How the cvs failed Shaad! Mod Note Pg 2 - Page 2

Originally posted by: darlingpinks

You have said it all. I completely agree with you. Great Job!

I never understood how this act was taken as a gentleman act. How would she feel if she knows the truth. Leave the Aahil part aside. But, let it be anyone how would she feel as a women. And the worst part is, it is some people care only about Shaad's heartbreak.

Agree it is a fiction, but still they just can't show whatever they want. And all this is called Love! He has closed the missing file! She would never know who she was. Her identity is stolen! And I call it a crime done with full knowledge. He knew she craves for her family. He knew she loves someone but he wants her to be with him just because he is obsessed with her and doesn't want her to leave him. I never understood if this is called love. He is a selfish man and just using her.

We had so many tracks but I never found any one this bad. He never cared about anyone in his life.

I don''t have words to tell how disgusting it is? Because, he literally committed a crime and on the top of it he is an Army Officer? The girl goes to heights for him just because she thinks he is her husband. What would go on her if she knows she was treating someone else like her husband having one who loves her madly!

He has a loving family, but he never cares for them. He might be a calculated person, but how can he take someone's else life just like that!

I don't know how people find it good. But, for me he is committing a crime and moving around freely and being a army officer!

Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

You said it ALL! But his criminal and immoral behavior is daily "praised" and gushed over as very CUTE! He has done nothing wrong by stealing this girl's choices and her identity from her, coz he so called "Loves" her! I dont give two hoots for his heartbreak coz he deserves more than heartbreak, he deserves jail time for what he has done. It is fraudulent and criminal, and NO he didnt do it for HER benefit! The moment he closed that file, he lost ALL credibility as a character and proved how characterless he really is! NO white washing will change that fact!

But because they have "scenes" together, open gushing of this exploitation is allowed. Now even criminal acts are considered as "sweet" and cute, coz the man committing said crimes is "cute!"

If we heard this story in the 6 O'clock news that an Army officer did something like this to a civilian, will we say "Oh POOR him, his heartbreak?" OR will we say "What a jerk? Being an Army officer he acted like this? Someone who is supposed to protect and do JUSTICE to people, did this?" Everyone would be rightfully disgusted and no one would be admiring his "Looks" or wishing for further exploitation of this girl at his hands! It is the makers fault for treating this subject as a trivial joke the way that they have! They should be ashamed! If they wanted to show this as "cute", they should have shown him being honest with her, and having GENUINE relationship with her. Even if it is one sided love! Not this SICK twisted kidnap style relationship. Like when this women in UK found a displaced child on a beach and instead of handing her to authorities kept her for 10 years! She stole this kid from her real family and her real identity. THIS is the same thing! That women got jail. I dont see why he should be allowed to go "Scott free!".

Originally posted by: SheAish

Nafs, ROFL's ko edit kiya kiyu...mai yahaa iss issue ko leyke pareshaan thi or thum mujpe hasraheho...bohoth naainsaafee hey yeh...😭😆

Arey bas inthnaa tho kehedo key hasee kisbaathko,... tholha maibee has loo thum haare saath...😆

Actually I was kind of not going to post this at all but then since I had already penned it down I thought this would give me some kind of closure before I completely ignore it...

But yeah too much said already and ...YET...none of this getting through to whom it really counts...ie the cvs..😡

Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

@Mischy:

Yes sometimes even I struggle with the "emoting". I mean in that Ambulance scene? When he said "close the file", he had NO expression on his face. No guilt, no remorse, no hesitation. Nothing!

So from that I understood this was a cold and calculated choice he made! If THAT is not what was supposed to be shown, then I am sorry, the expressions totally FAILED that scene! I got nothing from it, accept his calculated choice! THAT is not how you show conflict!

So I have to assume he gave the exact expression he was supposed to! Blank. No emotions. Cold choice. If that was what he was supposed to do, then he NAILED it! But if not, then he failed it!

Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

I know we have had chats about this for quite some time. You always felt strongly about this coz of your background with working with girls who have been in exploitative situations!

