Originally posted by: Newbiesoapfan
Agree completely...she was not emotionally invested enough in the marriage and the partner to mourn too much...Someone said she should have looked at her shadi ka joda peeping out and felt bad... but she is past that... she is a widow now and that has registered ( it registered sometime when she was in jail )... so she has realised that she cannot cry over what has been ... she is making the best of a bad situation ... you may say created by her... but then any other way would mean even worse consequences for her only relative mani sa and the village.!!Rudra killed the old Paro once ... but the crying mourning Paro died a few days back... she realised that mourning or crying would get her nowhere... and that I think is the best part of Paro...Does she wish Varun sa was not dead - of course.Does she wish that she had a married life with him - of courseBut she is past that ... she has accepted her fate... and with that acceptance I sense a resignation to the fate ... that is fuelling a quiet courage that allows her to face Rudra ( if anyone thinks she is comfortable ... she isn't ... it is false bravado... but she is getting better and better at it)
Very well writen.
I am dead against any kind of widow etiquette.
But, I also have seen GH's shows. I hardly think he has thought anything the way you described Paro. All he is thinking just put so e eye lock and heavy breathing here and there and girls will go gaga over it and that is making me sad about how he is writing Paro now.
Maybe you will disagree but that's just what I feel and this is making it hard for me to relate to her.