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Posted: 11 years ago
#81

Originally posted by: nema123

very nicely written...:) you write so fast... within one hour we get to read your wonderful post...!

I just love Paro's character... ! It is so simple and so pure...
She didn't even take a second to agree to do anything for Rudra's Mafi..!

She deserve better than Rudra... 😆 Rudy boy is messed up..


Thank you. 😃Paro is the only white character in RR and that is why she is so simple. Deserve better than Rudra? ...Well, if the universe ran on " who deserves whom" in matters of the heart, there would be no healing and no liberation of heart in this world. Love is about who needs whom, not who deserves whom.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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As always beautifully summed up.🤗👏

Putting down part of my comments to Diya's post...

Quite a fast paced episode and the doll revelation though not very dramatic was most unexpected.

It also explains Paro's eagerness and immediate decision to go to Rudra with the sindoor at the awards ceremony.

The doll falls and again she sees his vulnerable side

This is exactly what makes Paro go to him. . His telling her the doll meant so much to him and was his only consolation in his shattered and battered childhood. Again the instinct of nurturing comes forth...it's like...Bholenath gave me my answer...you are my chosen one...and look I am the one who befriended you...so I can still be you friend. I can heal you. I am ready to take on all your anger, your pain and embrace it. The sindoor is only an external element.

You see in the precap clutching the doll in one hand and sindoor in the other, she is all starry-eyed, her voice all soft a kind of joy that she found herself to be the friend he always longed for and feels close to even now.

The only worry is his public rejection of her proposal. Though I feel Paro is not too worried about that. Such things do not hurt her. he has publicly claimed her his to be wife. From Chandangarh to Birpur everyone knows they were supposed to be married. So what's the big deal if it is an awards ceremony.

Also though I so wanted Paro to accept Sumer's proposal (just so that Rudra faces the reality of losing her) it would go against her character. It's not in her character to just go on and marry every second guy coming her way. Her values now remain intact. Her loyalty is something way beyond Rudra can imagine. And now with this public proposal, it reaches to a point of taking the chance of even being publicly humiliated.

If I have to sum up her character Paro is a very saintly woman of today. All pure white. Plus she has patience which is her very big virtue, nerver give up attitude (kitchen scenes).Extremely selfless... It's all about give give give, without expecting anything in return. You could say too good to be true for a man like him. But only something so white can heal something so dark as Rudra.

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Posted: 11 years ago
#83

Originally posted by: MoronsKiMallika


Pataa nahin. Jo haque jataate hain apnon par, woh kalaai hi pakadte hain. Aur jo pyaar jataate hain, woh haath pakadhte hainn.

Abb boojho to jaane hum.😆



Achaji...toh matlab since deep down he knows he loves her so feels that right on her...thus wrist holding...but the day he will accept these feelings and let that love for her flow through him...he will hold her hand?

Bolo bhuja kya?😆

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: MoronsKiMallika


Thank you. 😃Paro is the only white character in RR and that is why she is so simple. Deserve better than Rudra? ...Well, if the universe ran on " who deserves whom" in matters of the heart, there would be no healing and no liberation of heart in this world. Love is about who needs whom, not who deserves whom.



Agree... in real life it take too many sacrifices to be with people like Rudra...too much time goes just to build that basic trust... many times you crave for simple things like holding hands and going for a walk together , going out for movie...
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Posted: 11 years ago
#85
Vicky Baisa I see post all around that rudra sold paro.. Then doll ka raaz shouldn't rudra fall first..where was the rule.. That rudra had decided I will fall for the girl. Who gave methe doll.
In my sons class they have book exchange program.. I hope they don't decide I will marry the girl who gets my story book..
This is just a dj vu moment that oh we met before.. More as a signal to paro.. Who is looking for signs from heavens.. Girls tend to do that.. I did that a lot and got a lot of positive signs from gods😆.. For a lot ... Actual quite a few of my crushes nothing absolutely nothing came out of it..
It is just something to convince your heart..😆
Paro heart and mind has already decided for rudra.. She just needs the inner push called divine help..which she got when she sees the doll.
If the doll was with Sumer ...hypothetically then Paros mind would have convinced her oh he's the older brother I met when I was a kid😆😆..


With rudra it's a little different a lot dicey.. I am just copying my thoughts from Sush thread..
Give rudra time...Where is the written rule male lead has to fall first..
This is a different more complex story.. This is not pride and prejudice...which was the basic plot of ipk..

This is a story about a misogynist.. He does not trust woman.. Rather beautiful woman.. They will betray as they belong to nobody.. His mother betrayed him.. Paro betrayed him when she left him for thakur.. Right now he's not in love with paro.. He definitely knows he's attracted to her .. He knows if he keeps her near him she will enchant him.. Make him go weak in his knees .. She will bind him to her make him weak guy and then leave him for something better..
Look at his father shattered weak and look where his mother is rocking with a more powerful guy..
If his mother had gone to ashram.., been found in a mental asylum he would have found it easy to forgive her.. But what he has seen has made his feelings more deeper..

Now I feel the cvs were right in exposing mala to rudra.. And then keeping her away.. He knows where his mother was and with whom..
He has also seen paro being in his mothers wings .. He just cannot trust paro,, so he has to get forced to marry paro..
There is no way he will willingly marry paro.. Right now..and they have to be married to clear the impasse...so who will force his hand... His dad or his seniors..

I bet the BSD guys will force his hand..
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Posted: 11 years ago
#86

Originally posted by: ddFan2012

As always beautifully summed up.🤗👏

Putting down part of my comments to Diya's post...

