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Posted: 9 years ago
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Even Ahem was ambitious to become successful & to have his own empire. Chirag has made the company in Ahem's name as Jigar was quite content to work under his dad. So Jigar chose that path. Ahem chose to have an independent empire. He came up showing his talent. As for his marriage, Kokila did ask Ahem before fixing his marriage with Gopi to which he blindly agreed. So it was his fault as well. He didn't have guts to stand for Anita which is the real test for true love. He failed in that test. So according to me, he never loved her to that extent to marry her against Kokila's wishes. If he was so serious about her, he would have married her at the registration office against his mom's wishes & left the house at that time, living a simple life with her. Yes, in the initial stages of his marriage, he hated Gopi but accepted her after she educated herself & he himself educated her no matter how much ever resilient he was towards her. Yes, there were frictions between them but then no marriage is perfect. He has at least made future provisions for Gopi.

Jigar wanted to marry Sonal but ended up with Rashi. He was not happy when he got to know that Rashi had deceived him into marrying her. It took time for him to forgive her. Even RaJi could NOT have resolved the differences without GoHem's help & it would have not have survived if they had not helped. Even Paridhi & Radha married Jigar out of deceit. So that is his fate. I had pitied Jigar at that time but now he has become just the opposite of his dad. Gopi never forced Jigar to marry Paridhi. On the contrary, she tried to expose her before Kokila who supported her. When Jigar was about to kill himself, Kokila had left the decision to him. It was only after he was drugged, he agreed to marry Paridhi. I agree with you on this part that it was Kokila & Ahem who supported Paridhi's entry as a DIL but not Gopi.


Edited by katrinasalman - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: smit123

I agree. Gopi cannot own 51% shares as the company was founded by Jigar's dad and he too might have made a will for his only son. Kokila has always had her son n her DIL to support her dominance. If not Ahem, then now its Gopi. Plus a family home cannot just become Gopi's overnight without the signatures of Jigar, Hetal and even Kinjal unless that house was built by Ahem and belonged to him solely. Gopi was fuming and venting abt how one should respect and care for one's elders, y she never bothered to look out for her own parents once she came out of prison. Her universe is Kokila, thats it. She is upset with Jigar for trying to protect his family but did she forget that this is exactly how her darling husband behaved when someone dared to speak against his mummy darling's whims and fancies. Hetal is also responsible for giving Kokila the upper hand over everything. She shouldve made sure that her son get equal treatment like Mr. Ahem. Do u remember the rakhi episode initially when Kokila gets a gold rakhi for her son ? What abt Kinjal, how come she's treated as an outcast in her very home. Gopi is not qualified to run a major buisness, achar buisness cannot be compared to Modi khandaan buisness, that would be absurd. Gopi was an art teacher in the school that she taught. She had just learned to read and write, thats it. If they want to show something realistic, they shouldve shown a batwara of the house with Gopi and the rest of the family living happily and celebrating while Jigar and his hi-fi family looks on. Yes, Jigar was forced by Gopi n Koki to marry Paridi, poor fellow couldnt even grieve in peace!


Gopi may not be as educated as Rashi or Paridhi but at least she had run the pickle business successfully & became a qualified teacher. In one of the episodes, Kokila told Gaura that Gopi was uneducated before her marriage but now she is no more uneducated. In fact she is well educated. so according to me she would have continued with the correspondence till 4th or 5th standard though it was not there in the show and must have done 10th standard privately after which she might have pursued with higher studies and must have done the teachers training course. The CV's do have time constraints for each track. so it is not possible for them to stress on one particular track. You may say that she read the project details without any interest but I look at the other side of it. To me it seemed that she understood the project with one glance. Gopi at least ran achar business but what did the so called educated retards like Rashi, Paridhi or even Anita do? They know only to wreck homes & create rifts in the family. What is the use of that education wherein there is no humanity? I don't they are even capable to run a small business. Forget about Modi Industries. Yes, batwara is the better option but for that Baa has to come. Kokila & Ahem forced Jigar to marry Paridhi. Not Gopi. Gopi had always opposed Paridhi's entry before her marriage with Jigar but Kokila chose to give a chance to Paridhi which proved to be costly for her. I feel bad for Jigar that he didn't get enough time to mourn for Rashi but that is the past. At present, he is inhuman & sadistic.
Edited by katrinasalman - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: katrinasalman


Ahem has nominated Gopi for 51% shares. He had managed the got company single handedly & cracked biggest of deals. He must have purchased them later. If he has made the business in her name, the company is hers.

