Need a more professional format to console kids - Page 4

Originally posted by: honest28

then I think YOU KNOW NOTHING about the psychology and facts about child abuse... u have no knowledge about this topic at all .

Go and read any article about it and you will then know that what it is and how large percentage of family members/relatives is involve in these cases especially in western countries... dont talk only on the bases of your imagination, perception and on the bases of what you THINK is right.

Dont mix western countries. You know nothing.
This topic is only for Jay and Jay is nice to children. That is it.

I am only talking about Jay.

The parents in western countries who are not nice to their children, is rare or rarely proved.
Because in most of the cases due to independent thoughts, children harass their parents
and law understand it. That is why I said you are wrong. Otherwise you are right but you should
not mix it here. You can not discuss child abuse topic here. No body is abusing child in saregamapa show. Zee Tv is very good to look after.
The answer of member is only regarding Jay. I agree with you again that either India or abroad, child abuse is not good. Why child abuse only, no body can abuse others which is against the law.

And do not think that you are only intelligent here.

@honest28, you r advising me to read child abuse topic. I would like to say that I have seen many court decisions in person regarding child abuse and in almost all the case, parents were fine.
FYI, I hv read many articles regarding child abuse.
And If you again contemplate on this particular topic, topic starter is just making herself famous here and is happy that how she is successful to start this topic.
There is always 24/7 is security to protect lil champs.

@honest28: this topic can not become child abuse topic. topic starter is just enjoying to create this topic. when parents do not like that somebody should hug their child, then, they will try to stop it while advising their child to avoid such action. But they can not take action against others in the first instance who in good intention touches. Good intention is never child abuse. I know you are not against Jay.

Aree bhai, keu baal ki khaal utaar rahee hai app log.😊 Jay ne aisa kuch nahi kiya hai.

i think the lady who comment on jay,already leave the forum because she understand that she not deserve to stay in this forum. we know our culture more than a outsider so we should stop this, we already prove her mentality wrong.

Well firstly for people who think that I started this topic for pure fun.. They are WRONG! or people who think I left the forum please stop Analyzing so much. I am very much here and I only started the topic cause I felt that way and still stand by it!!! If people don't want to support n don't agree with me I am perfectly okay with it. I am not here to convince you guys. I have only posted my viewpoint. And people who think I am mentally wrong well are again just plain rude. I am not going to justify to people like u...and who are u to decide whether I deserve to be here or not????

Infact I myself request the moderators to close this topic cause if people can't debate in a healthy way and start mud slinging and bad mouthing the topic starter whats point! This is a topic and I know that there will be two viewpoints. But there is no need to name call or judge my character!! So I am really not interested in reading anything further posted here and request moderators to close this if they feel appropriate!

Originally posted by: Ramyasubbu

I have been watching this seasons episodes and often find Jay Soni's way of consoling children a little too personal. By this I mean hugging the kids...I know all he trying to do is make them happy but that can be done without touching the kids...I am a mother of a 3 yr old kid and would have found it so odd if this happened. There must be a more professional format of consoling kids by the host without touching kids...I am sorry if my post upsets Jay Soni fans. I do like him. Its just the format he is following that makes me uncomfortable.

I think you r not victim, Did u talk with ur doctor. I never found any person like you. It is next to impossible that if somebody comes to your house for birthday of your child and will not hug or you will say to your guest, do not touch my child. Jay is like their brother. Friends can hug each other.
You never pointed out when very very big girls were kissed and hugged on saregamapa stage.
If you will object, even then, those girls want to touch others on stage. In such case, what will you
do. Why do you want to control whole world. If your child is there in saregamapa, then, call him
back at home. Do not think yourelf a very superior and extraordinary person of this world.
Baba Ramdev ji hugged all kids and lifted one. You did not like it and you are keeping gun on
the shoulder of Jay.

Originally posted by: Ramyasubbu

Infact I myself request the moderators to close this topic cause if people can't debate in a healthy way and start mud slinging and bad mouthing the topic starter whats point! This is a topic and I know that there will be two viewpoints. But there is no need to name call or judge my character!! So I am really not interested in reading anything further posted here and request moderators to close this if they feel appropriate!

Originally posted by: Ramyasubbu

Again a special thanks to Purrrfect for atleast understanding where I am coming from. You guessed rite. I do live in the US.

I lived all my life in US. but still I think the way Jay is treating the kids is excellent. far much better than the judges.👏

he himself is very kind hearted. AND THE BEST HOST they every had.⭐️⭐️⭐️