I cant understand y they are making mala this much good ? - Page 4

Originally posted by: Zeeliciousxo

I applaud Mala for leaving her abusive husband, that takes a lot of courage and strength, but I don't know why she didn't show the same courage and strength when fighting for her son. How could she leave Rudra with the man she knew was abusive? If Tejawat's truth hadn't been revealed to Mala she may never have come back to the Ranawat haveli again. So how could she go her whole life thinking Rudra will be ok, with such a terrible father? How did she even think that if she met Rudra he would welcome her with open arms? If she left him with an abusive man did she not think Rudra would also be abused? Where was her concern for his well-being?

Also, I don't understand why the CVs had to make Dilsher so black in order to justify Mala running away. So a husband has to be abusive and downright cruel in order for a woman to be able to run away? Why can't a woman just run away because her marriage is loveless and she found love elsewhere? This is what is really demeaning women in my opinion, showing that women cannot do what their heart desires (find love elsewhere) unless they have a damn good reason for it (an abusive, cruel husband).

Originally posted by: Shweta1691

Even I would have preferred this scenario better than showing complete black and white.

Originally posted by: Erika1

SO are we saying that she doesn't have the same courage that she had when she ran away from her first hubby to land in the cosy arms of that hot piece of villain aka her new hubby.

She had money, she had means. So plz dear don't say that. What moral is that if we think its right that the mother is happy in her new live but oblivious to the plight of her child with an abusive drunk of a father. 😕

Originally posted by: incandescent

Ditto.

This is a huge plot hole. If Dilsher was really such an awful husband - alcoholic and abusive - then there is no way he was capable of raising Rudra. Why on earth did Mala leave Rudra with his father and never asked for his custody? This just baffles me.

Rudra was old enough to understand that his mother left them for another man. Wouldn't he have understood if his father was abusive? Maybe he didn't understand the intricacies of relationships at that point, but if Dilsher was really abusive, at some point Rudra would have understood why his mother left, wouldn't he have understood her pain and suffering?

Rudra grew up resenting his mother for leaving them, never his father. Yes, he was bitter towards Dilsher but deep down he always loved him...or that's what the cvs have been implying this whole time...and now suddenly Dilsher is black and Mala is white. 😲

Hallelujah I waiting for the day when RR will fall in the ekta kapoor trap. This is her classic storytelling she will introduce a ridiculous track for convenience/drama purpse that will demolish all the character development leaving the viewer super confused at what drivel we are watching.

Originally posted by: Erika1

I think you misunderstood me, I am saying that she should have gotten the child out of the situation not for her to stay. 😆

Originally posted by: loveanime

Hallelujah I waiting for the day when RR will fall in the ekta kapoor trap. This is her classic storytelling she will introduce a ridiculous track for convenience/drama purpse that will demolish all the character development leaving the viewer super confused at what drivel we are watching.

Bakwaas 1: Thakur and poetry reading bakwaas galore can she just not admit she fell in love with his mooch like seriously who are they kidding. Poor Thakur uski image ki toh band bajgayi.

Bakwaas 2: Dilsher is an abuser to justify Mala and if he was that cruel how can the mother leave the son behind to suffer at the hands of an volatile father. And from how comfy she seemed with Tejawat she didn't seem all that concerned about Rudra well being so she must have on some level been content with Dilsher ability to take care of Rudra. So Dilsher can't have been all that bad, because an abusive man is an abusive father too. Writers just don't want to say Mala and Dilsher couldn't stand each other too shocking for the audience total bakwaas.

Originally posted by: kutkut12

Though I agree with Mala for leaving an abusive man but I totally agree with you too. CV's have actually dished out total bakwas.

They had to make Mala look good so they made Dilsher bad and now they want audience to accept an abusive man by saying that he changed because he saw the selfless love of Paro. I mean seriously? That blind man could not see the selfless love of his own wife and now he suddenly changes because of the 2 rotis Paro made for him wearing those handcuffs because as I can remember he had started asking Rudra to marry Paro just after that. How did he manage to see PAro's selfless love back then when she actually hated Rudra?😕

As KAkisa says very soon Mala and Dilli boy would sit on the Jhula in the courtyard and make each other wear garlands of flower. 😆

I would have preferred a misunderstanding between the 2 created by Kakisa. then they could have kept both Dilsher and Mala good as well as KAkisa bad as they are trying hard to do.

And I love your comment abt Mala falling for Tejawat' mooch...I personally fell for his dimples😳

by the way after such episodes it is very entertaining to visit the forums as it is overflowing with such interesting views.

Originally posted by: BharaniK265

Whatever it may be Dilsher is wrong/malechauvanist everything . But , Reason for his anger is due to his frustrations in work .. other than her to whom he can show that . It is mala's responbility of making him understand , how paro is tried alot to change rudra. she didnt do it instead she started friendship with tejawat . Whatever the situation she has to be with dilsher for the sake of rudra. but she decided to take him away with her but what about dilsher the man who failed in all the facts business, life etc ...

I know no body can tolerate to an extent .. so she left dilsher finally agree but why to marry tejawat again . is this a real love for rudra ... if she is really love rudra dilsher or whatever comes she will not do all these ... she might have begged dilsher to accept her(for the sake of rudra) instead of going behind tejawat as paro stood in rain for rudra .

really i am totally disappointed with this twist that dilsher is wrong .. dilsher is not wrong but a frustrated man dont how to show his feelings .. Mala also poor in this situation but going with tejawat is not acceptable ... they should have shown some other reason ...

Am not against mala but reason could have been better ... dont scold me guys .. its just a pov ..