Gopi also cracked the deal in Switzerland though she was uneducated. If Gopi entered the office, it was because of Jigar's changed mentality. Being a man, it is his duty to provide the family. Not only his but also the other family members. It is Gopi's company. She can enter the conference whenever she wants.

Saree is obviously manufactured in the factory.


Obviously many sarees are manufactured in factories. But not the traditional Patola sarees. They are still woven the traditional way.
And Gopi is talking of traditional patola sarees for the export market. Which surely must be woven on looms.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I am no way condoning Jigar's behavior. Intact I am sad with the way his character has been butchered, and agree however the elders are it is not correct to mistreat them but somehow Kokila is reaping what she has sown. She was a very dominating lady and where she didn't allow Hetal to interfere in her family matter or telling her daughter in law something but she always ordered Hetal daughter in laws. Giving excuse Hetal is naive is just eye wash. She was allowed to take decisions to maintain peace in the house
.Best option would have been Batwara rather than all this drama
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@TM -- It is not good for one's health to have so much anger for a show or look for logic in a daily soap! Do take care of yourself.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: NeerajaGirish

I am no way condoning Jigar's behavior. Intact I am sad with the way his character has been butchered, and agree however the elders are it is not correct to mistreat them but somehow Kokila is reaping what she has sown. She was a very dominating lady and where she didn't allow Hetal to interfere in her family matter or telling her daughter in law something but she always ordered Hetal daughter in laws. Giving excuse Hetal is naive is just eye wash. She was allowed to take decisions to maintain peace in the house

.Best option would have been Batwara rather than all this drama


The basic problem with Modi men is they have not shown their aggression when it was needed & they are showing it when it is not needed.

If Ahem was particular about the educated girl as his wife, he should have been outright but he has burst after Gopi killed Radha & went to jail for 10 years.

If Jigar didn't want to marry Paridhi, he should've been firm & allowed her to go when she was about to leave MM. What is the point in bursting now?

Gopi never forced Jigar to marry Paridhi but was the first person to oppose his marriage with her if you remember. She has done a lot for him & the family. It was for him & Paridhi, she had gone out of the way to save Jr. Rashi. There was no need for her to do that. She could have jolly well gone with Ahem, Meera & Vidya to USA for official work, not bothering about the family. There was no need for her to put her immediate family at stake for those retards.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: katrinasalman


The basic problem with Modi men is they have not shown their aggression when it was needed & they are showing it when it is not needed.

If Ahem was particular about the educated girl as his wife, he should have been outright but he has burst after Gopi killed Radha & went to jail for 10 years.

If Jigar didn't want to marry Paridhi, he should've been firm & allowed her to go when she was about to leave MM. What is the point in bursting now?

Gopi never forced Jigar to marry Paridhi but was the first person to oppose his marriage with her if you remember. She has done a lot for him & the family. It was for him & Paridhi, she had gone out of the way to save Jr. Rashi. There was no need for her to do that. She could have jolly well gone with Ahem, Meera & Vidya to USA for official work, not bothering about the family. There was no need for her to put her immediate family at stake for those retards.



Modi men have always been spineless. They don't need to be forced as they will alter their thinking based on what the powerful women in the family think is the best for them and the family. Almost everything is communal - ie for the family.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: fivestar2

Did you forget that Gopi had a pickle business and it was successful. So Gopi can handle her husbands business.


Selling pickles is not really a formal business, many people in the UK do things like that, aren't the Modis' supposedly handling a bigger business, an actual one?
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mera015


Selling pickles is not really a formal business, many people in the UK do things like that, aren't the Modis' supposedly handling a bigger business, an actual one?


Whatever it is, business is a business. No job or business is inferior provided you are good at it. Manufacturing & selling is an art. If you are good at it, you can do any business.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Starting a new venture and taking it from there may require no education but to take up an existing business, that too a major one, which is already facing losses and making it successful again that too by a woman who knows nothing about it happens only in TV. How many of us can read official documents and understand everything at one glance inspite of being educated in universities. The language used in official documents are not easy to understand plus it isnt easy to crack deals with other companies, what about rival firms and shrewd buisnessmen and women who r running successful firms from their 20s. Can Gopi beat them? TV soaps dont show any logic, they'll show whatever is convinient to them. At least they can show a legal advisor (somebody who was faithful to Ahem) helping Gopi. That would make it more believable. Where is the rest of the family ? Parag, Chirag, Kinjal etc ? All abroad or dead ? If alive, they could show Chirag advising Gopi remotely at least.

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