lets agree to disagree! I don't think falling in love is against his morals! He seems more practical then that!Originally posted by: Skepblun
I agree that all the things he was attempting were probably a way to avoid emotional connections. But I didn't object to rapid attraction due to any morality issues! I just said that if the belief system was so strongly etched and interfered in every aspect of his life, then the attraction process should have been a bit slower due to that thing sort of creating a mental hurdle for him. That is all.
Kumud is not exactly like him. She is like him in several ways. But not *exactly* like him. She hadn't set so many mental barriers on herself the way Saras had. She is more "normal" and into the world, she had dreams of her sapno ka rajkumar also, unlike Saras who was forever escaping from the world and building a shell around him.
I expected Saras to get to romance part a bit later and slowly. I find it abrupt that his shell and all so called self restraint he'd been imposing on himself is melting/cracking/breaking down/giving away so soon.
Okay, let it break down even. But why not make his change of heart more understandable by at least showing some hesitation or "Yeh mujhe kya ho raha hai" type introspection? I don't find his transition smooth. It's too abrupt for me. That's all.
It was not about morality. Just that nobody changes so rapidly or even if one changes, it's a gradual process and it doesn't come across outwardly so soon.
Anyway, thanks for discussing in a healthy manner. I agree, on some points, we have to agree to disagree.
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