Originally posted by: katrinasalman
And what about Jigar ill-treating Kokila just because Ahem is dead & the elders of the family not being around? What about Monica's misbehaviour towards the elders of the family? Yes, Chirag was taking care of the business before Ahem & Jigar entered but Ahem was more active & ambitious than Jigar who chose to work under Chirag & Ahem. Yes, it was 50% ownership but things do change over a period of time. Even if it is 50-50, that does not stop Gopi from entering the company. Chirag & Hetal never differentiated between his children & Parag's children.
Yes, she cares for her maaji because she gave her the motherly love, education, self-confidence, helped her to win her husband's love & status in the society. She never let Gopi to get the ehsaas that her parents are lost. Even after getting her family, Kokila gave her the same love & respect to her though she was blamed for Meera's accident. But that does not mean she only cared for her immediate family like Paridhi did.
When Rashi was no more, the whole family stood for Jigar. Gopi helped him the most to get out of the depression but is he standing for her when the same thing has come to her doorstep?
As for his remarriage, Kokila was the first person to do that whereas Gopi & others were not ready. Kokila was good enough to give a chance to Paridhi. But she married Jigar out of deceit & he was good enough to accept his mistake & agreed to marry Paridhi. I never thought even in the wildest of my dreams that Jigar will become so blind in Paridhi's love that he goes to the extent of mistreating his mother like aunt & sister like bhabhi whom he considered as his mom. It is very shameful on his part.
I wouldn't be surprised if he had mistreated Hetal & Baa the same way.
Ahem was turned into a puppet by Koki for her own selfish needs. It was she who forced Ahem to follow Chirag and become more successful than Jigar and dumb Hetal just kept nodding her head with a colgate smile. Koki wanted a dumb, uneducated wife for Ahem inspite of knowing his hatred for iliterate people. Kokila wanted to make sure that Ahem would be her chamcha no matter what and an educated wife may lure him off his track and chamchagiri. Koki never let Hetal or baa interfere in her family matters or matters related to Ahem while she always poked her nose and gave ultimatums to Rashi. Koki was created as a negative charectar. CVs have manipulated and turned her into a goddess but how can we viewers not remember the kind of woman she was. These two women Koki and Gopi know to preach but they never practice what they preach. Biggest example of their failure is their own children's messed up life. Ahem, Kinjal, Meera, Vidya..who is happy? At least Jigar was happy with Rashi. Gopi n Koki's interference led him to marry that crazy woman-girl Paridi and his life also got screwed !