Quite a fast paced episode and the doll revelation though not very dramatic was most unexpected.

It also explains Paro's eagerness and immediate decision to go to Rudra with the sindoor at the awards ceremony.

The doll falls and again she sees his vulnerable side

This is exactly what makes Paro go to him. . His telling her the doll meant so much to him and was his only consolation in his shattered and battered childhood. Again the instinct of nurturing comes forth...it's like...Bholenath gave me my answer...you are my chosen one...and look I am the one who befriended you...so I can still be you friend. I can heal you. I am ready to take on all your anger, your pain and embrace it. The sindoor is only an external element.

You see in the precap clutching the doll in one hand and sindoor in the other, she is all starry-eyed, her voice all soft a kind of joy that she found herself to be the friend he always longed for and feels close to even now.

The only worry is his public rejection of her proposal. Though I feel Paro is not too worried about that. Such things do not hurt her. he has publicly claimed her his to be wife. From Chandangarh to Birpur everyone knows they were supposed to be married. So what's the big deal if it is an awards ceremony.

Also though I so wanted Paro to accept Sumer's proposal (just so that Rudra faces the reality of losing her) it would go against her character. It's not in her character to just go on and marry every second guy coming her way. Her values now remain intact. Her loyalty is something way beyond Rudra can imagine. And now with this public proposal, it reaches to a point of taking the chance of even being publicly humiliated.

If I have to sum up her character Paro is a very saintly woman of today. All pure white. Plus she has patience which is her very big virtue, nerver give up attitude (kitchen scenes).Extremely selfless... It's all about give give give, without expecting anything in return. You could say too good to be true for a man like him. But only something so white can heal something so dark as Rudra.

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Thank you , DDF and i love it how transparently you saw Paro's feelings for Rudra. WOW😳. So true. For someone as white as Paro, its very simple that why she wants to be with Rudra. He saved her life and honour, kept her alive, shielded her every step of the way - and this emotional proximity has bound her to him, apart from divine intervention that has come in.

But only something so white can heal something so dark as Rudra.👏
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Posted: 11 years ago
#87

Originally posted by: sajni786



Achaji...toh matlab since deep down he knows he loves her so feels that right on her...thus wrist holding...but the day he will accept these feelings and let that love for her flow through him...he will hold her hand?

Bolo bhuja kya?😆


Sahee jawaab.👏
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Posted: 11 years ago
#88

Originally posted by: nema123



Agree... in real life it take too many sacrifices to be with people like Rudra...too much time goes just to build that basic trust... many times you crave for simple things like holding hands and going for a walk together , going out for movie...


True. That intense soul-igniting love is not for everyone. Everyone is not capable of it.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#89
@All wow I am enjoying all the reviews here.
Awesome its like re-watching the characters of Parud but with a more internal depth.
@TM-i would like to thank u for ur daily in depth reviews of RR, it really makes me understand the complexity of the characters in a simple way as u write so beautifully.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#90

Originally posted by: msin

Vicky Baisa I see post all around that rudra sold paro.. Then doll ka raaz shouldn't rudra fall first..where was the rule.. That rudra had decided I will fall for the girl. Who gave methe doll.

In my sons class they have book exchange program.. I hope they don't decide I will marry the girl who gets my story book..
This is just a dj vu moment that oh we met before.. More as a signal to paro.. Who is looking for signs from heavens.. Girls tend to do that.. I did that a lot and got a lot of positive signs from gods😆.. For a lot ... Actual quite a few of my crushes nothing absolutely nothing came out of it..
It is just something to convince your heart..😆
Paro heart and mind has already decided for rudra.. She just needs the inner push called divine help..which she got when she sees the doll.
If the doll was with Sumer ...hypothetically then Paros mind would have convinced her oh he's the older brother I met when I was a kid😆😆..


With rudra it's a little different a lot dicey.. I am just copying my thoughts from Sush thread..
Give rudra time...Where is the written rule male lead has to fall first..
This is a different more complex story.. This is not pride and prejudice...which was the basic plot of ipk..

This is a story about a misogynist.. He does not trust woman.. Rather beautiful woman.. They will betray as they belong to nobody.. His mother betrayed him.. Paro betrayed him when she left him for thakur.. Right now he's not in love with paro.. He definitely knows he's attracted to her .. He knows if he keeps her near him she will enchant him.. Make him go weak in his knees .. She will bind him to her make him weak guy and then leave him for something better..
Look at his father shattered weak and look where his mother is rocking with a more powerful guy..
If his mother had gone to ashram.., been found in a mental asylum he would have found it easy to forgive her.. But what he has seen has made his feelings more deeper..

Now I feel the cvs were right in exposing mala to rudra.. And then keeping her away.. He knows where his mother was and with whom..
He has also seen paro being in his mothers wings .. He just cannot trust paro,, so he has to get forced to marry paro..
There is no way he will willingly marry paro.. Right now..and they have to be married to clear the impasse...so who will force his hand... His dad or his seniors..

I bet the BSD guys will force his hand..



Agree completely @TM...

Loved the bit where you say he has seen where his mother landed. The wife of a very good looking wealthy man. Happy and content. That picture on Tej's wall gave him his answer. Like she had no regret leaving his father.


The doll bit agree...plus the story is sold as girl falls for boy who does not believe in love. She is the one to accept her feelings first. Paro speaks her mind, has no qualms about saying it aloud or acting according to her feelings. And she will continue to tell Rudra as well...that you feel for me but you dont want to admit it!

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