marriage shud happen Hate somaya

i am not really in favour of hrman marriage with surbhi seriously .and i dont like somaya here seriously . its not necessary to be educated to be smart . i understand she is nice ,innocent blah blah but when it comes to someone u love ,ur husband i expect every wife to fought for her right especially when husband loves her so much. #Bhaad Mei jaye aise innocence and selflessness .

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no matter what maarying one's sister's husband is downright wrong in my dictionary and here i dont blame surbhi not at all.

though what shocked me is my mothers opinion of this marriage being right . comeone how??

she says harman's mother will obviously get him married to some othee girl forcefully so why not her sister who she can trust and marriage of somaya will also remain intact what the ??


but that not new is it that what majes me more angry that some ppl in real do such stuff in this age of advanced science .( if tushar kappor can become a father without marriage harman can too) .they want want his Dna to carry on it will . there is no need to separate two ppl in love.

coming to This type of marriage in real . my long long relative had the same story .

one sis was not able to give birth even after 4 yr of marriage so they got her younger sis to marry her husband .

after one yr of their marriage her younger sis give birth to baby girl and the most shocking was after few months even her elder sis married to the same man give birth to a baby too ( i was like What the f**k. if only they have waited a lil longer to go with this marriage .than both sis wont be married to same man .no matter how easy it seems but this matter to serious and living it is so much harder)

There you go girl ... So you yourself know that movies and show however crap they are , acts as a mirror of what society thinks and do . See , you yourself said that such things of marrying same man for heir or for other reasons have taken place in REAL life and this show (though right now most of us are feeling pukish with this track of 3 marriage) was showing exactly what ppl do in REAL LIFE .. The mindset of ppl will take another 2-3 generations to actually change and think what is right .. Not only your mom but in Indian society even most of the educated ppl feel that Harman's marriage with Surbhi inspite of having a legally wedded wife Saumya is right and they have their own POV's .. At times I curse Indian shows for showing nonsense but when I read such posts then I think that Indians shows are regressive bcz in reality ppl's mindset is regressive since TV portrays what ppl feel and do in their life .. So more than shows regressivness it should be the approach of ppl which needs to be changed .. Still many educated and non educated ppl feel disgust with saumya staying with harman bcz she is a kinner , so you see that still ppl are not that progressive to welcome kinners and not to see kinners , lesbians , gays , ppl with short clothes with disgust and judge them by their clothing or body .. While most of us are feeling pukish with this 3 marriage fiasco , there are ppl out their in our society who feel that this marriage should happen and they have there own reasons for it and if talking about laws then trust me - no comments .. If in hindu law 3 marriages are banned then even child marriages are banned but still child marriage happens and so does such marriages for kids or other reasons .. Untill and unless law is strict and EQUAL IN EVERY MATTER then such things can't be put at halt .. Thanks for telling us your cousin's story ... Its pathetic to see that what days have come in this world ... Thanks and Good Night ..

This is kalpana se pare story...you can never know

Originally posted by: RagingBlaze

There you go girl ... So you yourself know that movies and show however crap they are , acts as a mirror of what society thinks and do . See , you yourself said that such things of marrying same man for heir or for other reasons have taken place in REAL life and this show (though right now most of us are feeling pukish with this track of 3 marriage) was showing exactly what ppl do in REAL LIFE .. The mindset of ppl will take another 2-3 generations to actually change and think what is right .. Not only your mom but in Indian society even most of the educated ppl feel that Harman's marriage with Surbhi inspite of having a legally wedded wife Saumya is right and they have their own POV's .. At times I curse Indian shows for showing nonsense but when I read such posts then I think that Indians shows are regressive bcz in reality ppl's mindset is regressive since TV portrays what ppl feel and do in their life .. So more than shows regressivness it should be the approach of ppl which needs to be changed .. Still many educated and non educated ppl feel disgust with saumya staying with harman bcz she is a kinner , so you see that still ppl are not that progressive to welcome kinners and not to see kinners , lesbians , gays , ppl with short clothes with disgust and judge them by their clothing or body .. While most of us are feeling pukish with this 3 marriage fiasco , there are ppl out their in our society who feel that this marriage should happen and they have there own reasons for it and if talking about laws then trust me - no comments .. If in hindu law 3 marriages are banned then even child marriages are banned but still child marriage happens and so does such marriages for kids or other reasons .. Untill and unless law is strict and EQUAL IN EVERY MATTER then such things can't be put at halt .. Thanks for telling us your cousin's story ... Its pathetic to see that what days have come in this world ... Thanks and Good Night ..

you are absolutely right . tv and movies r the mirror of our society but i wanted them to show ppl the other way not just follow what is happening blindly .

i so wish marriage at end dont happen infact they show a new way to ppl who are watching showing them there are other solution to this problem than destroying ppl who are in love .

yes ppl still behave and treat kinnar ,gay ,lesbian etc as some plaugue forget that this pertichal society dont even accept the girl child fully or stand up for a women's dignity what else can we expect .

Soumya is the most selfish and irritating character right now😳

Originally posted by: shivinrocks

<font face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" size="4" color="#993366">well said! but my mom has a complete different take on the current tracka, as we were discussing about it. she says soumya has become irritating now and thereasons are:</font>

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<font face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" size="4" color="#993366">1) she loves harman and says the marriage is for harman's family n harman but girl do u realised ever harman is not happy he told you straight forward cant u understand the language he spoke to you.forget about preeto dont play a victim card n try to become mahan here, fight how u fought with the kinnars and then when the goons kidnapped you.</font>

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<font face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" size="4" color="#993366">2) if she really wants harman to see as complete as a man by giving birth to bacchas from ur sis then plz go away far from them after the marriage and be happy(she only said na kisi kone main she will be happy). show some self respect n dignity girl.</font>

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<font face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" size="4" color="#993366">4) y is surbhi not saying the complete story to harman about the reason of remarriage and get out of the shit, she is not weak unlike soumya, she should infact try n make her sister strong rather then listening to her stupid ideas and suggestions.</font>

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<font face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" size="4" color="#993366">huh enuf of rant!!</font>

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<font face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" size="4" color="#993366">cvs stop showing this utter nonsense in the name of #shaktiekastitva</font>

you r right surbhi should put some brain into somaya and should not go with the marriage but alas! i dont think it will happen .

though till now i have liked surbhi character no matter what ppl said abut her . she has stood up for her sister all this while .

i want somaya to stand up for her right and open her freaking eyes and use her brain and instinct .

Originally posted by: anitarani

This is kalpana se pare story...you can never know

what to expect...😕

sachi m haad hai

Originally posted by: alka2212

Soumya is the most selfish and irritating character right now😳

She is only bechari in front of preeto but with Harman she is so manipulative

I don't believe that innocent people can act so brilliantly

certainly how can she be so selfish . its enough .how can u drag down ur younger sis like that in ur mess .

i am anti-innocent right now . no person can be that innocent pls and i am not a fool to believe her acts its high time she steps up .

its not about innocent nature but instict to fight and survive

RS always had dis story in her mind. Datshwy she chose a north Indian village..if she wanted to show IVF, Surrogacy, Social acceptance den she wud have chose Delhi n Mumbai n not Gurdaspur for setting her story...