I cant understand y they are making mala this much good ?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Whatever it may be Dilsher is wrong/malechauvanist everything . But , Reason for his anger is due to his frustrations in work .. other than her to whom he can show that . It is mala's responbility of making him understand , how paro is tried alot to change rudra. she didnt do it instead she started friendship with tejawat . Whatever the situation she has to be with dilsher for the sake of rudra. but she decided to take him away with her but what about dilsher the man who failed in all the facts business, life etc ...
I know no body can tolerate to an extent .. so she left dilsher finally agree but why to marry tejawat again . is this a real love for rudra ... if she is really love rudra dilsher or whatever comes she will not do all these ... she might have begged dilsher to accept her(for the sake of rudra) instead of going behind tejawat as paro stood in rain for rudra .
really i am totally disappointed with this twist that dilsher is wrong .. dilsher is not wrong but a frustrated man dont how to show his feelings .. Mala also poor in this situation but going with tejawat is not acceptable ... they should have shown some other reason ...


Am not against mala but reason could have been better ... dont scold me guys .. its just a pov ..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: BharaniK265

Whatever it may be Dilsher is wrong/malechauvanist everything . But , Reason for his anger is due to his frustrations in work .. other than her to whom he can show that . It is mala's responbility of making him understand , how paro is tried alot to change rudra. she didnt do it instead she started friendship with tejawat . Whatever the situation she has to be with dilsher for the sake of rudra. but she decided to take him away with her but what about dilsher the man who failed in all the facts business, life etc ...

I know no body can tolerate to an extent .. so she left dilsher finally agree but why to marry tejawat again . is this a real love for rudra ... if she is really love rudra dilsher or whatever comes she will not do all these ... she might have begged dilsher to accept her instead of going behind tejawat as paro stood in rain for rudra .
really i am totally disappointed with this twist that dilsher is wrong .. dilsher is not wrong but a frustrated man dont how to show his feelings .. Mala also poor in this situation but going with tejawat is not acceptable ... they should have shown some other reason ...


Am not against mala but reason could have been better ... dont scold me guys .. its just a pov ..



I agree to an extent, but at the same time we can't tell the mother's tolerance for abuse, and if someone is yelling at you all the time and apparently he hit her on the light festival day, then she is right to leave the situation, but what I think is wrong, is not caring what happens to your child with that same abusive person for 15 years.

To me honestly the mother seems like a weak person. She seems easily swayed. She seems so not important to me in the lives of her son and daughter-in-law.

And I think that the father couldn't have been so bad as the creatives wants us to believe just to feel sympathy for the mother alone now, to facilitate this track.
Edited by Erika1 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Even I would have liked if they had made mala grey,...she was very much grey with tejawat lost in her sweet cocoon over here also hubby devar both in her trap...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Erika1



I agree to an extent, but at the same time we can't tell the mother's tolerance for abuse, and if someone is yelling at you all the time and apparently he hit her on the light festival day, then she is right to leave the situation, but what I think is wrong, is not caring what happens to your child with that same abusive person for 15 years.

To me honestly the mother seems like a weak person. She seems easily swayed. She seems so not important to me in the lives of her son and daughter-in-law.

And I think that the father couldn't have been so bad as the creatives wants us to believe just to feel sympathy for the mother.

@bold: Not saying if I agree or disagree but at bold, hopefully that is what Rudra's monologue tomorrow will address as they hinted in the precap. They are hyping the solution of this problem they openly placed Friday and each day the dialogues are coming through.
Edited by puglet - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: BharaniK265

Whatever it may be Dilsher is wrong/malechauvanist everything . But , Reason for his anger is due to his frustrations in work .. other than her to whom he can show that . It is mala's responbility of making him understand , how paro is tried alot to change rudra. she didnt do it instead she started friendship with tejawat . Whatever the situation she has to be with dilsher for the sake of rudra. but she decided to take him away with her but what about dilsher the man who failed in all the facts business, life etc ...

