Ahhh (putting both hands on my face and looking shocked) .. How did you miss the most historical moment of this show? This was the moment they talked, talked, you know and that too with words not silence... and then another historical moment, are you ready for it..There was self talk.(Both eyes are wide open)..Shocking right,and you missed it... Tu...Tu...Tu (shaking my head)🤣🤣🤣

He told her about Dida but did not tell her about the puja he did with Mauli because he thought that she will feel bad and she thought, that I know that you were in puja, but you are not telling me that fine but she did not like it She later also thought that, though our relation is not right, its strong (not sure if this ended with question mark or full stop)

Basically, Kunal just dug a hole for himself. He has no idea what he did today. He completely forgot that he was talking to Nandini not Mauli. Mauli is a person who will forgive and forget this small lies and move on but Nandini might forgive but never forget.

Trust is the key here. Because of her past, the only person she could trust and rely on was herself. But Kunal changed that and slowly she started trusting him. Then with different events during her recovery that trust become strong and currently he is the only person, other than herself she trusts and thus believes everything he says.

Today with his half truth, he put the first strike in that trust. It will not be easy to close that again and things are stacking against him, Starting with his promise that he will stay with her forever but now he cannot because of Dida. Second, he promised her he will take her to the temple, he could not do it. Third, today again he promised her, he will come and meet her everyday late in the night. Based on OLV, we know he will not be able to do it. Dida's tactics, Chakor;s and Mauli's mom words are all going to start making a impact and she might start putting a distance between them and also start questioning his actions. I think her breaking point would be the moment she feels that their bond is not strong,

Whichever route they choose, insecure or her going away (I hope its this), this half truth is the foundation of it. In short, Kunal is heading toward tough times or a breakdown and it will be all his doing. I almost feel pity for him

Originally posted by: pamk06

Question fr you ladies:

Today Dida said, "This is the story of true love. In love, people are tested and they go through lot of tribulations. They meet, they separate, they fight, they cry but finally they unite as true love never loses. If you lose hope, you will never win but that person will wins who with full trust waits for their love to return"

So CV's are telling us the this is the story of true love but, according to you,who are they referring to here? Kunal and Mauli or Kunal and Nandini? @bold: This is Kunal but is he going to wait for Mauli to return to him or is he going to wait for Nandini to return if she leaves? Thoughts??

Originally posted by: pamk06

Question fr you ladies:

Today Dida said, "This is the story of true love. In love, people are tested and they go through lot of tribulations. They meet, they separate, they fight, they cry but finally they unite as true love never loses. If you lose hope, you will never win but that person will wins who with full trust waits for their love to return"

So CV's are telling us the this is the story of true love but, according to you,who are they referring to here? Kunal and Mauli or Kunal and Nandini? @bold: This is Kunal but is he going to wait for Mauli to return to him or is he going to wait for Nandini to return if she leaves? Thoughts??

Originally posted by: WhyHate

Originally posted by: mango_pudding1

first, can I say how much I hated that scene and felt like slapping dadi???? mauli is already hurt and this old lady is driving the thorns further into her heart by making such statements. if it was someone like mauli's mom, this statement would have read like an accusation. that because of mauli's lack of true love, this fellow somehow left. 😡 but it really got on my nerves that mauli was supposed to listen to such lectures when the old lady has no guts to give this statement to her grandson who broke this commitment. so where was his true love? where was his trust? and is dadi referring to an affair to some mini tribulation???? why is the onus on mauli to have trust? to have the responsibility to wait???? it just ticked me off. 😡

and what on earth is this divine marriage stuff the CVs are now trying to clobber viewers with after giving us divine love for 3 months? ugh. marriages break and life goes on. are the CVs saying that people have no right to divorce, move on and find another happiness?

ok, rant over.

from the CVs perspective, would say that it is going to be kunal and since they have stuck this divine love story, then he should be waiting for nandini. however, they are now doing some googly and trying to portray marriage as divine in which case, it may be mauli. either way, these women are not going to be waiting for him because they seem to have better sense. but given the way, the CVs write, who knows!!!!

Originally posted by: _charu_

If kunal and maulis bond is strong , kunal will repent , that is sufficient for me . Then mauli must ditch him and not accept him back . What role will nandu play , she will go here or there , i have no idea..she will turn obsessive , therr are indications . She will not let kunal breathe . Maza aa jayega

Originally posted by: mango_pudding1

from how the CVs presented this whole 3 months, kunal and nandini's love was divine which itself indicated that kunal and mauli's bond is nowhere strong. now, all of a sudden, they seem to be doing a googly and showing marriage is divine.

if they show nandini as some obsessive person and therefore, kunal repents, this whole story is some rehash of some old movies and utterly pointless and lazy story writing. the whole new angle of the drama was that sometimes, the other woman is a normal person and not the vamp you generally assume. however, if they go back to the scenario you wrote, then this drama is nothing new and it is just really lazy writing.

also don't want kunal to come back to mauli and make it seem like her responsibility to reject this fellow. no it wasn't her choice to walk out of her marriage. it was his. so she should remain the innocent divorcee.

kunal and nandini should break up but not because she turns obsessive but because she is a stronger woman and is not going to wait for kunal to gather the courage to turn assertive.now, that will be the modern version of giving a slap to this story.