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Posted: 11 years ago
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Such a common word, used occasionally, but today the meaning of that word was brought home to us so forcefully and beautifully by the cvs of this show.
I real life I have had the misfortune of interacting with such troubled and abandoned kids. One example...a child was taken to a mall by his mom..a child of 5 and she simply left him there, saying she is going to use the restroom...and the child waited...just waited...not knowing what to do...He is 14 now, adopted by an awesome family, looks like a perfectly normal happy child and every week he sees his therapist and will probably do so for the rest of his life...and this is just one child...there are so many like them...
Rudra was in fact fortunate that he at least had one parent with him, yes, he was not the best father, but still he had some one even for name's sake in his life. There are so many out there who are just...abandoned!!
The letters bared a child's soul. The fact that he blamed himself for his mother's absence. It was his behavior, his attitude that forced her to walk away. If he was a good child, she wouldn't have done so. The guilt, the self blame so heart breakingly evident. The hope that never dies. The optimism, the wishful thinking of a child. The daily cycle of hope and heart break. The inablitlity to contact her, the helplessness of a child in a grown up's world. The wait...the never ending wait for her return. And he is still waiting for her. A 28 year old grown man of the world is still waiting for his mother to return...and such kids wait till the day they die...
Abandoned..this one words carries so much. The fact that the person was not good enough to be loved, was not worth staying with, a sense of worthlessness, a feeling of hopelessness, guilt, blame, lack of trust in oneself and with the whole world...the list is endless. How do you come to terms with the harsh reality that the people who should have loved you the most in this world dumped you like useless trash and never even looked back. The psyches of such children are shattered forever. Their insides are so dark and scarred that it is impossible for us to fathom, their hearts so wronged that no right in the world registers. They only know how to survive, rarely learn how to live.
Kudos to the cvs what a heart wrenching scene!! Just two pieces of paper and Paro glimpsed the depravity of his soul, the desperation of his heart, the reason for the existence of JALLAD!!
Awesome work cvs..and especially Sanaya for bringing so much pathos to a two minute scene. Her expressions made us more aware of his pain. The missing man was present more than ever. Just proved the point, this team is quite capable of handling the sudden changes in the tide!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Beautiful post Eve!!

I had lump in my throat when Sanaya was enacting the scene. You are so right, he was present in today's epside!! We did not miss Rudra Pratap Ranawat because we felt him in that scene.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: mozart66

Beautiful post Eve!!

I had lump in my throat when Sanaya was enacting the scene. You are so right, he was present in today's epside!! We did not miss Rudra Pratap Ranawat because we felt him in that scene.

Sanaya gave words to his pain, a face to his desperation, she was the medium through which his agony was communicated...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Agree with every word.
From the beginning I was sure that it would be difficult to forgive thakurain for going away without her son and then never turning back!
Now that we are sure her reason for leaving did not involve any threat to the child's life etc it is unfathomable that such a loving mother as she was could do such a thing!
It doesn't matter that she cried for him every night...it doesn't matter that she went back after a month...it doesn't matter that she missed him every moment...the child will carry the scars of abandonment all his life...feeling unworthy and unable to accept love or love himself!

Paro reading those letters was an amazing scene because the emotion Sanaya brought in her voice was enough to bring to life the pain behind the words of the little boy writing the letters!

It's so true that once a human being is a parent the decisions they make must be very very well thought out and thought out from the child's POV as well as their own!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Very nicely said..

A child abandoned is the worst thing that can happen in this world. I being a mother myself understand how helpless my child feels when my daughter doesn't find me even for 2 minutes in a public place .. I have experienced that once and cannot wipe out the scene from my memory even today..

This was a beautiful scene.. the letters was so touchy and Sanaya is always champion in emotional scenes..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Beautiful post and it indeed was a beautiful scene .
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: golpokobita

Very nicely said..


A child abandoned is the worst thing that can happen in this world. I being a mother myself understand how helpless my child feels when my daughter doesn't find me even for 2 minutes in a public place .. I have experienced that once and cannot wipe out the scene from my memory even today..

This was a beautiful scene.. the letters was so touchy and Sanaya is always champion in emotional scenes..

It's haunting..isn't it?? A mother's biggest nightmare becomes the biggest reality of a child. No mother can ever forgive and forget such instances.
Sanaya is awesome in every frame...today she raised her bar further!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Sanaya was awesome in the scene, her voice modulation while reading the letter, her eyes, expressions were pitch perfect. It did feel like Rudra was there. Team did a good job.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nice post eveline..
I loved that scene..

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: prettypri

Agree with every word.

From the beginning I was sure that it would be difficult to forgive thakurain for going away without her son and then never turning back!
Now that we are sure her reason for leaving did not involve any threat to the child's life etc it is unfathomable that such a loving mother as she was could do such a thing!
It doesn't matter that she cried for him every night...it doesn't matter that she went back after a month...it doesn't matter that she missed him every moment...the child will carry the scars of abandonment all his life...feeling unworthy and unable to accept love or love himself!

Paro reading those letters was an amazing scene because the emotion Sanaya brought in her voice was enough to bring to life the pain behind the words of the little boy writing the letters!

It's so true that once a human being is a parent the decisions they make must be very very well thought out and thought out from the child's POV as well as their own!

I remember saying the very first day whatever the justification I will never be able to forgive this woman. No excuse, no reason, nothing... can justify a mother's abandonment of her child.
This scene was memorable only and only because of Sanaya. And what you said in the last line is so so true...once you are a parent...your first responsibility and priority has to be your child.

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