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Posted: 11 years ago
Nite all! It is too late for me...😳
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: chicksoup


Why only people who acted it...it is also the way it is written, directed...the actors can only conveythe beauty the creator has envisaged, and not all actors can do it...they perfectly complement each other- the actors and the CVs...why do U think peopl esay that every good actor in Tellywood should work with Gul at least once? 😳


Well of course good writing...I made an appreciation post over the writing of that episode...but sadly for me it's not consistent and logical...which I expect from a show...coz there are logical shows on air...so if Gul is so good at envisaging...she should apply linear logic...it's very easy...the act can be larger than life but it should follow some rules of physics😆...I used to look forward to watching QH coz I found a newness in the way it was made and written...and now it's mediocre...moments of brilliance are there...but in isolation...

I am not a fan of any of Gul's works except for the initial part of QH...so I don't find anything exceptional in her...I thought she was a storyteller...but sadly she is a businesswoman who undermines the storyteller in her...as far as tellywood is concerned..people only want to work...whom, why, where is secondary...they need to earn...it's their job...more people are dying to work with Ekta despite the fact that she serves more disgusting shit...so Gul is no Spielberg...she is just another one added to the TRP race
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: chicksoup



Vash,

In your dictionary there is no word called repentance or forgiveness, I suppose...and I totally respect that.

A murderer, a rapist, an adulterer...everyone is forgiven...they just have to repent WHOLEHEARTEDLY. And if a thief does not repent his small theft...he will be considered a geater sinner for not having repented...😉I did quote an eg. of a rapist forgiven in the main post..everyone does not have the gift of forgiveness...and most def even those who have do not have it in the same measure.😳



Now u talking none sense
I will rest my opinions for now because this will go in circles and you will never get it.
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: chicksoup

Nite all! It is too late for me...😳

Good night ...about time u slept😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: chicksoup

Nite all! It is too late for me...😳

gud nyt soup ...😊
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: starsinmyeyes

Sorry Soup...to me infidelity is unacceptable because it shakes the base necessity of any relationship...and that's trust...a murderer can reform...a cheater will cheat till he dies...

Just cursing or feeling bad about not being able to reconcile does not mean he can snatch her away from her son...just because I feel bad and am sorry I killed someone does not bring them back to life...

Buddy...cheating on your lovely wife and sleeping with another woman while being married to her is sick...a father moving into his son's house is not sick...agar uska Dilshaad pe haq hai toh Asad pe bhi hai...whether Asad likes it or not...if without his wishes he can take his mom away, why can't he stay in KV against his wishes...not that he cares about what the world says...

And I will rest my case here because I have no respect for people who cheat their spouses...to me until it gets proven that Ayaan is not rashid's but somebody else's..he can burn in hell, but he remains a philanderer who slept with another woman while being married to Dilshaad



Shruti, You remind me of Mr Darcy who said. "My good opinion once lost, is lost forever"

Thankfully Austen had other things planned for him.😆

Cheating and infidelity is just that, cheating and infidelity. I respect your POV, and I agree with it some extent. Most likely so does Dilshad. And if she is willing to forgive, it does not define her nor is it the only thing that makes her who she is or takes away anything from her.
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: chicksoup


Vash,

In your dictionary there is no word called repentance or forgiveness, I suppose...and I totally respect that.

A murderer, a rapist, an adulterer...everyone is forgiven...they just have to repent WHOLEHEARTEDLY. And if a thief does not repent his small theft...he will be considered a geater sinner for not having repented...😉 I did quote an eg. of a rapist forgiven in the main post..everyone does not have the gift of forgiveness...and most def even those who have do not have it in the same measure.😳



On that Note I say i am sorry if i crossed the line in my earlier post but here i need to put my 2 cents again.

A young man is prosecuted for a crime he did not do and was totally circumstantial reasons. He is imprisoned for many years. The culprit was the judge who decided on his own.

After many years, it get's proven that the young man is not guilty and is not required to carry on with his jail term. He is released. Upon his release he is compensated in a big way for the wrong judgement to enable to live a good and happy life. ( This is the case of most wrongly imprisoned innocent people)

The same way Asad was imprisoned by his father .( Imprisoned in Emotional and mental state) . Even after the father knew he was not guilty and did not deserve the punishment, he did nothing to reverse the judgement ( or as said he tried, but not hard enough) as he did not want to get implicated.

Along came a Zoya , who released him from that imprisonment. Fine if the father did not do it , but the least he could have done is compensate him further by leaving him in his little happy life. As usual being the selfish man that he is, he punishes Asad yet again and puts him back into prison emotionally and mentally.

How can anyone say that Rashid tried for every time he gave a small try , he took back a million times more.
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Posted: 11 years ago
Vash,

In your dictionary there is no word called repentance or forgiveness, I suppose...and I totally respect that.

A murderer, a rapist, an adulterer...everyone is forgiven...they just have to repent WHOLEHEARTEDLY. And if a thief does not repent his small theft...he will be considered a geater sinner for not having repented... I did quote an eg. of a rapist forgiven in the main post..everyone does not have the gift of forgiveness...and most def even those who have do not have it in the same measure.

