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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: eveline

Aww...give her another hug from me tomorrow (not today, she will think whats wrong with my mom😆)!! A mother is everything for a child, the reason for its existence, his/her life line, a friend, a care taker, a partner in crime, a guide, a philosopher, a teacher, a confidant, every single vital role is mother!! And when the most important person in a child's life decides to walk away...it is unforgivable in any context!!

And you mirror my sentiments, since the day Mala has been revealed as Rudra's mom, every time I see her my mind yells...how could you?? I cant stand the sight of her!
🤣🤣Sumer Banna is so going to make us proud...I want Rudra to know about this..just want to his reaction...😃

I will😃...she is 2 1/2 and her reaction was...ok, mummy you are acting so weird😆...Btw, rupunzale is her favorite fairy tale character. She wants to grow her hair just like the princess.
Honestly...Mala irritates me with her hypocritical tears...I just can't tolerate her sight either. She disgusts me.

I actually like Sumer😆...he is going to get it from Rudra. Forget about Rudra's reaction for now...think about Thakur's 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rupunzale

I will😃...she is 2 1/2 and her reaction was...ok, mummy you are acting so weird😆...Btw, rupunzale is her favorite fairy tale character. She wants to grow her hair just like the princess.

Honestly...Mala irritates me with her hypocritical tears...I just can't tolerate her sight either. She disgusts me.

I actually like Sumer😆...he is going to get it from Rudra. Forget about Rudra's reaction for now...think about Thakur's 😆

AWW...the little princess!! And that explains your id...sho shweet!! So she wants to grow her hair...mummy dearest best of luck...shampooing, oiling, braiding and pony tailing 😆
I used to look forward to Rudra Paro scenes...for the first time I am looking forward to a Sumer scene...it is going to be priceless 😃
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Posted: 11 years ago
#23

Originally posted by: bidz



Your post made me wonder - agreed, she should have taken her son. However, the son still loses out right? He loses his father if she takes him with her. It is obvious in Rudra's case that he would have probably been better off had she taken him along, because the father became too bitter and incapable to take care of him.

But I am curious to know under normal circumstances what would be the right course of action?? May be the mother takes him, but he gets to be in touch with his dad regularly?? Not sure if that is practical in all cases.

Unfortunately, when parents split, the child always suffers. But to leave without letting the child know, permanently scars the child. And no matter how much she has craved for him, will never justify the hurt she has caused him!

Hi Bidz...so good to see you here. In an ideal world a child needs both parents but unfortunate we all know that each and every child does not have that privilege. The situation is never right or wrong...the point is it's always wrong for the child. But by saying that it's the mother who the child needs the most while they are growing up...for the child to move forward successfully in psychological and emotional health. There is a biological reason to why a woman bears a child. In a divorce or in any other court references, the first right is always the mother's. But, unfortunately the child is the one who suffers.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: eveline

AWW...the little princess!! And that explains your id...sho shweet!! So she wants to grow her hair...mummy dearest best of luck...shampooing, oiling, braiding and pony tailing 😆

I used to look forward to Rudra Paro scenes...for the first time I am looking forward to a Sumer scene...it is going to be priceless 😃

yup you got it...my id😉...gosh...I do it already...she is very fussy. Btw Eve...any news on Ashish's health ? Hope he is back next week.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#25
you brought your experience to bear so movingly on this heartbreaking reality that haunts the life of so many. Beautifully said.
Edited by Dazee - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dazee

you brought your experience to bear so movingly on this really painful reality that haunts the life of so many. Beautifully said.

I write and let off steam, those who really live this day in and day out, have no relief.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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yes emotional letter tears poor rudra. mala might seek redemption but she will not be forgiven. even i cant stand her character. she is one clueless dolt. considering her poor choice in second husband i am glad rudra stayed with dilsher however damage it did to him. yes mothers are important but not if they make bad choices love is not enough if you can't protect your child. dilsher and rudra will make up soon enouh they genuinely love each other, for what it is worth rudra is a son any parent would be proud of despite his faults he is a gem. not sure how rudra would have turned out if mala stuck around considering how samrat and sumer are it might have been a blessing in disguise for rudra. i hope someday rudra realizes this when he and paro are in love that his life is not all that bad and what happened was for the best.

Edited by loveanime - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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He definitely made his presence felt in the scene. I'm glad the CVs are making her get insight into the man he has become by showing his childhood pain.
Edited by westindian - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: westindian

He definitely made his presence felt in the scene. I'm glad the CVs are making her get insight into the man he has become by showing his childhood pain.

It is amazing how Rudra although missing from the frame, still makes his presence felt. Amazing direction and screen play...and have no words to describe Sanaya of course!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: loveanime

yes emotional letter tears poor rudra. mala might seek redemption but she will not be forgiven. even i cant stand her character. she is one clueless dolt. considering her poor choice in second husband i am glad rudra stayed with dilsher however damage it did to him. yes mothers are important but not if they make bad choices love is not enough if you can't protect your child. dilsher and rudra will make up soon enouh they genuinely love each other, for what it is worth rudra is a son any parent would be proud of despite his faults he is a gem. not sure how rudra would have turned out if mala stuck around considering how samrat and sumer are it might have been a blessing in disguise for rudra. i hope someday rudra realizes this when he and paro are in love that his life is not all that bad and what happened was for the best.

now that's an unusual take...but you know what you are right in you own way. Yes, it is hard to be abandoned, but it might be harder to be reared by the wrong set of parents. Sometimes the parent is so misguided and confused, that a child is better off without them. They can actually damage a child more by just staying around them. That's another way of looking at it. Sigh...this world is a strange place...on one hand there are parent who deserve kids but don't have any...and on the other hand there are kids yearning for parents...but have no hope.

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