Let's get real. - Page 5

Originally posted by: VashH

Well Said !! Love your post .
Hi -I have always been a silent member of this forum and hardly ever address a topic . maybe twice .Marriage should never be a compromise . Interesting turn of events on the storyline ..Yes . The writers took it to far by questioning religion. The problem here is society .. who all along uses religion to uphold traditions which every one carries out differently ..in order to control . Recently Zoya stood up for women's right and it has continued from there . What we see.. We don't like . Changes has to be made .. Women's voices needs to be heard. Done with the compromises to please others. Women needs to be able to make their own choices in life and still uphold religion religion at the same time .I do hope the writers are heading in this direction only . Destiny ?? .The word that justifies every wrong and makes it right . If it was written a certain way for us. ..We are the only ones who has the power to change it .. Be it for the better or worst .. This is where God and the power of prayer comes in .. To guide us to make every wrong ..right .. It's time to finish loveless marriages !!!. May take a few generations to do so but has to start somewhere. For me I think it started in the right place ..television .. where a mixture of cultures is able to voice their opinions and make it public . So don't quit the show . Keep fighting .. Let your opinions and voices be heard. Help make the change. .

Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

You are right! At face value there is no infidelity nor is their adultery etc.

But the other side of the coin is that Ayaan and Zoya have agreed to carry on a farce of a marriage. The marriage vows may not be real to them, but after signing the Nikanama the marriage appears real, at least temporarily.

The issue of them meeting and continuing to carry on interactions and romantic exchanges with their respective love interests is that the "appearance" of their so called marriage is compromised by this. If you agreed to pretend to be married, then you have to carry on that pretence of a real marriage too. This includes not getting romantic with your ex.

Please don't get me wrong I don't think it's infidelity. But I think its asking for trouble!! The kind of trouble neither Zoya nor Ayaan needs right now, with people like Haseena swooping down like vultures on anything they can find!!

Originally posted by: ..SanzLicious..

^ Yes, I agree that they said "Haan" not even Qubool Hai! Very good point! Thank you! As for your second point Actually, NKapoor3, Gul has done that purposefully. She is trying to show the faults in the daily priests' of Islam in India - This is a social drama, as stated in they synopsis. This nikkah had so many faults - and the Qazi was faulted - precisely due to the fact that Gul is showing that many Islamic Qazis have faults too in their practice. I get what you're saying - but she's done it for a reason. This is a show on social messages - very, powerful ones at that.

Originally posted by: sheilasandhu

If you noticed that meetings were not planned by the parties. Each their own Asad and Ayaan were hoping that they would be able to meet their Loves. And anyways what is wrong with meeting to explain the situation and keep the gals calm before more destruction. Women can be destructive when unsure and confused. So whats wrong with intending to keep the situation calm.

Anyways Infidelity and adultery does not play in this scenario at all. Not that the were humping their woman, just giving an ensuring hug.

We do that to our friends be it male or female when they are in pain and in need of moral streght. Does that mean i have done adultery since i am married. OH BOY ... i shall refrain from my next comment as it may hurt the sentiments of many. Darling i am 49 and been married 21 yrs, Been there, done that, seen that kind of scenarios.

Originally posted by: sheilasandhu

I am sure 90% are adults here but even adulthood has it's many stages but i shall not doubt anyones intelect maybe just POV views are different.

Originally posted by: hsvs

Saw your reply right now. I do not think you understood my point at all.

Would this be your stance if Imran was in a similar situation with Nikhat and Najma? Somehow I dont think so!

@bold: You arent the only adult here and would appreciate if you stop talking down to others just because you think they are younger and have a different point of view.

Originally posted by: delena90

Ah you finally get to it -yes povs are different as are levels of hypocrisy on this forum.

Originally posted by: sohu_ksgian

Bang on post!!! I loved it