The CV's were totally irresponsible in the way they portrayed this story! THAT was the issue from the start! Making Jannat so "Free and Easy" made Shaad also act totally free and easy with her! That was HIS mistake, coz he knew the truth! Con girl Seher always maintained distance from Aahil even at the expense of blowing her cover. She had the decency not to go close to a man she had no relationship with!

However, from almost day 1, Shaad had NO such issues. We see he is quite happy to be in his delusion and "Just Go with it!". Accept for the time he opened the Missing person's file in a fit of "Guilt" we never see an issue in him accepting her advances. He even makes some of his own by holding her hand in front of his Dad and whispering in her ear in front of a whole crowd etc. Now even declaring his "Love" and closing off her file! He also has no issue making up lie after lie, even when he can clearly see how "Distressed" she is by her lack of memories!

If they showed the "Hook" scene he would have looked like the biggest pervert ever! Fans of Shaad actually had NO issue with him looking like an opportunistic Cad taking advantage of this girl's ignorance and ogling her semi clad body and touching her. But NON fans had the issue, and people who saw it for what it really was. Channel also saw it and cut the scene!

Shaad's actions are almost that of a kidnapper and someone who just "captures" and imprisons someone! Someone once argued with me that he is not keeping her "locked!". Yes but that does not mean she can "Leave?" How will she leave when she thinks their relationship is "legitimate?" WHY would she leave? So in essence she is trapped! Closing off the file was a calculated choice to now NEVER let her go. He wont change his mind now. He has chosen a side. It is 100% creepy now. No way back!

The biggest issue here is the romantisization and glorification of this exploitative behavior of a man who is just USING this women for his own DELUSIONS! He also has no respect for his Father or family and honestly besides his "Looks", have nothing much else to recommend him!

NO girl would ever want to be where this girl is! Married or single. Just because he did not have "sex" with her, that does not mean he is a Gentlemen or that he is not "exploiting" her. I think people assume only "sex" is exploitation. It is NOT! What he is doing is exploitation too. But the makers decided to play ASYA BG and make it look like this big "picnic" instead of what it really is. A girl with no choice, fooled into living as someone's wife and DENIED the chance to know who she REALLY is and where she really belongs! THAT is what this is!

Your right! The "Gushing" gave the wrong impression and made CV's even MORE slack in their story. Now I think maybe they are finally getting the message! Not everyone is "Buying" this gentlemen act!

Originally posted by: micshy

SheAish ... First of all i know talking about a sensitive issue in a public forum i just wanna salute u 👏👏👏

I agree, not only the CVs, i would blame VT's acting prowess too. Both these factors came into play n the results are a confused n convulated plot, i seem not to understand this guya bit, nor did i get what CVs wanna portray . That has to do with both, If CVs wrote a brainless story , it would hv been hard fr an actor to undrrstand and enact iti get it.

Regarding ur concerns, i have seen n has gotten pissed off at thr gushing and romanticization of sych a situation. Just like i it angers me to see The girl getting close to the guy n the guy enjoying such liberties as getting close to her, doing her blouse, getting to sit with her in her bed n all...

Trust me, i have read that its a fiction show at the end of the day n why to give so much importance to it n all that jazz.. But that diesnot mean that showing a serious crime like Rape in fiction n then romanticizing it makes the deed bearable, justifieble or tolerable, a Rape is a Rape, if people try to trivialize or romanticize it or if people are getting affected by it as a trivial issue. Then thats a horrible situation , so i get what u want to say . we cant say n brush aside every serious thing by saying "its just a fiction"

CVs have been really really irresponsible in trying to trivialize and romanticizing a serious issue n just by running a disclaimer everyday doesnot serve the purpose

Originally posted by: KhatamKahani

Truth Hurts!

It hurts when action or actions meant to be for one purpose ends up having an opposite effect.

It hurts to acknowledge that one's own actions were a gross error and did nothing to help, but rather did everything to hurt.

I wonder, will he ever realize it? Maybe he already has? Maybe not? But it seems more as though he is living in his delusional world and happy with it--logic, reality and truth of the matter be damned.

Or maybe, it just hurts to acknowledge the truth and reality.
Because Truth Hurts

~A poem, for Shaad Altaf Khan*******************************

Me attempting to be poetic, albeit in prose.😆

Mischy, sorry, I was trying to center my poem. Finally I got it.