Need a more professional format to console kids - Page 5

Originally posted by: JaspalToronto

Please don't feel bad. I agree with you that our members have no right to be personal and call names. You haven't done anything wrong and you have all the rights to post your opinion but at the same time when we post any sensitive topic like this, we should be prepared to get some reactions or criticism.

To be honest with you this is a very hot and successful topic of this season.😊 In two days you have 50 replies and 1404 views. Good job and congrats.

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Originally posted by: honest28

1. YOU ARE VERY RUDE TO THE TOPIC STARTER

2. Big girls or adults' brain is strong enough or fully developed to not being confused or abused with inappropriate touch, but even sexually touching or exposing ones privates to a minor/child is a BIG ISSUE as child's brain cannot comprehend the feelings, and its like a huge shock for kids' underdeveloped brain and psyche, that leads him/her to many psychiatric illnesses in his/her adult life due to child abuse... go study psychology first and then write your naive comments.

Originally posted by: honest28

Ramya... I know Jaspal from his several posts.. he is a kind of person, who threatens others indirectly, give them his name and address on public forums if someone don't agree with him, its kind of a threat or bullying... so aisay logon ko itnay important profound and sensitive topics samjhanay ki koshish karna bhi bhains kay aagay been bajana hai... and sadly most of the desi people are like this i.e. ignorants for this extremely serious issue ...unka bhi qusoor nahi, because they DONT even have a slightest idea that what child abuse is all about and whats its horrific lifelong damaging effects

Originally posted by: honest28

You claim to work with kids, and u r referring STRANGERS repeatedly in your post... but you don't even know that allover the world that includes the western countries and usa, 75 to 80% child-abuse/child-molestation/inappropriate-touching is done by the immediate family or relatives...15% are acquaintances and only a very small percentage of between 5 to 8% is of complete strangers or random people... u can confirm this through any research on this issue...so kindly get your facts right.

Originally posted by: poojagpt131

@honest28
i think that u are taking the discussion in a different direction.The topic is that do u think that Jay has any wrong intentions in hugging the kids who refer him as bhaiya.If u are living in India then u must know how much hugging is common here.Hugging sometimes is a sillient language of saying that its ok...i don't find it wrong in any way...but don't know about u...please don't get me wrong.

Originally posted by: Ramyasubbu

Well firstly for people who think that I started this topic for pure fun.. They are WRONG! or people who think I left the forum please stop Analyzing so much. I am very much here and I only started the topic cause I felt that way and still stand by it!!! If people don't want to support n don't agree with me I am perfectly okay with it. I am not here to convince you guys. I have only posted my viewpoint. And people who think I am mentally wrong well are again just plain rude. I am not going to justify to people like u...and who are u to decide whether I deserve to be here or not????

Originally posted by: JaspalToronto

Good Day Jaspal Ji,

Thank you for writing this nice post 😊 Well I do know that this has become a sensitive topic. I really did think twice before posting this. I have mentioned before also that if u read my post I am not trying to target Jay Soni. I have only asked for a professional format. That was my view. I have also mentioned further in my later posts that it was more for ZEE TV to review and to either take my suggestion seriously or ignore it.

Now I really dont know if u are seriously congratulating me on the no of views or you are being sarcastic. But really large no of views and replies is not my trophy! Why should it be??? I am a busy mom and India forums is not the end of the world for me to keep tracking the no of views. I also initially was very impressed with the quality of replies overall on India forum platform. Where people respected each other. Thats the only reason I put up my post. But seeing how some have written stuff like I need to see a doc..mentally unstable...naturally is bound to upset any person.

Criticism is fine. I am game for it, But personal attack is NOT OKAY! Its not that I cannot abuse or give back to those people. I just want to maintain my dignity.

@ Ramyasubbu

I didn't like the way people were attacking you. I had written that post from the bottom of my heart and why would I be sarcastic? We have raised two kids in Canada and my elder son is going to a medical school in Chicago. Very soon he will be starting his clinical rotations. The younger one is in his 3 rd year university program. I'm a professional engineer and got M. Sc. Chem. amd M. Tech. polymers.

Yes I was tough with some abusers who were abusing and bashing Nitin on this section. You know sometimes Laato ke bhoot baato se nahi mantee. 😊 Have a nice day. God bless.