Bidaai making society hate dusky girls:Mod's note PG16 - Page 6

Originally posted by: caroash

I agree with topic maker. I am just asking to everyone who thinks now a day abt. Black or white girl?? does is really happening in regular life base??

Give me your ans. without being any characters fan.

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

it does not matter...look at Parul Chauhan, is she not successful. She and Sara Khan had experienced every thing together in Bidaai offscreen. She is never put down in Bidaai sets or by her friends...

Originally posted by: -JONAKI-

Why can't they show even dusky people are also succesful and they can also be good as well.I just hate when they showed that Choti Ma turned evil because she was dusky and jealous of Vasu.It's not right.

Very well said!!😛😛👏👏👏👏👏👏

dear sweetsomya

this show never moves beyond the skin colour..tht is the problem..in the world there are all sorts of people..and every single person has both good and bad qualities in them..its when the bad overpowers the good there is evilness..and here sumhow that aspect is linked forever to the skin colour..maybe coz of the insecurity..bt i wnt say tht only the dark complexioned people are shown evil and vice versa..malti is fair,so is avni..while malti is an idiot,avni is outright evil..to the extent of plannin murders..so y think of only chotima..and how to forget vasu?she is probably the most complex character in the show..yes what they are showing here is tht dusky people dnt deserve any self confidence which is crap..earlier it ws ragini and now they are starting to put the same nonsense in tammy's mind..the girl was a perfectly happy confident girl and now the fairy issue has been pulled beyond control and ubtan nnsense also started..

thought provoking topic indeed n v well written ,,..:),,i dont think in d present day world any such kind of discrimination based on colour exists on a large basis,,,exeptional cases mayb thr...but in bidaai thr iz dearth of ideaz az far ct team r concernd they r again repetin d whole bs again,,sucha tur off..it iz..:(..

Are you guys kidding me? Do you think such discrimination does not exist? of course not to that extent, but it is still there in people's mind or "fair and lovely" and other fairness cremes would have gone out of business by now.

One of our family friends who happened to be from well educated family from Bihar used to tell my aunt to get her daughter married into Bihar as she was fair and won't need a dowry, rather would be treated like a princess.
When one of my cousin had a daughter a year ago, the first question most relatives from her in-laws side asked was is she fair like you? she is fair and her hubby is not so fair. she was shocked.

Kaushi is of old generation and they did care (ofcourse not all) about looks then as girls were not that qualified then. I agree things are changing now, but I still hear old people talk about color and gori - kaali etc.

Originally posted by: itsybitsy

Are you guys kidding me? Do you think such discrimination does not exist? of course not to that extent, but it is still there in people's mind or "fair and lovely" and other fairness cremes would have gone out of business by now.

One of our family friends who happened to be from well educated family from Bihar used to tell my aunt to get her daughter married into Bihar as she was fair and won't need a dowry, rather would be treated like a princess.
When one of my cousin had a daughter a year ago, the first question most relatives from her in-laws side asked was is she fair like you? she is fair and her hubby is not so fair. she was shocked.

Kaushi is of old generation and they did care (ofcourse not all) about looks then as girls were not that qualified then. I agree things are changing now, but I still hear old people talk about color and gori - kaali etc.

@topicstarter--- I 100% agree with u. BIDAAI have no meaning for dusky girls.

see discrimination exists everywhere abt skin colour..even educated families,when it comes to marriage alliances suddenly get this notion of fair beautiful untouched girl evn if their sons are the biggest jokes on earth..not limited to the bimaru states..i ahve seen it in mumbai also..and heard of the same frm my north indian frnds..bt the point is bidaai,instead of trying to tackle it is adding to the issue wid this overblowing of the situation out of proportion..kaushi of all people shud know..she has a good man for a husband who has never made her feel inferior..her daughter got married to a fantastic guy who made her feel beautiful..so y start this nonsense again now??