'Intolerance to luv'was a waste of time Amir. - Page 4

Originally posted by: nniks

@TM u have missed the wholw point of the show...Amir khan is not propogating inter caste or intereligion marriages...I know most people would prefer tht their kids get married within their community but suppos ur kids disobey and decide to get married by their choice...the parents or community have no right to torture and kill them.

They might remain upset but killing ur own child for the sake of honour is barbaric.

similarly we can ban inter religion marriage...there are probs in interreligion marriage like adjusting to a new culture but if both partners are willing to adjust it should not cause a prob.

Love jihad and all are separate issues...

Parents do not own their kids ...once they r adults they have right to take independent decisions.

similarly for gotra issue...gotra issue was valid when polulation was small and most people of one gotra were related.

but now with 2 billion population and diverse gene pool I wonder gotra issue is valid.If 2 people are not blood relatives why is same gotra marriage still a taboo ??

My husband and me belong to same gotra but we r not related we had an arranged marriage and gotra was never an issue.

We have a son he's perfectly healthy and normal kid infact he's taller and much more intelligent than avg kids of his age.

So claiming same gotra marriage affects the progeny in baseless.

Originally posted by: ComebackMaaneet

Even I am objecting killing but it will not stop by preaching and opposing it sill stop when we understand the feelings of both parents and children and not just children..

To avoid killings,to avoid exploitation of both parents and lovers it is important to consider point of view of both..

Hence law shud be enforced to protect feelings of both parents and children and not just one...

This imbalance in particular is a major reason which has led to those incidents and this imbalance where the constitution favuring only the children under the name of freedom will only intensify the belief of those who kill lovers...

To pacify and kill this habit and passion of killing lovers a set of law with rules protecting rights of both parents and children will rule out involvement of so called society and outsiders...

Following rules shud be introduced...

1) It shud be mandatory to take approval of both living parents ( of boy and girl) in case of marriage and in rare cases if they are not alive then government should approve with certain terms and conditions.

2) An independent body shud be made to keep a check on inter religious marriages which ensures there is no conversion and identity of the individuals is kept intact...

3) The idea of an individual has a right to choose his own religion is good but activities like luv jihad and other forceful conversions under the name of love and marriage has seriously hurt this thought where many raise questions over the true reasons of conversion,if it is by will or force or no other choice,specially in case of girls who marry a boy from other religion,hence an law shud be enforced where the identity will remain the same after marriage.

4) Children shud be given exposure to both religions and not one and this shud be taken care by enforcing law..

5) Respect and tolerance toward other religion shud not be kept merely as preaches and part of politicians speech but shud be practiced with law ensuring it...

We as Indians are multi cultural country...its unlike west or other nations where the country has one dominant religion and culture..

Our constituion is influenced by the british constituion..the british constituion is influenced by their cultural beliefs..their cultural beleif is based on their religion and since UK had one religion as predominant they never had issues with love marriages...if the opposite partner is gud...

This is wht that panchayat guy was trying to explain and aamir made fun of him,this is the only episode where he did not try to get to the root cause why?

Becoz aamir knew wht is the root cause...and it is a sensitive topic..

It is religion and he was either afraid or too diplomatic to throw light on it...

The moment other cultures became part of countries like UK,france and US or canada..they are now facing the same issues wht we are discussing...

Even they dont accept inter religion marriages with open heart...be it under the name of religion,color or origin,they are similar to us...

If u r objecting killing then suggest solutions as well and the five points are my solution to define boundary and avoid such idiotic killings...

Merely carrying out candle march,writing I oppose,I oppose wont change anything...

Its law and proper law protecting both rights of parents and children will rectify and stop such acts..and with time when impact of religion on our life pacifies everything will be normal

Originally posted by: guptarashi

@comebackmaaneet: I guess..You haven't seen the show properly. Aamir always repeats in his each episode that he has no intention of intervening in the work of law or court whatsoever. There are some topics on which one cannot suggest any SOLUTION.. one can only make people understand the pros & cons of these bloody superstitions & paramparaas..😡

Please dont raise such lame questions on Aamir's clean intentions.

If you have any then please suggest some solutions to stop these killings???

Originally posted by: ComebackMaaneet

Originally posted by: guptarashi

See..It is not about selfishness or thinking exclusively about love and only love. It is about co-operativeness & understanding between parents and their children.

If a girl wants to marry a guy of her own choice & her parents forcibly stop her from doing the same just coz it would be against their honour..it would upset their relatives and bla then its a sheer savagery on part of parents. Coz if that guy is well-settled then I dont think there is anything else which is necessary.. & caste toh bilkul bhi nahi. 😡

& the points you have suggested do not fall in the category of solution. [No offences] but its true. We cannot call them solution to this grave problem.

Originally posted by: fire.whiskey

I guess most of us here had got an obsessive compulsive disorder to complain against this show!
[Apologies if it offends but aren't you people tired?]

Dear friend what you say was insensible wasn't insensible at all.

And definitely feelings of both parents and children should be taken into consideration but aren't you forgetting something parents have had their share of joys and sorrow and now its time for their children to enjoy the same.

Did you even notice how animalistic those people were.

To tell you same-gotra people aren't blood related or brother or sister for that matter I am a religious person too and have great-good interest in history but this is a piece of bu**-shit.

I rather would say somewhere you just proved you still is a staunch

believer of old-rituals.

And to tell you love-marriages are still a taboo in our Country!

So I'd rather say Aamir doesn't need any background check but yes we people do!