Oops I'm sorry : had no idea such dictionary exists : "forgiveness & repentance " . If only I attended church regularly
Anyway thanks for the heads up . It's not to late to instill the right values in my children .
Repenting wholeheartedly= forgiveness
Son to rape a woman : cheat on your wife : abandon your wife and children :keep two wives under the same roof : snatch your children's happiness at anytime : is ok : all you have to do is repent wholeheartedly and you'll be forgiven : now go face this very forgiving world . Life is now a bed of roses , ignore the thorns .
Daughter you have to forgive the man who rapes you : the husband who cheats on you , walks out on you , abandon your children , have you share a bed with him and another woman : once he repents wholeheartedly ...: Your dignity is no longer of any importance . Now you teach your children these values and tell them they should never expect anything from parents they are only responsible for their birth , that's it . .. because they should only live for their own happiness . We can't be selfish towards them .
Now do I have all the major topics .
Do tell , I don't want to mess up again !!

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Shruti, You remind me of Mr Darcy who said. "My good opinion once lost, is lost forever"

Thankfully Austen had other things planned for him.😆

Cheating and infidelity is just that, cheating and infidelity. I respect your POV, and I agree with it some extent. Most likely so does Dilshad. And if she is willing to forgive, it does not define her nor is it the only thing that makes her who she is or takes away anything from her.


I loved Darcy too...but my good opinion about QH does come forth...despite the fact that I lost it😆

Isliye toh I m not judging where she stands as a mother. .I understand her plight...only I expect a little more sensitive handling of Asad...I m not even blaming her...it's Rashid and his lack of spine
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: starsinmyeyes


Well of course good writing...I made an appreciation post over the writing of that episode...but sadly for me it's not consistent and logical...which I expect from a show...coz there are logical shows on air...so if Gul is so good at envisaging...she should apply linear logic...it's very easy...the act can be larger than life but it should follow some rules of physics😆...I used to look forward to watching QH coz I found a newness in the way it was made and written...and now it's mediocre...moments of brilliance are there...but in isolation...

I am not a fan of any of Gul's works except for the initial part of QH...so I don't find anything exceptional in her...I thought she was a storyteller...but sadly she is a businesswoman who undermines the storyteller in her...as far as tellywood is concerned..people only want to work...whom, why, where is secondary...they need to earn...it's their job...more people are dying to work with Ekta despite the fact that she serves more disgusting shit...so Gul is no Spielberg...she is just another one added to the TRP race


Ekta is a very good storyteller too...she deals with everything except marital relations phenomenally well...the bonding of Priya's character with her father is still fresh in my memory..it was a very beautiful story, until she started murdering one character after the other.

Gul - I'd not compare her to Ekta- because her men do not happily go aroung marrying and divorcing- definitely more stable characters...

And when U R seeing a daily show, the only shows that have the linear logic are DABH and BV...both become boring after some time...I don't follow either closely, though I admire them for the consistency.

Why is it that only moments from Gul's shows can be watched repeatedly? Geet, IPK, QH- they all have classic moments. And for me, she has grown with every show...with QH, she has shown she can excel in every other aspect other than romance also..I simply don't expect the same consistent quality after 9 months BECAUSE THAT IS WHEN SHOWS THAT ARE DEMANDING ON THE CREATIVE AND ACTING TEAM LIKE QH...NEED TO TAKE A BREAK...it is simply that for me. They need to take a break..they won't ...because that format is not accepted in India yet...with shows like 24 that should change. And I am waiting for the day Gul does something in that format, because I know she will rock.

Yes people only want to work...the problem with Gul is that she is not confined to teh creative team...when QH started she wanted to be only the director...but that changed when I guess they found she was the best person to take care of the production details- and that si a huge headache to handle. Things don't work like clockwork...added to thatteh fact that the team aspires for perfection..I bet they are the ones who take the maximum retakes...ends up with little time for smooth editing ...and since the creatives are working towards a deadline all the time, they get tired tooo..I will not say Gul is perfect...she is not, as I am not...I simply admire her for sticking up for her team all the time...that is why people like Mohit and Sanaya and KSG enjoy working with her...and SHE IS THE ONLY ONE WHO CAN SHOWCASE THEIR TALENTS. That is because her writing is still brilliant...in bits, as you put it...that is all I expect with the break- less routine they all go through. And I call it brilliant, because QH si still teh only show I can consistently watch, and I don't watch it only for AsYa...the mother- son scene, and the sisters bonding that U and I appreciate.

Gul undermines the storyteller in her..Novel writers take months or years with breaks to complete their project...Movies take months for 2 hours they put up on teh screen...and QH IS EXCEPTIONAL and GUL'S TEAM is exceptional in that they give us a similar quality at the rate of 1 hour per week👏...no mean job.I can never stop admiring not just gul, but the ENTIRE TEAM FOR THIS!👏👏 👏

It is easy to sit back and criticise.😳 which I do too..😉

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