Ishaan has no backbone. - Page 3

Originally posted by: nureat01

I wouldn't say that Ishan has no backbone whatsoever cuz he's displayed it from time to time in some scenes over the course of the show.....there are times when he refuses to take crap from Suhana and stands up to her in his own way.

In this situation I think the problem is the regard that everyone has for Radha Bua that makes them all mum on the situation....and while it irritates me and bugs me....I can kinda understand why the characters behave the way they did.....in Ishaan's case I think he feels helpless cuz he doesn't know what to say to Radha Bua and he doesn't know what to say to Suhana.....however I still did not like the fact that he didn't even go after her immediately after she left the room.....Inder and Rajni were the ones to immediately go after her seeing how hurt she was and how she left with tears in her eyes....how could that not move him enough to go after her atleast even if he couldn't have stood up for her in the moment?? That bugs me....

As for the real issue of Radha Bua and Deepak, I just felt TERRIBLE for Deepak today.....seriously my heart went out to the guy....how must it feel.....a mother who can't even bear to TOUCH him.....a mother who doesn't even remember his BIRTHDAY.....a mother who refuses to even WISH him on his b'day....a mother who refuses to just eat a piece of cake from his hand....I can't even begin to fathom.....Radha Bua may have suffered a terrible trauma but today all my sympathies lay with Deepak.....NO ONE deserves to be treated in that manner by their OWN mother....this is probably far worse than any kind of torture also a person can inflict on their own child.....I just can't see how this is justified and what explanation Radha Bua can give for not even ACKNOWLEDGING her child's BIRTHDAY?? Fine she doesn't want to look at his face cuz it reminds her of her rapist....but what of everything else?? Her son's LAUGHTER also pinches her?? What the hell kind of mother IS this?? Seriously I could not sympathize.....the ONLY and that too SLIGHT softening we saw from RB today was when she smiled a bit softly and fingered the medals that Deepak had won that Badi Maa was showing her....and that's it.....after that it went from bad to worse....poor Deepak.....this is too terrible.

And Suhana....I can't see from any angle how she was at fault....yeah she lands herself in trouble many times thanks to her penchant for being irresponsible, inconsiderate but what she was trying to do today was just a simple sweet gesture to brighten up someone's b'day....ALL she tried to do was make RB eat a piece of cake and what she got for that was unbelievable.....very interestingly shot scene though the way the camera panned to first show Suhana's smile freezing in place to be slowly overcome with surprised confusion and then gradual anger as she stared at everyone in turn....mostly at her husband who couldn't meet her eyes and wouldn't say anything and that's how her anger grew as she then turned to glare at everyone accusingly.....also interesting was the way Radha Bua stared at her own hand in shock over what she had just done before running out.....

Amazing episode overall with fantastic acting by everyone....but the person I felt the worst was for Deepak....somehow his pain feels the worse right now.

Originally posted by: nureat01

As for the real issue of Radha Bua and Deepak, I just felt TERRIBLE for Deepak today.....seriously my heart went out to the guy....how must it feel.....a mother who can't even bear to TOUCH him.....a mother who doesn't even remember his BIRTHDAY.....a mother who refuses to even WISH him on his b'day....a mother who refuses to just eat a piece of cake from his hand....I can't even begin to fathom.....Radha Bua may have suffered a terrible trauma but today all my sympathies lay with Deepak.....NO ONE deserves to be treated in that manner by their OWN mother....this is probably far worse than any kind of torture also a person can inflict on their own child.....I just can't see how this is justified and what explanation Radha Bua can give for not even ACKNOWLEDGING her child's BIRTHDAY?? Fine she doesn't want to look at his face cuz it reminds her of her rapist....but what of everything else?? Her son's LAUGHTER also pinches her?? What the hell kind of mother IS this?? Seriously I could not sympathize.....the ONLY and that too SLIGHT softening we saw from RB today was when she smiled a bit softly and fingered the medals that Deepak had won that Badi Maa was showing her....and that's it.....after that it went from bad to worse....poor Deepak.....this is too terrible.

Amazing episode overall with fantastic acting by everyone....but the person I felt the worst was for Deepak....somehow his pain feels the worse right now.