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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Zeeliciousxo


I think what the person is saying that Dilsher was pretty much kind to Paro even before he really knew her. He was good to her from their first meeting, let's be real, he didn't change suddenly in one meeting because as soon as he met Paro he sensed all this goodness in her.


Thankyou Zeeliciousxo for understanding what i meant 😊

may be my words were not clear to make the point, i dont like to get into any contradiction and hurt anybody's ego
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Posted: 11 years ago
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The situation would have been different if Tejawat was really a good ideal husband. But no, Mala was wrong in judging. She ended up with him. She had tried all her means dear. The only reason she stepped back to the haveli is because to have a glimpse of her son during his marriage. If she never cared for him she wouldn't come back to see him again then. She felt awkward as to how will she explain her situation to him as her son is also a MAN. She knew that her son will never accept his mother as she left for another guy. He is very possessive. So as any child he would like to have a perfect family with his father and mother.

Though Rudra was around 13-14 yrs he doesn't know that his mother was being abused by his father. Maybe if they had been together also some point of time he might have fought for his mother after knowing her real plight. Either ways Rudra is a victim if Mala had tried to take him away with her or she staying alone with Rudra or she continued living with Dilsher. As Rudra rightly asked if u cannot handle things why to give birth to him who has lost his childhood, happiness, innocence.



Lets be realistic here for a second, the villain did NOT, I repeat did not hate the child at that stage, because he was not yet a bsd officer set out to ruin the villain, so if he was so much in love with her as we first saw in the screenplay then she could have asked him for his help in capturing her child, and remember it is only recently she found out he is evil, so how can you tell me that she made a wrong choice on the villain as a second husband, because at that time 15 years ago according to her she made the right choice in leaving her abusive husband to be with her poet lover and leaving her child with the said abusive husband. Even though her poet lover was so much in love with her that he married her, made her his queen, took her to his castle where she lived blissfully for the last 15 years with him.

And the only reason she came back is because the brother-in-law called her and told her that her son came back to the castle. Not her own initiative to find him, even after all this time. Please she knows his full name how hard can it be. And how does she know if she never give her son a chance if he will accept another man, if she thought that why would she have wanted to steal him pray tell. NO because she didn't think that, or she wouldn't have made her couple of half-baked attempts in front of her husband's eyes to steal the kid.😕
Edited by Erika1 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hear it from someone who comes from a family where parents are separated. Children always know, my brother and I knew it where we were five, 10, 18 and now we are in our 20s we always knew. Children are very preceptive they might block somethings out because of trauma unable to deal with it but in the subconscious level it always exists the truth is always known.
Adding to the list of bakwaas the writers are dishing out, there is no way a man that abusive could change this fast. Being an alcoholic is one thingnot alcoholics are abusive it is wrong to assert that, mostly they hurt themselves but Dilsher was abusive alcoholic and that is a deadly combination and men like that need to be in therapy for years they don't just meet a sweet girl and change. They have life long anger problems and are never easy to live with, even if they manage to control their demons it always will rear its ugly head so that is why they have to be in therapy and have to constantly be kept in check. And there is no way Rudra did not know his father was abusive.
Dilsher cannot be what they have made him out to be. It is all about integrity in writing your characters, they can be good or bad but they have to be consistent. Mala cannot be what she is made out to be, there is no way a woman who supposedly is so talented did not notice for fifteen years her second husband had a secret life behind her back. I almost wonder wouldn't it just have been better to give Mala a successful second marriage, that would have added more spice to the story. Tejawat could have been another character completely. Mala's choice would have been correct to leave, we would applaud her for making a life for herself, and her reason to not take Rudra with her would be even more cruel than it is right now considering no matter what they say about Dilsher who would have wanted Tejawat for a father. Instead of trying to white wash Mala's character they could have just made her a realist instead of trying to feed us a story that is just not believable. I don't mind Mind Mala I wish they would stop justifying her. The same with Mohini they don't try to justify her she is who she is and that is acceptable. Does Rudra need to accept and forgive Mala for us to move forward, are the writers thru Paro telling us that is what they want us to believe because honestly I don't see it no matter what sob story they tell us.

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