Need a more professional format to console kids - Page 6

Originally posted by: Purrrfect

What I am writing now has nothing to do with Jai - since the topic has taken a complete different turn, I feel the need to express this.

As Honest ji has presented the fact that many children are abused within the family and the fact also remains that some close family friends take advantage of the lil ones too.

One of the big reasons children are scared to confide in their family members is, because this person who is taking advantage of them is a well loved person in the society or within the family y and hence the children are afraid that no one will believe them.

Sadly there are still people living in a bubble that think that those who are cautious are dirty minded.

Ramaya ji - I am very happy that your child has a parent like you who is cautious and aware of the surroundings, not all children are lucky out there. 👏

Thank you Purrrfect 😊 I agree with all of your points. Usually child abuse is from known people only. I prefer to keep a careful watch for my son for the sole reason that he is little. It is purely to each his own.

Originally posted by: poojagpt131

Hey @Ramyasubbu
I huv read all ur comments and i do respect ur concerns for the kids on the show. Thanks Pooja :)Personally i think that's very sweet of u but i huv just one question for u and that is that u had originally posted about hugging of kids by the host only(forget about Jay...consider any host man or woman)...why u did not mentioned about the gurus or mahaguru or any celebrity guest that attend the show????They also hug the kids..Pooja at the time I wrote this post I remember one episode where Jay literally sat down and hugged a kid to console. I agree his intention was GOOD. For me it was just a lil excessive. But I do AGREE with you that Guru's or celebrity guests shd also not go overboard. I know this is purely my view and I am sorry if Jay Soni fans are upset....Is it that u consider only Jay's hugging inappropriate because i had read all ur comments and u mentioned that ur post had nothing to do with Jay later on...but ur post name has everything to do with Jay.

Look u mentioned that u are a mother of a 3 yr old kid but u huv to understand that a 3 yr old child is very delicate and has to be taken great care of specially the hygiene.They cannot be given in arms of everybody but these kids are old enough for that.Just tell me one thing that whenever u see a child infront of u depressed or very happy then u never think of hugging him or her ever even if u knew that kid.Personally in India hugging is very common as everybody here very emotional and sensitive so please don't take it otherwise. I understand what you are saying pooja and appreciate it :) Its a singing competition show and all I wanted was a more professional format. Now if you are happy with the format and find all okay I will respect that too. I am not against hugs in general. But I am old school in this and like to see a competition and show treated like one without all the jazz.

I think Jay is an amazing host and the way he consoles kids is very sweet and unique.I huv so far never seen any reality show in which its cast was so emotionally attached to each other.It appears as if they all huv become a family.I respect Jay a lot and think that he is a wonderful person. I agree with you that Jay is a good host.

Originally posted by: Ramyasubbu

Again a special thanks to Purrrfect for atleast understanding where I am coming from. You guessed rite. I do live in the US.

Originally posted by: Westwick

Hello? where are you comming from? maybe from different world. We understand when and how touching is appropriate and when it is not. As far as I saw there is nothing inappropriate. Plz. do not pollute others minds.

Originally posted by: Westwick

No You B----- I am not moral police. U started the topic yopu filty mind. You look to me like a nasty perv.