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Posted: 11 years ago
#91

Originally posted by: Newbiesoapfan



Agree completely...she was not emotionally invested enough in the marriage and the partner to mourn too much...

Someone said she should have looked at her shadi ka joda peeping out and felt bad... but she is past that... she is a widow now and that has registered ( it registered sometime when she was in jail )... so she has realised that she cannot cry over what has been ... she is making the best of a bad situation ... you may say created by her... but then any other way would mean even worse consequences for her only relative mani sa and the village.!!

Rudra killed the old Paro once ... but the crying mourning Paro died a few days back... she realised that mourning or crying would get her nowhere... and that I think is the best part of Paro...

Does she wish Varun sa was not dead - of course.
Does she wish that she had a married life with him - of course

But she is past that ... she has accepted her fate... and with that acceptance I sense a resignation to the fate ... that is fuelling a quiet courage that allows her to face Rudra ( if anyone thinks she is comfortable ... she isn't ... it is false bravado... but she is getting better and better at it)



Very well writen.

I am dead against any kind of widow etiquette.

But, I also have seen GH's shows. I hardly think he has thought anything the way you described Paro. All he is thinking just put so e eye lock and heavy breathing here and there and girls will go gaga over it and that is making me sad about how he is writing Paro now.

Maybe you will disagree but that's just what I feel and this is making it hard for me to relate to her.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#92

Originally posted by: Guinea

I am SO GLAD you made this post. I am so disgusted with this nonsense abt widow clothes , whatever that is supposed to mean 😕

Yesterday ppl jumped in " on a huge blooper " in the show by watching a SBS segment where we were informed that " rudra is taking paro to the bdf camp where she will stay put" without even seeing it in an actual episode.

Today , we know that she is back in the ranawat haveli ...wearing gorgeous clothes as rudra's finance so the probelm is
A/ why is she not in widow clothes
B/ sanaya is not comfortable in the clothes she is wearing as she made a vague comment .

If sanaya is not comfortable in what she is wearing than she being a grown up women and a professional actress will have a chat with the PH , nobody is forcing her OR can force her to wear something she doesn't like ...we as fans need to stay out of this and also don't need to be her internet mommies.
OR is the real probelm that she is wearing this in RR😉

For what its worth ..sanaya was looking absolutely gorgeous in the black/ white and gold lehanga , showing her beauty and figure to perfection 😊 I hope sanaya continues to wear these gorgeous lehanga cholis in the show and doesn't resort to wearing "widow clothes / cover herself up" to please a few ...

Great reply...
For many the problem is sanz doll is wearing such gorgeous outfits in RR...
So people who don't watch show that regularly ...show up to make random comments...
About her clothes,her dupatta,her make up ,her dialogues...
Sigh...sigh...sigh...
somethings never change,that's what I will say ...
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Posted: 11 years ago
#93
She had no emotional connection with her husband varun anyway. They only had one conversation on the rooftop and then got married. Plus I don't think she really has the choice to dress as a widow anyway.
Haalat itni kharaab hai ke mard ke kapron se guzaara karna parr raha hai bechaari ko.

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