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Veera

@SahirsBeard

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Posted: 11 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: pasumarthisa

I am not saying whether its ok or right wrt Kusum. I have my own views. But this jodi is nowhere in the novel is what I was trying to say.

Again, I see that there are completely different views here. And the reasoning given is so different too. Difference of opinion is always there and respected.

I dont think its a case of 'main leads' vs 'others'.

I stand corrected with the novel part. I'm sorry for the misconception.

Thank you! That's exactly what I'm trying to say! There are so many different views, that instead of making it a "SaMud fans are real SC fans" deduction on the forum, we should learn to respect each other's views. I am seeing a lot of that on the forum, and it's getting kind of annoying.

I will not go into whether dating your ex's sister is right or wrong, because that depends on the people and situation. But, just like divorce happens, this is a very normal thing in society (don't get me wrong, I'm glad Kumud got out of that situation.)

Thank you for being so understanding though, Pasumarthisa ji 😊

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hunnybunch

@hunnybunch

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Posted: 11 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: tash123
In real life, its very rare to fallfor a man who is clearly and deeply love with your own sister.Kusum knows how much Kumud loves saras and what they meant for each other.She witnessed the intensity of their love.Problem is once she used to called Jija or vai to Saras,then how come on this earth,she would fall for that same guy.this is utter ridiculous.

It might be rare, but it happens.
When one loses his/her heart to someone, s/he won't be able to control the feelings.
Once she talked, called him jiju, but he had never been one, so how come it be ridiculous?

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Veera

@SahirsBeard

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Posted: 11 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: tash123
In real life, its very rare to fall for a man who is clearly and deeply love with your own sister.Kusum knows how much Kumud loves saras and what they meant for each other.She witnessed the intensity of their love.Problem is once she used to called Jija or vai to Saras,then how come on this earth, she would fall for that same guy.this is utter ridiculous.

Kusum also knows that there once was a time where she had to work together with Saras in order to get her didi's relationship with her jija, Pramad, to work.

Dynamics in character relations have changed. People fall in and out of love quite fast. Kumud had no hesitance in making Saras a pariah whenever she liked. It was only Kusum who understood Saras when he had to face the love of his life being married and abused by someone else and the anguish of not being able to do anything about it.

Experiences like this, are really rare too. But they're not insignificant.

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tryforceful

@tryforceful

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: veera25

Oh my goodness, why, why still at school child? It would have been 2am but, now it's 1am because of daylight savings... phirse bach gayi 🤣

I also hate people who use the excuse of feminism to sell cupcakes for a dollar for men and only 75 cents for women... and that happened a lot in this show when Kumud was with Pramad. 😆 Yeah they screwed the show up... and then the forum 😆 fugliness all around! 😳

I don't even care who unites. I just like to point out double standard. 😊 Kusum is a person too, and that's all that matters to me 😳

Yes, yaay for DLS!😊 My PC failed me..oops.😆

Again, it's not Kumud's fault if Saras stayed put to help K. Do you agree?

I still feel that Kusum should have controlled her emotions. We are human beings not animals, you know what I mean?🤣

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Jesmin

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Posted: 11 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: hunnybunch
Omg, so much happened here! 😲

Mirchi lagi, sach mein mirchi lagi forum walon ko, you'll see the side effects 😆

Why do everyone point out it was a one sided love, when kusum loves Saras? Saras has been loving Kumud all these days with her married to another guy and her hating him,..wasn't it a one sided love then? I know Kumud and Saras had been in love before, but not since Kumud married Pramad.

The other thing is how could it be considered it as a disgusting act when kusum fell in love with Saras? Saras is one single handsome hunk who wanders around kusum almost 24/7, and she too is single. Why can't she has the right to fall in love?

When it comes to Kumud, doing PMS with someone and getting married to another one is just a normal thing, but when it comes to kusum she has no right to fall in love? 😕

Consider yourself, for you being a girl and a handsome hunk like Saras doing everything for you and your family, will you be able to control your feelings? Be sensible people!

Vee, I was a SaMud fan, but no more! From the point where Saras has been punished for what he didn't deserve, I gave up on that couple. I'd be more than happy to see Saras and kusum together. They look beautiful together!

OMG! Azzu Di 🤗
u said it so so well..i totally agree with you...now i m up for SaSum romance & love saga! :D

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Veera

@SahirsBeard

Rocker

Posted: 11 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: hunnybunch
Omg, so much happened here! 😲

Mirchi lagi, sach mein mirchi lagi forum walon ko, you'll see the side effects 😆

Why do everyone point out it was a one sided love, when kusum loves Saras? Saras has been loving Kumud all these days with her married to another guy and her hating him,..wasn't it a one sided love then? I know Kumud and Saras had been in love before, but not since Kumud married Pramad.

