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Posted: 11 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: Naach_Basanti




Im on the same page with you on the bolded part. I'd have liked if they spent more time exploring paro's state of mind. I loved some of the scenes when Paro was trying to come to terms with her loss. But I think they decided to move to the existing track for TRPs as a lot of people werent happy watching Paro's helpless state, especially with regards to a man who isnt the so called 'hero' of the show. Well, at least that's what I think.

As someone said we live in the fast food world, audience too seem to expect immediate gratification.



but isnt this fast forwarding less rewarding in the long run
I do agree that the pace could be increased a bit but not at the expense of one of the leads thought process/ progression alone.
they can edit bits and pieces from masi/chachi (i like her but she can be cut down upon) scenes and scenes like sister's intro..even the eye locks (as much as I like them) if absolutely necessary

BTW havent they already written 200 episodes.. I was taking that as an assurance that they wont play with the script in response to trps
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Posted: 11 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: prettypri


I wonder about that too..I mean initially she clasped the mangalsutra and there were flashbacks as well and then it sort of disappeared.
I wondered if they wanted to show that in the situation she was in she could not be expected to grieve more than she did. But she seemed too accepting of it all of a sudden and that may have been because of TRPs.
This is of course strictly given her upbringing in the show but I would have thought she would cling to those memories a bit more.
And it's refreshing to see that Dilsher asked Rudra to marry her although he knows her husband was just killed. That's pretty forward thinking for a man with his background and surprising too,
I think this issue will come up again when everyone gets to know the truth about her and then the masala aunt will milk it !

@bold-True! It was surprising, but any step forward is a good thing! That was, actually a nice touch to the storyline!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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nice post...paro has a right to live...surely not like a widow of a 2 hrs relationship...!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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LOL this way should we assume Rudra to be a widower as he's wearing white?
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Posted: 11 years ago
#35

Originally posted by: NalayakShaitaan



but isnt this fast forwarding less rewarding in the long run
I do agree that the pace could be increased a bit but not at the expense of one of the leads thought process/ progression alone.
they can edit bits and pieces from masi/chachi (i like her but she can be cut down upon) scenes and scenes like sister's intro..even the eye locks (as much as I like them) if absolutely necessary

BTW havent they already written 200 episodes.. I was taking that as an assurance that they wont play with the script in response to trps



Thats a good point, in which case its a shame that they are undermining the feelings associated with the female lead character, unless they plan on focusing on it in the future, once Paro's innocence has been proved. But that would be late and it would dilute her suffering.

I think the writers missed a trick here.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Naach_Basanti



Thats a good point, in which case its a shame that they are undermining the feelings associated with the female lead character, unless they plan on focusing on it in the future, once Paro's innocence has been proved. But that would be late and it would dilute her suffering.

I think the writers missed a trick here.

Is it a fact that they already have the script for 200 episodes?? Wow..I didn't know they could afford to d that given the difficulties that could crop up in a daily show like this! Well..good luck to them in that case..I hope they don't change the story just for additional TRP!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Naach_Basanti



Thats a good point, in which case its a shame that they are undermining the feelings associated with the female lead character, unless they plan on focusing on it in the future, once Paro's innocence has been proved. But that would be late and it would dilute her suffering.

I think the writers missed a trick here.



Precisely, it will be too late then
However given that Mr Dekhna hai toh dekho Hegde is one of the screen play writer, I dont think I should be too surprised

missing the point pertaining to female leads is like his modus operandi
Hopefully the other one is more sensitve and gets to have a say
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Posted: 11 years ago
#38
Very Well Said 👏 N The Biggest Joke Is We Live In 21st Century And Still Some Have The Old School Thinking.

Being A Guy I Strongly Oppose The Special Treatment A Widower Get In The Society .Which Is So Ridiculous .

A Widows Life Does Not End After Her Death Of Her Husband .That's Why Sati Practice Was Abandoned .Before Marriage Also She Dressed Up .Her Dressing Up Is Not Related To Whether Her Husband Is Dead Or Not . Every Widow Women Is A Normal Women Who Has All The Rights To Dress-Up ,Be Happy,Smile N Move On In Her Life.

I Don't Get Why Society Give Special Rules For Widower N Also Married . If A Married Women Does Not Put Sindoor N Manglsutra They Way Their Saas React In TV Shows N Also In Real Life Is Too Much.I Don't Get Why Women Should Put Stuffs Just To Show She Is Married N Men Does Not Need To Put Anything To Show They R Married N He Puts Just A Ring .If He Removes Also No One Make Any Issue .

As A Guy I Don't Like The Special N Liberal Treatment Society Gives To Men .

I Am Happy CV's Showing A Modern Thinking . Were Showing A Widow Wearing Colorful Clothes N Smiling And I Hope CV's Show Paro Like This In Upcoming Episodes Also.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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21st century😆...but point to be noted
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Posted: 11 years ago
#40

Originally posted by: Guinea

I am SO GLAD you made this post. I am so disgusted with this nonsense abt widow clothes , whatever that is supposed to mean 😕

Yesterday ppl jumped in " on a huge blooper " in the show by watching a SBS segment where we were informed that " rudra is taking paro to the bdf camp where she will stay put" without even seeing it in an actual episode.

Today , we know that she is back in the ranawat haveli ...wearing gorgeous clothes as rudra's finance so the probelm is
A/ why is she not in widow clothes
B/ sanaya is not comfortable in the clothes she is wearing as she made a vague comment .

If sanaya is not comfortable in what she is wearing than she being a grown up women and a professional actress will have a chat with the PH , nobody is forcing her OR can force her to wear something she doesn't like ...we as fans need to stay out of this and also don't need to be her internet mommies.
OR is the real probelm that she is wearing this in RR😉

For what its worth ..sanaya was looking absolutely gorgeous in the black/ white and gold lehanga , showing her beauty and figure to perfection 😊 I hope sanaya continues to wear these gorgeous lehanga cholis in the show and doesn't resort to wearing "widow clothes / cover herself up" to please a few ...



If Sanaya Is Comfortable That's All What Matter . May Be I Get In To Her Comment Too Much .

Sanaya Has The Perfect Figure To Carry These Dress .If She Is Happy . As Her Fan I Am Also Happy N I Don't Have Any Issue.

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