Ishaan has no backbone. - Page 2

I feel, it is not fair to say Ishaan has no backbone. He certainly does. The very fact that he accepts Suhana with all her frills and fancies is testimony to the fact, that Ishaan is very sure of himself and what he wants from his lot in life. I like that about him. He may not be intune with the latest clothes and fashion fads, but he is bang on when understanding Suhana and his family members. He has his heart in the right place.

Suhana was absolutely right in bringing a cake for Deepak.

But if you look at it, RB was already upset because Suhana is digging deeper than she is supposed to. So she couldn't control herself and slapped Suhana. Everyone else, understood the boundaries that were set, but our Suhana, has no boundaries. She is adorably unique. What can Ishaan really do in this context. RB is like a mother figure to him. At the same time he understood that Suhana will be very hurt. So his hesitation is absolutely understandable.

One of the reasons why SGP is successful is that it doesn't gloat nor undetermine the importance of/in relationships. They are normal and therefore, can't have dramatic solutions. They need to be handled with care and tackled with a lot of understanding.

Originally posted by: ManaliS

i don't think ishaan has no backbone.. he has stood up to suhana many a times..so he can definitely speak when he needs to..maybe everything happened so suddenly that he wasn't able to react to it.. but i totally agree with what anu said...i mean fine he didn't react but he shud have gone after suhana immediately..that was a bit weird..he knows how suhana is..how hurt she must have been...n how angry she was..still he only went after rano asked her to! weird..n i was disappointed by ishaan there to say the least...

i just don't feel sorry or anything for radha bua anymore..fine i can understand that whatever she experienced was horrible ...and probably that pain can never go...but life is all about moving on... n she has such a nice obedient and intelligent son...she cud have lived happily with her son..but...

truly u can only be happy if u want to...else u can never be happy...it all depends on u...

I feel so bad for deepak..poor guy...fine radha bua doesn't want to see his face..but why she gets angry when deepak is happy....what kind of a mother she is? she can't see her son enjoying or just being happy...that's weird... 😕 if he is talking to suhana or enjoying with meethi..why she doesn't like it? poor poor guy....

n i don't like the way family members react to this whole thing either...fine they all love radha bua... but why can't they talk to deepak? ishaan said hum sab deepak se bahut pyaar karte hai! Really Ishaan!! mujhe to dikhai nahi deta 🥱 No one even wished him happy birthday even after knowing its his birthday...arey birthday to hi tha...aisa kya pahad toot pada tha....Weird!

N suhana wasn't wrong at all..i am totally with her on this! Go Suhana!

PS: fantastic epi overall... looking forward to next week!
the way they showed meethi's reaction was soo cute! kids start crying immediately when such things happen..lol..they don't understand anything..n she was later crying that she didn't even get to eat the cake..hehe..awww meethi is so cute :)

I thought about what you said for a while before I rsponded to it, because you are right in a way.....we could say that because she's an Elder she ended up slapping Suhana.....HOWEVER I feel that Radha Bua has had a bias towards Suhana since she overheard Suhana speaking with her father and that has affected the way Radha Bua views Suhana in the family. If it wasn't for Badi Ma, Radha Bua would have said and done alot more to Suhana than what she has done.......

AND also, Radha Bua as the Elder should be able to see that Suhana is doing this because she wants to see Deepak as part fo the family. If RAdha Bua had addressed the issue BEFORE with Suhana (like Badi Ma said earlier - why don't you talk to Suhana about it) then it would have been different if Suhana had continued pushing and then she had gotten slapped.....

But Radha bua never talked with Suhana to let her know that she doesn't want anyone talking about Deepak and she would rather her stay away from Deepak. She didn't necessarily have to provide an explanation however she did need to TALK to suhana before she lashed out the way she did and Slap her instead. I think that was very rude, especially as Badi Ma had already told Radha Bua that if Suhana asking questions was bothering her then she neeeds to make Suhana understand.

Originally posted by: charity10

I feel, it is not fair to say Ishaan has no backbone. He certainly does. The very fact that he accepts Suhana with all her frills and fancies is testimony to the fact, that Ishaan is very sure of himself and what he wants from his lot in life. I like that about him. He may not be intune with the latest clothes and fashion fads, but he is bang on when understanding Suhana and his family members. He has his heart in the right place.

Suhana was absolutely right in bringing a cake for Deepak.

But if you look at it, RB was already upset because Suhana is digging deeper than she is supposed to. So she couldn't control herself and slapped Suhana. Everyone else, understood the boundaries that were set, but our Suhana, has no boundaries. She is adorably unique. What can Ishaan really do in this context. RB is like a mother figure to him. At the same time he understood that Suhana will be very hurt. So his hesitation is absolutely understandable.

One of the reasons why SGP is successful is that it doesn't gloat nor undetermine the importance of/in relationships. They are normal and therefore, can't have dramatic solutions. They need to be handled with care and tackled with a lot of understanding.

Originally posted by: myvoice

EDIT: I feel really sad for Deepak and I don't want to blame Radha bua alone for this, I feel the rest of the family members like the brothers and bhabhis also must be blamed from blindly staying away from him. Suhaana was the only one who didn't want to blindly pay heed to everyone askin her to stay away from him. I was little irked to knw how everyone including Ishaan didn't bother to even attempt to talk to Deepak or getting to knw about him better.

Originally posted by: ManaliS

i don't think ishaan has no backbone.. he has stood up to suhana many a times..so he can definitely speak when he needs to..maybe everything happened so suddenly that he wasn't able to react to it.. but i totally agree with what anu said...i mean fine he didn't react but he shud have gone after suhana immediately..that was a bit weird..he knows how suhana is..how hurt she must have been...n how angry she was..still he only went after rano asked her to! weird..n i was disappointed by ishaan there to say the least...

i just don't feel sorry or anything for radha bua anymore..fine i can understand that whatever she experienced was horrible ...and probably that pain can never go...but life is all about moving on... n she has such a nice obedient and intelligent son...she cud have lived happily with her son..but...

truly u can only be happy if u want to...else u can never be happy...it all depends on u...

I feel so bad for deepak..poor guy...fine radha bua doesn't want to see his face..but why she gets angry when deepak is happy....what kind of a mother she is? she can't see her son enjoying or just being happy...that's weird... 😕 if he is talking to suhana or enjoying with meethi..why she doesn't like it? poor poor guy....

n i don't like the way family members react to this whole thing either...fine they all love radha bua... but why can't they talk to deepak? ishaan said hum sab deepak se bahut pyaar karte hai! Really Ishaan!! mujhe to dikhai nahi deta 🥱 No one even wished him happy birthday even after knowing its his birthday...arey birthday to hi tha...aisa kya pahad toot pada tha....Weird!

N suhana wasn't wrong at all..i am totally with her on this! Go Suhana!

PS: fantastic epi overall... looking forward to next week!
the way they showed meethi's reaction was soo cute! kids start crying immediately when such things happen..lol..they don't understand anything..n she was later crying that she didn't even get to eat the cake..hehe..awww meethi is so cute :)