The other thing is how could it be considered it as a disgusting act when kusum fell in love with Saras? Saras is one single handsome hunk who wanders around kusum almost 24/7, and she too is single. Why can't she has the right to fall in love?

When it comes to Kumud, doing PMS with someone and getting married to another one is just a normal thing, but when it comes to kusum she has no right to fall in love? 😕

Consider yourself, for you being a girl and a handsome hunk like Saras doing everything for you and your family, will you be able to control your feelings? Be sensible people!

Vee, I was a SaMud fan, but no more! From the point where Saras has been punished for what he didn't deserve, I gave up on that couple. I'd be more than happy to see Saras and kusum together. They look beautiful together!

The inconsistency with the story, Zu, where Kumud holds Saras insignificant (okay, she had her own majbooriyaan too) compared to how Kusum stuck up for Saras even though she really didn't want to, just shows me how she's more worthy. Like, bottom line, that's my opinion. And it's as valid as any SaMud fan's.

Zu, the aataa scene used to be my absolute favourite. I made Tomo create TWO SaMud VMs for my birthday too. I was just as much as a fan as you of the two. But for me, the magic is gone now. It's just the same old "why aren't you supporting me anymore, I'm used to it and can't do anything without it." It's not love, in my opinion, it's reliability.

Even if Kusum isn't in love, but infatuated... so what? As you said, can't a woman be infatuated with the man she understood when nobody else could? No? okay then.

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Veera

@SahirsBeard

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Posted: 11 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: tryforceful

Yes, yaay for DLS!😊 My PC failed me..oops.😆

Again, it's not Kumud's fault if Saras stayed put to help K. Do you agree?
I still feel that Kusum should have controlled her emotions. We are human beings not animals, you know what I mean?🤣

Uh oh... PCs! I am a Mac girl, Shrija... bias at it's best 🤣

I used to go to a school for a few years with maybe 30 kids in the same grade. Before that, a school with a class of 40. In my smaller classed school, any new boy that joined, more than half of the girls in the grade fell for him. Not because he was beautiful or anything... He could have been the biggest ass but he was still the eye candy of the year.

It's human nature! We've seen a lot of this kind of stuff happen in literature before... so why not now? 😃😃

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Jesmin

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Posted: 11 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: tash123
In real life, its very rare to fall for a man who is clearly and deeply love with your own sister.Kusum knows how much Kumud loves saras and what they meant for each other.She witnessed the intensity of their love.Problem is once she used to called Jija or vai to Saras,then how come on this earth, she would fall for that same guy.this is utter ridiculous.

hey there 😃
i hope u won't mind if i reply to the bold part 😊 it is never a PROBLEM at all ... i have seen many people doing this .. why it is a problem? any man walking on road seems to ur vai only..when u address them,u call them as bhai .. but are they really ur brothers??? what is wrong here??Saras is not her blood-brother .. the bro/jiju thing was just a formality while addressing saras..that doesn't make him her bor or jia..he is in real meaning only Saras to her who is an unmarried guy! 😃 & Love is not nonsense ..if is..then how come SaMud fall for each other even without knowing or seeing each other?how come saras made a huge journey just by seeing her kamarbandh & landed on ratnanagri?? 😕

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Jesmin

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Posted: 11 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: tryforceful

Yes, yaay for DLS!😊 My PC failed me..oops.😆

Again, it's not Kumud's fault if Saras stayed put to help K. Do you agree?
I still feel that Kusum should have controlled her emotions. We are human beings not animals, you know what I mean?🤣

OMG!she is controlling only! 😆 what she has done?she is keeping quite only...she didn't go to his room in night with lamp & haunt him .. did she?then what is the thing she did..she loves him but she is in her limits .. ! :)

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tryforceful

@tryforceful

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

#30

Vee!, I'll get a Mac next year, got a lot of gizmo this year and I'm a poor med student Can't really afford you see!

Well, this isn't grade school, these are grownups falling in love. So I expect a lot of maturity in holding up emotions and think through things rationally. To give you an instance from the show, Kusum gives a look as though she's plunged suddenly into the ennui of depression when Samud were having their close moment in Monday's episode. Till that moment, she hadn't expressed anything along the lines of 'love'. Now, when Saras is 'touching' K to comfort, she breaks down as though the love of her life is having a secret affair. To me, such kind of girls need to be ousted from the face off the earth😳

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