'Intolerance to luv'was a waste of time Amir. - Page 2

Originally posted by: vincikhurana

well this shows that u r against inter religion marriages...which is certainly wrong!

its not amir khan's fault...it is probably yours

i agree parents have a complete right on their children...but it is child whose suppose to marry...

they may not agree if they find the selected boy/girl not right for their child but if they do not agree because of his religion or caste then their is a problem with the society...n people who think that way(well i guess including the topic maker)...

and also gotra means from same lineage ...marrying within family or brother/sister/cousin etc does give problem genetically but not "gotra" as a whole...

get your facts right please...👎🏼

Originally posted by: fire_gun

let me simplify the episode... episode says that lovers has not done such crime by doing love marriage that they should be killed..parents may get upset from their decision but taking their life and torturing them is some thing which cant be justified ... more power to aamir and satyamev jayte😊..in my opinion child may take wrong decision in choosing right life partner but they should not be killed for love marriage

Originally posted by: monamie111

i was a silent reader of this forum..but this topic just made me post something!! u r talking like u r from the ancient ages... 😆 😆

@ bold blue...

the marriages they showed in today's episode they were not between cousins or family members!!...genetically problem happens only if u marry ur family members, means someone with whom u have blood relation..like ur brother, sister, cousins etc...but does same gotra means that u have blood relation with that person? 😕... when two person do not belong from same family, then why can't they marry each other when they loves each other!!? 😲

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one more thing i just want to write...why we can't just be a HUMAN BEING irrespective of our cast, creed, religion, color?..it is the greatest crime of this world to kill someone in the name of religion! and the people r doing this...saying that its "parampara" and its a sin etc etc...i bet they have half-knowledge about religion, about science!! and they r doing the crime actually...

u r talking about hindu religion! well, there are many other religions in this world which actually allow marriages between cousins!! there are different rules for different religion..different countries...and it is very difficult to judge which one is right and which one not!...but definitely i can not be agree with u...bcoz i can not tolerate such heinous act of killing innocent people in the name of "gotra", "religion"...whatever!! we should try to be a good human being first then we should think about our gotra!!

one thing i don understand...why it is so much important!? and "jab mia biwi razi to kya karega kazi!"...

Originally posted by: Chitrashi

I do not know whether to laugh at the stupid statements you've made or to pity the poor people who are forced to live with bigotries that you've spouted. Sorry my friend from what you've said, you cannot call yourself a "moderate" by any stretch of imagination. You are bigoted and best you accept that.

I'm also amazed by the inanities you've uttered for discrimination against girls. Seems like to your mind all "Hindu" girls are simply waiting with baited breath to rush into intercaste marriage and the only way to stop them is to beat them, keep them uneducated, to deprive them of all financial independence, to keep them locked up and if all else fails, to kill them. Well, if that is your way of thinking and operating in real life, it would be better for girls to run away soon as as they can walk, than live in such barbaric society.

Also you seem to have no concept of what entails being an adult, age of consent, being educated and self-determination. You seem to want to take the country back to middle ages. All I can say is go back to sleep Rip Wan Winkle.

Originally posted by: sindu_gurti

I think you totally misunderstood the episode...dear., first of all the basic thing we need to follow in life is LIVE AND LET LIVE...is it so difficult to do.!..there are many things happening as a result of marriages., be it arranged or love marriages., if we choose a wrong partner our life ends in vain..I agree., but what is the point if an individual decided with whom he/she needs to share her/Her life...Is that a crime dear!!! I wonder!!! why did you misunderstand the concept., I don't get it...!!!!!!...

Running away from home is definitely not a correct thing...but at the same time when your love is simply denied because your padosi will be upset! your chacha and chachi will be upset., and you don't belong to your own caste/religion!!! if running away and getting married is wrong., then denying and sacrificing ones own right to live for others is just equivalent to kill that person ., so denying someones happiness is also wrong...

...if parents feels that guy is a wrong person or that girl is not good in character or really the home where she /he gonna live is really problematic we can stop them., that too just by words ., not by actions,..if they decide so., then YES DEFINITELY YES., THEY SHOULD NOT INTERFERE...I WILL TELL YOU ONE THING., CHILDREN ARE THROUGH PARENTS BUT DEFINITELY not FOR PARENTS...you are misreading things...

There are crimes happening. in the name of marriages.,, lives are taken in the name of caste/country/religion...and here you are trying to convince others to see from those cruel peoples point of view...who are ready to kill( even getting married to someone with someone else in your heart and soul is indeed equivalent t killing only) their own siblings ..its really tragic to see this post...

WE NEED A CHANGE., AND ITS ESSENTIAL., NOT FOR COUNTRY'S GROWTH.,

BUT FOR THE HUMANITY TO GROW..

IF YOU REALLY FEEL THIS IS VITAL THEN STOP TAKING THEIR SIDES AND BE BOLD., MAKE THEM UNDERSTAND THEIR MISTAKE..

IF NOT LET THEM SUFFER.LET THEM VENT., , YOU TAKE A STEP AHEAD AND FACE OR LIVE YOUR LIFE..

.AFTER ALL LIFE IS FOR ONCE AND LIVE IT AS YOU WISH...ALL I CAN SAY AGAIN IS PLEASE LIVE AND LET LIVE!!!!!!

Originally posted by: Chitrashi

If what you are saying, you believe wholeheartedly, then wouldn't the better solution to stop killings in the name of religion be to abolish religion altogether?

Religion is a framework to keep society functional, it is not the excuse for murder and mayhem. There is only one reason for murder and that is bloodlust. Do not justify killing in the name of religion, caste or community. Not going to wash.

The answer to your questions in any decent family would be:

1. Yes inter-religion marriage would be acceptable. After all the parents would want the happiness of their children above all things, and if that is where the kids' happiness lies so be it.

2. The foundation of any marriage whether love or otherwise is mutual respect, trust and the desire to build a life together. If some people find that commitment before tying the proverbial knot, why does it hurt you so much?

3. If most love marriages end in divorce, one can also argue that most arranged marriages end in dowry deaths, harassment of the DIL on some pretext or other and physical and emotional abuse and incompatibility. But perhaps you prefer such miserable existence to life with dignity.

Btw both your statement about love marriages ending in divorce and my statement about arranged marriages ending in trauma are extremist and do not have any factual basis, but then neither does anything you've said so far..

Originally posted by: ComebackMaaneet

the question is not what majority people believe ...the question here is whether it is RIGHT OR WRONG....for example: majority think giving dowry will do gud to their daughter it is okay to follow demands of in- laws for their daughter...(is this right)...?

people feel a boy child will be the so called "vansh" of the family...while girls are not needed(is this right)...?people following these can give several explanations to their point..but none of them makes them right...!

similarly, inter caste/religion marriages whether to be done or not should be decided by the girl and boy ...its the girl who is getting married ..its her who has to adjust to different culture n all...then why do people have problem , who is asking them to change anything?

and you should also know that most important religion to be followed by everyone is "love"...