I know no body can tolerate to an extent .. so she left dilsher finally agree but why to marry tejawat again . is this a real love for rudra ... if she is really love rudra dilsher or whatever comes she will not do all these ... she might have begged dilsher to accept her instead of going behind tejawat as paro stood in rain for rudra .
really i am totally disappointed with this twist that dilsher is wrong .. dilsher is not wrong but a frustrated man dont how to show his feelings .. Mala also poor in this situation but going with tejawat is not acceptable ... they should have shown some other reason ...


Am not against mala but reason could have been better ... dont scold me guys .. its just a pov ..


Errr...what?

She should have begged Dilsher to take her back for what? To be killed off by his hands? That would have solved all problems, no? Thats what abused women should do! Either take whatever is being served to them or beg their 'praan naths' to understand and take them back after they committed the HUGE folly of thinking about their well being.

Brilliant. With people like you, we will show all women their place in the society - become nannies for your husbands and take every shit they throw your way because they are stressed and frustrated and its your job to be with them no matter if you die in the attempt. Lovely.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Dilsher was an abusive, alcholic,and violent man. Neither Mala nor any other woman for that matter needs to put up with a man who beats her up. In fact Mala was wrong to put up with such a man for so many years.
I don't remember Rudra doing that. So comparing paro's situation to Mala's is wrong. (And please, Paro doesn't beg for Rudra's love...she is Infact refreshingly 'shameless' in shouting hers from rooftops...somehow I don't think it would have made any difference to Dilsher if Mala had died of pneumonia in rain)

And this isn't a new development in story. Dilsher does come across as all this from the clips of the past.

Good she left. Great if she was able to find love and friendship with another man

Mala's only fault is that she did not put up a stronger fight for her son. She should have fought for Rudra rather than leave him with an abusive violent father.


Edited by vann - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Erika1



I agree to an extent, but at the same time we can't tell the mother's tolerance for abuse, and if someone is yelling at you all the time and apparently he hit her on the light festival day, then she is right to leave the situation, but what I think is wrong, is not caring what happens to your child with that same abusive person for 15 years.

To me honestly the mother seems like a weak person. She seems easily swayed. She seems so not important to me in the lives of her son and daughter-in-law.

And I think that the father couldn't have been so bad as the creatives wants us to believe just to feel sympathy for the mother.




Thats wat even am also thinking friend. she knows dilsher is such drunkard and bad attitude man then why she didn'nt take him back .. she has all the rights and power cos tejawat was with her ... but she didnt do anything and simply calling and asking danveer about rudra will not be a solution showing love and more over that scene where rudra is about to taste the alchol she know that it spoil rudra's life then also y she left ... she should have lived alone and they stating this reason will be absloultely apt for it . but she went with tejawat to start a new life ... then where the love for rudra went ? thatsy am disappointed
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Posted: 11 years ago
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anyhow to make mala good, they made dilsher bad...but he was good with paro from the start...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: asha_am

anyhow to make mala good, they made dilsher bad...but he was good with paro from the start...


Did you by any chance watch the episode mute because thats what it seems like otherwise you wouldnt have missed that part where Dilsher credited his change of heart to Paro's true and pure love and admitted to having exaggerated Mala's faults and completely wiped out his because his male ego was hurt?

I am really hoping you saw the episode on mute because otherwise it would seem like the entire conversation went from over your head... :)
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: AngelTeen


Did you by any chance watch the episode mute because thats what it seems like otherwise you wouldnt have missed that part where Dilsher credited his change of heart to Paro's true and pure love and admitted to having exaggerated Mala's faults and completely wiped out his because his male ego was hurt?

I am really hoping you saw the episode on mute because otherwise it would seem like the entire conversation went from over your head... :)


I think what the person is saying that Dilsher was pretty much kind to Paro even before he really knew her. He was good to her from their first meeting, let's be real, he didn't change suddenly in one meeting because as soon as he met Paro he sensed all this goodness in her.
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