Sunehri... Random rant 23.10.14 (Nt, Pg 4) - Page 9

Originally posted by: In-Sanity-Triv

Sunehri's character is still in the making. We know NOTHING about what she went through and what she had to face to become what she is today. The glimpse of she eating from the trash was a blimp on the radar. Life on the road is hard..even for an adult. Can you imagine what a child must have went through? There are people, actual people who use such children for begging ring. It's a type of a gang where they make the child beg. If the child doesn't get so and so amount in a day, he or she is badly beaten up or punished. They cut off the child's hand or legs or something to make them more pitiful so that people give them money. This is not some fanciful notion. It's reality. You have no idea..none what horrors are on the street. Add child predators, murderers, people who force such children in prostitution, human trafficking and what not to the list too. In all of the children that Billi screwed over with her evilness, Seher suffered the most. So yes, she deserves to be the one to take revenge on her. Yes, Sanam suffered, Aahil suffered, Rehan suffered but Seher was hit the worse. If you guys can understand Ahil and his childhood abuse than why so harsh with Seher? She was abused even worse. Doesn't she deserve some understanding. Or is it only because she is instrumental in Saahil separation, she is beyond redemption and worse than Billi? Don't you think that's unfair?

I agree with you that's Sunehri's character is still in the making...maybe we will know more about her in the future and I might find her interesting...but for now I don't hate her I'm just torn about her character...you when you can't decide about something😉
Now "Your perspective on life comes from the cage you were held captive in"...yes what makes Sunheri of today is her experiences of life on the road...and as you say life on the road is hard and I know what is...not personaly but I know people who know what is the cold/hunger...because of that I can tell personnally that the character of Sunheri is not well-build...LIFE IS HARD for everyone not just for people like Sunheri even if those are the most hurt...but if Life taught us to forget what hurt us in the past, that doesn't mean that we have to forget what the past taught us...because personnally again I believe if the past taught us to hold onto grudges, seek revenge, not forgive or show compassion, to categorize people as good or bad, to distrust and be guarded with us feelings then we didn't learn a thing, because God (if you believe in God) doesn't bring us lessons to close our heart. He brings us lessons to open it, by developing compassion, learning to listen, seeking to understand instead of speculating, practicing empathy and developing conflict resolution through communication. If he brought us perfect people, how would we ever learn to evolve?...and from what I have watch Sunehri speak with God so that means she believe in Him...I know all that it just a vision of life...and there is people who are so hurt by life that they live according to thier rules and Sunehri is one of them...YES I agree with about the fact that SHE HAS THE RIGHT TO TAKE REVENGE but not on Taanver...ON LIFE which has been hard...
but from what is showing now Sunehri is Smart/Confident/malignant/strong...unfortunately, these qualities are used at the wrong place at the wrong time...once again from my opinion😉

Honestly, yes a part of my opinion about Sunheri has a link about her being a way of separation between SAHIL...but on the other part my opinion about her is because of CV...how CV has sold us Sunheri in the star and now...I'm not yet satisfied or rather I'm waiting an action from Sunheri that will makes me...yess you go girl😆...and I have already said that she is not a vamp...she can't be at the same level as Taanver...yes Sunheri is wrong about many thing and yes she is gradually switch to the dark side of an human being that means there is still hope because she can also switch to the other side...personnally I think that she can evolve positively

About the kidnapping. Yes, it was wrong BUT you see... She didn't know that she was going to be swapped. She had no choice but to go through with it. She didn't know she will be a party in an kidnapping. Sanam was already kidnapped when Seher was pushed in her stead. This was not her active choice. The decision and the deed was done for her without her knowing.

Here I will not debate because we will not be agree😉...all I can say that really Sunehri doesn't know that Sanam will dispappear? because in logic when a person takes place of another person, the latter dispear...and Sunheri knows by experience all the practices of the under groud world.

