I cant understand y they are making mala this much good ? - Page 3

Originally posted by: aarthi.msp

To the TM. From your topic I understand that Even to this day a woman is been forced to accept whatever crap thrown at her and should be proved as sati Savitri 😭 and should prove her sanity to each and every finger pointed at her. Most of the cases women are not treated as fellow human beings. History says that they have been sold like commodities. What not. Women don't have any feelings of their own and if sometimes they do it is the biggest taboo which can be responsible for bringing the doom's day.😔

And people who are saying that Mala had all the power of Tejawat to bring Rudra back to her. Seriously!👎🏼 When did Tejawat has kept his promise to her. If I am not wrong She kept on asking so many times to get Paro freed from BSD and what Tejawat did was simply falsely assuring that he has been extensively trying his best to get paro back. So no wonder even if she had asked Tejawat to get Rudra that would n't have been possible as Tejawat is not a good person by any chance.

Originally posted by: aarthi.msp

To the TM. From your topic I understand that Even to this day a woman is been forced to accept whatever crap thrown at her and should be proved as sati Savitri 😭 and should prove her sanity to each and every finger pointed at her. Most of the cases women are not treated as fellow human beings. History says that they have been sold like commodities. What not. Women don't have any feelings of their own and if sometimes they do it is the biggest taboo which can be responsible for bringing the doom's day.😔

And people who are saying that Mala had all the power of Tejawat to bring Rudra back to her. Seriously!👎🏼 When did Tejawat has kept his promise to her. If I am not wrong She kept on asking so many times to get Paro freed from BSD and what Tejawat did was simply falsely assuring that he has been extensively trying his best to get paro back. So no wonder even if she had asked Tejawat to get Rudra that would n't have been possible as Tejawat is not a good person by any chance.

Originally posted by: BharaniK265

Hi am not saying about women have to tolearate all these u read the post right i have given another line also she should have lived alone . but she went with tejawat .

And people who are saying that Mala had all the power of Tejawat to bring Rudra back to her. Seriously!👎🏼 When did Tejawat has kept his promise to her. If I am not wrong She kept on asking so many times to get Paro freed from BSD and what Tejawat did was simply falsely assuring that he has been extensively trying his best to get paro back. So no wonder even if she had asked Tejawat to get Rudra that would n't have been possible as Tejawat is not a good person by any chance.

this situation happened when rudra marriage that time only tejawat knows that rudra is mala's son and he is rival for tejawat . y she didnt try to get him before 15yrs when she left ?

Originally posted by: Zeeliciousxo

I applaud Mala for leaving her abusive husband, that takes a lot of courage and strength, but I don't know why she didn't show the same courage and strength when fighting for her son. How could she leave Rudra with the man she knew was abusive? If Tejawat's truth hadn't been revealed to Mala she may never have come back to the Ranawat haveli again. So how could she go her whole life thinking Rudra will be ok, with such a terrible father? How did she even think that if she met Rudra he would welcome her with open arms? If she left him with an abusive man did she not think Rudra would also be abused? Where was her concern for his well-being?

Also, I don't understand why the CVs had to make Dilsher so black in order to justify Mala running away. So a husband has to be abusive and downright cruel in order for a woman to be able to run away? Why can't a woman just run away because her marriage is loveless and she found love elsewhere? This is what is really demeaning women in my opinion, showing that women cannot do what their heart desires (find love elsewhere) unless they have a damn good reason for it (an abusive, cruel husband).

Originally posted by: BharaniK265

Thats wat even am also thinking friend. she knows dilsher is such drunkard and bad attitude man then why she didn'nt take him back .. she has all the rights and power cos tejawat was with her ... but she didnt do anything and simply calling and asking danveer about rudra will not be a solution showing love and more over that scene where rudra is about to taste the alchol she know that it spoil rudra's life then also y she left ... she should have lived alone and they stating this reason will be absloultely apt for it . but she went with tejawat to start a new life ... then where the love for rudra went ? thatsy am disappointed

Originally posted by: kutkut12

I am really sorry to see that people believe that staying in an abusive relationship should be the destiny of a woman if she becomes a mother. If she tries to leave that situation then either she is bad or weak...like seriously?

It was shown earlier that she had come to wake up Rudra to take him with her but Dilsher had thrown her out and when she came back again Dilsher did not let her take Rudra. Then Dilsher left with Rudra and probably even Danveer did not know where he was so where could she go to find her son?

Secondly she knew that Dilsher abused her because of his male ego but not her son. He was not abusive with Rudra...at least physically. HE kept feeding Rudra with prejudice but that she could not know of. So though she was longing for her son she could not find him to bring him to her.

She should have understood Dilsher? seriously guys? like PAro understood Rudra? First Rudra never... and I say never hit PAro unlike Dilsher. I know that sometimes he twisted her wrists in rage but that was it. He was always there to protect her. In fact she only called him her protector. Then Paro put up for what...6 months with Rudra's tantrums before he started loving her and Mala she stayed there for 14 or 15 years. Dilsher did not change even after Rudra was born. In fact it got worse. Don't you think it was a long time to give to a failing relationship? She did what she could do. She tried to take care of the business because she knew that failing business was the reason behind his anger but there also, instead of appreciating her efforts he abused her. I don't think any self respecting woman could take it more than Mala. In fact most would have left within a year.

I do not want name any other show but I think you guys should watch some reality and talk shows abt domestic violence, probably then you would be in a better position to understand Mala's POV.

In the end I would just hope that people posting such things are not women at least because it would be really sad to see a woman being insensitive to such things.

Originally posted by: kutkut12
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I am really sorry to see that people believe that staying in an abusive relationship should be the destiny of a woman if she becomes a mother. If she tries to leave that situation then either she is bad or weak...like seriously?

It was shown earlier that she had come to wake up Rudra to take him with her but Dilsher had thrown her out and when she came back again Dilsher did not let her take Rudra. Then Dilsher left with Rudra and probably even Danveer did not know where he was so where could she go to find her son?

Secondly she knew that Dilsher abused her because of his male ego but not her son. He was not abusive with Rudra...at least physically. HE kept feeding Rudra with prejudice but that she could not know of. So though she was longing for her son she could not find him to bring him to her.

She should have understood Dilsher? seriously guys? like PAro understood Rudra? First Rudra never... and I say never hit PAro unlike Dilsher. I know that sometimes he twisted her wrists in rage but that was it. He was always there to protect her. In fact she only called him her protector. Then Paro put up for what...6 months with Rudra's tantrums before he started loving her and Mala she stayed there for 14 or 15 years. Dilsher did not change even after Rudra was born. In fact it got worse. Don't you think it was a long time to give to a failing relationship? She did what she could do. She tried to take care of the business because she knew that failing business was the reason behind his anger but there also, instead of appreciating her efforts he abused her. I don't think any self respecting woman could take it more than Mala. In fact most would have left within a year.

I do not want name any other show but I think you guys should watch some reality and talk shows abt domestic violence, probably then you would be in a better position to understand Mala's POV.

In the end I would just hope that people posting such things are not women at least because it would be really sad to see a woman being insensitive to such things.

Originally posted by: incandescent

I don't know what to say. I am also disappointed with this plot twist actually. I wanted Mala to be grey and I never really imagined Dilsher as an abusive husband, specially with all those speeches about beautiful women. I thought his character would be similar to SRK's in KANK. Bitter and frustrated.

She was forced into an arranged marriage and never really loved him...he was insecure at first and then had an accident and turned bitter, maybe suffered financially...she felt suffocated and left him for the richer and better looking man. Both grey characters basically. Don't know why cvs have to make everything black and white. 😕