SASUM? SAMUD? - Page 4

Originally posted by: ...Jes...

OMG!she is controlling only! 😆 what she has done?she is keeping quite only...she didn't go to his room in night with lamp & haunt him .. did she?then what is the thing she did..she loves him but she is in her limits .. ! :)

Originally posted by: ...Jes...

hey there 😃
i hope u won't mind if i reply to the bold part 😊 it is never a PROBLEM at all ... i have seen many people doing this .. why it is a problem? any man walking on road seems to ur vai only..when u address them,u call them as bhai .. but are they really ur brothers??? what is wrong here??Saras is not her blood-brother .. the bro/jiju thing was just a formality while addressing saras..that doesn't make him her bor or jia..he is in real meaning only Saras to her who is an unmarried guy! 😃 & Love is not nonsense ..if is..then how come SaMud fall for each other even without knowing or seeing each other?how come saras made a huge journey just by seeing her kamarbandh & landed on ratnanagri?? 😕

Originally posted by: veera25

Even if Kusum isn't in love, but infatuated... so what? As you said, can't a woman be infatuated with the man she understood when nobody else could? No? okay then.

NOPE! she is NOT infatuated .. she is in LOVE! 😃
what makes us think she is infatuated?? is she a kid???😆 she is deeply in love with this guy who has been always there for her family & for her sis too ... she loves him bcoz she wants .. love doesn't need any logic,specially partial logics 😳 she loves him & she wld do so .. who has any right to say anything abt her??? she is not poisoning Kumud's life .. then for what she is being pointed out time to time.. like her mother acted!i was like are u crazy??ur daughter loves a good guy .. & she did the right thing! if ur first daughter has right to make innumerable faults then why not his one? 😕

Originally posted by: tryforceful

I meant that she should have controlled from falling for a man who still loves her sister. See my point?😊

it is not any point dear..it is not in ur hands for whom to fall .. but yes many ppl think love is perfect(as lead pairs r shown) .. but no it is not..like every other emotion it also has lacks..but when ppl learn to adjust (i mean they way u mean contorting) it becomes compromise/sacrifice .. the matter is not(to HER) that he loves her sis,the MATTER WITH HER is she loves him 😊

will answer stuff tomorrow, I am too tired to type

Originally posted by: tryforceful

@Bold italic: That's because they're soulmates. QED😃

which is also ridiculous in real sense .. nothing like soulmate exists .. every other couple quarrels/break each others' heart & so on .. like SaMud also did .. so nothing in this world is perfect but we should respect every thing ,not only the one which appeals us,simple! 😊

I'm not sure if I should be posting here or not but I'll take the risk anyway.

The whole reason for Kusum to fall in love with Saras is not just Saras himself but more so the relationship Saras and Kumud share. It is more of a fascination, just like we see our favourite hero on the big or small screen doing all these heroics for his lady love and wish we had someone like that in our life. The same goes with Kusum. It's a fascination, nothing more than that.

I'm not bothered about 'Sasum' as much because there is nothing there nor will there ever be. It's Kusum and Danny who will get together. She's actually experiencing first hand care and support from DANNY not SARAS. Danny is far more bothered than Saras is about Kusum hence he tries to cheer her up. That's the beginning of love. Saras is in Kumud's world completely.

This isn't directed at anyone in particular but if you're only liking Saras and kusum because you don't like Kumud anymore then it's not really Kusum you're bothered about right? You just want Saras to be with anyone except Kumud.

When I knew that the main love story of the show was never going to be easy, how could I expect the leads to always be fair to each other? You need hurdles, sometimes unfair punishments & treatment but it's meant to be a painful love story.

Originally posted by: veera25

will answer stuff tomorrow, I am too tired to type

buenas noches kiddies 😎

How is it fair to expect Kumud to suddenly start a new life with Saras when she has been through such a torturous marriage? Wouldn't you expect her to be more vulnerable and mentally scarred? She is not in a mentally for state to say yes to him immedietely. Surely people can sympathise with her there?