Now she could have refused. Ok..say she would have. Sanam was still kidnapped. What would have that gotten her? Seher is already wired to think about her and only her because of her childhood. The only person who melted her was Rehaan and even he didn't give her a chance to give her side of explanation. It only reinforced her thinking that it's only man for himself. Don't care about anyone else. Sanam and Ahil are nobodies to her. She doesn't know them. She doesn't care for them. It doesn't matter what happens to them. And she mocked even Rehaan before she fell for him. It's not only for Ahil. You need not get so enraged over that. That's how she is. She mocks and makes fun and is brutally honest with her thought process and her Bappa. And remember Razia didn't know Saahil are in love. All she knew is that they disliked and even hated each other. The marriage was a contract. How was she to tell Seher that Aahil is madly in love with Sanam and vice versa? She didn't know she will be playing with his feelings. She was pushed into the game, she can't do anything but see it through.

Here I agree partially...I'm not someone who stays on his positions , I am open to any opinion that I agree to them or not😉...yes Sunheri think only about herself because of childhood and her past and this psychological reaction is quite natural...but we can't give this kind of excuses anymore in real life even here is a fiction but this fiction is writing by real people so that mean this fiction has real's aspects...because we all know that the world is unfair...and this reality...and if someone wants to have a decent live here...he has to choose his way of fighting :
- Ahil chooses to focus on the present and the future with Sanam and no longer live in the past
- Sanam has always choose to focus on the prsent and future
- Rahan chooses to not encourage his mother anymore (if I'm not mistaken )
- Taanver chooses to kill and steal
- Razia is the same as Taanver
and Sunheri chooses to enter a game for money...I'm okay with that...but she has so many choices to earn money without replacing someone else's wife...


I'm not saying this track makes sense. I myself would have played it way differently. Made Seher enter the house with Rehaan and made Billi handle both the sisters as a unit but this is an Indian show and logic is the enemy here. Indian shows always always opt for dramatization.

Yes I think like you👏...Sunheri could have been a great character if the CV have developed this twist smartly

Would I call Seher inhuman? No. Because she isn't. If she was then she would have used Ahil a heck of a lot more to get what she wanted and not try and keep her distance with him. She tries to spare his feelings all the time too. Just because she mocks him a bit doesn't make her inhuman either. If that's true than everyone in this forum is inhuman too because I've seen a lot of mocking posts about other characters. She also doesn't know how Sanam is being treated. She has only been in the house for 2 days. For all she knows Sanam is fine and dandy but just locked up. Why should she give a thought to a stranger? And she does want to finish this job ASAP and get out so that Sanam can take her rightful place again.

I don't know how to exprime myself about this word "inhuman"...this word is a relative concept and everyone can interpret it as he desired...for me it's not about the feeling even criminals have feeling...but in fact here I have the feeling that the CV gradually shows Sunheri as someone who is going to the point of no return, you know when someone becomes gradually cold, he locks his heart because he doesn't want to be hurt anymore...but in the process he gradually loses his objectivity and turns in destruction mode...I hope that CV suprise me and show me that I'm wrong😉

Seher is also not like Billi. I don't really get this reasoning at all. Seher still has feelings and a conscience. She tries to kill them but they keep rearing and making her mellow. Billi had none whatsoever for anyone or anything. Heck, even Rehaan is just a puppet in her hands. I don't think that woman actually loved him. Even the actress playing Billi accepted that.

I agree with you...and if I wrote somewhere that Sunheri is like Taanver then it was before😆
...but now I believe that Sunheri can't be at the same level as Taanver for the sames reasons you gave...I can ad that she will never be able to kill someone intentionlly for money like Taanver...not because she is ASYA's daughter no...because she doesn't have this in her from my opinion...

I am not claiming that Seher is the most lovable character and totally without faults but every human being has fault. You can't hate a person just because he/she does a mistake. If Ahil was not beyond redemption after what he did to Sanam then why not Seher? I do believe Ahil was worse with Sanam before he fell for her. But he was still loved. Why such vitriol hatred only for Seher? It hardly seems fair.

You know I speak for myself, I don't know about the other...but a character doesn't have to be lovable for me to love him/her...currently I'm watching a drama about criminals/killers and I love them😆...I don't hate Seher, I'm just waiting for CV to give something about her that will change my opinion about her...and I don't speak about her flaws...even me I'm not perfect 😉
For Ahil, I agree with you he was worse with Sanam but later he gaves me reasons and actions that make me forgive him despite his former actions...and I'm excepting the same thing from Seher...so I'm waiting😉

PS : I like your way of thinking because it different of me and even if I'm not agree with all your opinions...I learn from it 😉