Let's get real.

I normally don't make topics because its hard to sustain a topic without getting into squabbles 😆 and lately the show's not been having matter that I can really talk about.. But there is one thing I keep reading about and I cannot relate to that point of view at all.

I agree with your post!

Well said...and I also feel there is no wrong in AsYa and AyRa meeting bcoz Asad,Zoya and Ayan nvr considered it as a marriage...It was an accident and they dint say quboolhai in the real senses.AsYa and AyRa are made for each other.⭐️Marriage is not signing of papers...(even that is invalid here).As Zoya said ye ek vaada hai jo dil se nibhayi jaati hai...Jab tak shaadi ko dil se nahi maana jaata hai,uska koi matlab hi nahi hai.Although nothing of this sought happens in real life,still there is no wrong in AsYa and AyRa meeting each other...

Not that a situation like this would ever occur in real life but if you are married and you are engaging in such behavior it is in fact infidelity. If you don't love the person or don't care for the person you are married to then dump him and do what you will with your life. But if at the end of the day you made the choice to marry someone then respect it.

If people are so modern and progressive there is such a thing as being ethical and of course the inability to force you to do something.

In case of our story - Ayaan made the choice to claim zoya as his wife. His own choice. