Bidaai making society hate dusky girls:Mod's note PG16

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I really wonder what is the main theme of bidaai,is it one should look for inner beauty or this show is made on theme that dark girls are ugly looking and at the same time jealous and selfish girls.
I really feel bidaai is a threat to India society,Indian society which is already facing so many issues will now have one more issue to its list and that is colour discrimination.
I always felt that bidaai wants to spread the message that dark girls are always jealous and weak inside,they cant face life problems,they always need some fair fairy to tackle their problems
and worst they show that if among two sister one is dark and one is fair then that dark girl will be jealous of her fair skinned sister's success and beauty.
Why this show is hell bent on proving this thing that dark is ugly
Again they are showing tamanaa the dark skin sister negative, I think this show is going to make society develop a notion that darkskinned girls are bad
This show is a threat to indian society where already in small towns and villages fair girls are considered over darker ones in every sphere and now with this show they will definately develop a notion that dark girls are indeed bad at heart too
This show must be immediately stopped and a strict legal action must be taken against people who are related with this show
All those people who feel this show will spread wrong message to the society regarding dark girls ,we must come together and take a strict action this show
This is true those who are religioulsy following this show have definately started hating dark skinned girls and one example is from my family ,my mother has suddenly developed notion kali ladki dil ki bhi kali hoti hai aur gauri ladki dil ki bhi achi hoti hai and my massi also has same feeling
Guys this show is creating havoc in the socitey ,The show is slowly very slowly making a wrong impression on people's mind reagrding dark girls.
A strict action needs to be taken before its too late
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: sweetsomya

I really wonder what is the main theme of bidaai,is it one should look for inner beauty or this show is made on theme that dark girls are ugly looking and at the same time jealous and selfish girls.

I really feel bidaai is a threat to India society,Indian society which is already facing so many issues will now have one more issue to in its list and that is colour discrimination.
I always felt that bidaai wants to spread the message that dark girls are always jealous and weak inside,they cant face life problems,they always need some fair fairy to tackle their problems
and worst they show that if among two sister one is dark and one is fair then that dark girl will be jealous of her fair skinned sister's success and beauty.
Why this show is hell bent on proving this thing that dark is ugly
Again they are showing tamanaa the dark skin sister negative, I think this show is going to make society develop a notion that darkskinned girls are bad
This show is a threat to indian society where already in small towns and villages fair girls are considered over darker ones in every sphere and now with this show they will definately develop a notion that dark girls are indeed bad at heart too
This show must be immediately stopped and a strict legal action must be taken against people who are realted with this show
All those people who feel this show will spread wrong message to the society regarding dark girls ,we must come together and take a strict action this show
This is true those who are religioulsy following this show have definately started hating dark skinned girls and one example is from my family ,my mother has suddenly developed notion kali ladki dil ki bhi kali hoti hai aur gauri ladki dil ki bhi achi hoti hai and my massi also has same feeling
Guys this show is creating havoc in the socitey ,The show is slowly very slowly making a wrong impression on people's mind reagrding dark girls.
A strict action needs to be taken before its too late

👏100% agree with u
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Tamanna is just a kid.Even if she was fair,it wouldn't have mattered in this situation cos if u don't get a much coveted role,its expected that a child would react the same way.

Today would be damning though.Since she will also come to know that her colour is her major drawback as per the pre-cap.

It all depends on Anmol and Ragini now as to how they would handle this situation.She is unlike Ragini who used to just take everything in her stride and suffer.So it would be interesting to see how she would turn out.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I agree with u.......This show does not meant for dusky people.
I m loosing my faith on Rs ji 🥺
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Why can't they show even dusky people are also succesful and they can also be good as well.I just hate when they showed that Choti Ma turned evil because she was dusky and jealous of Vasu.It's not right.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I think girls who are dark after watching this show will definately develop inferiority complex

No one can deny rift track in bidaai made many people hate not only Ragini but Parul chauhan as well
People blamed Ragini for every thing ,has anyone wondered that why creatived always tried to portray Ragini a weak and shallow chacaracter in forn of her fair sister.
Hats off to parul that despite of knowing that all this will only make people hate her she still continued this show
How much bad she might be feeling when creatives tell her to play negative in the show
I am sure deep inside she cries when ever she had to portray the wrong image of dark girls
Kaushi is already shown negative,ambika was shown evil woman,then Ragini was always shown dumbo,weak character who always used to day dream abt her prince charming and used to avoid practical problems in life and now with generation leap they are showing same with tamanna.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Is it necessary for all dusky girls to be weak,jealous,selfish,evil?But Bidaai is bent on ruining the image of dusky girls.I have seen many dusky girls who are very sweet and do not jealous fair skinned girls."Sath Phere" was better than "Bidaai".It showed that even a dusky girl can be good and acheive her dreams.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: -JONAKI-

Why can't they show even dusky people are also succesful and they can also be good as well.I just hate when they showed that Choti Ma turned evil because she was dusky and jealous of Vasu.It's not right.

Exactly they always try to bring ugly contrast between fair and dark sisters and sooner or later they prove darker one is bad and fair one is nice
Just tell me why they always hype this issue with girls, why dont they show same with boys,I mean mamaji is also not fair so why dont they show him bad,they wont do it because this show is made by Rajan shahi , a male producer who wont show dark fair issue with boys and definately he wont show dark man bad as he himself is dark but why the hell he always try to ruin the image of dark girls
You know I can see the the evil effects of this show bidaai,those who watch this show have definately started hating dark grils
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Posted: 15 years ago
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for the topic starter...i don't think tht the CT is aiming @ the society 2 "hate" dark girls....its "highlighting" the obstacles n hardshjps they may / have 2 face !!!...n how bravely they come out of it...so u r rong my dear :)
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: -JONAKI-

Is it necessary for all dusky girls to be weak,jealous,selfish,evil?But Bidaai is bent on ruining the image of dusky girls.I have seen many dusky girls who are very sweet and do not jealous fair skinned girls."Sath Phere" was better than "Bidaai".It showed that even a dusky girl can be good and acheive her dreams.

According to international standards only 1 % of indian population are have fair skin,this means majority of indian population is not fair according to international standards,all these women kalpna chawla,krian bedi,krian mazumdaar,barkha dutt etc are not fair,are nt they successful ,confident,havent they made india proud
even among bollywood actresses,bipasha basu ,kajol,nandita das all dusky beauties and they are always promoted as beautiful women in their movies
but in bidaai not so fair girls are always promoted as ugly girls with dark hearts.
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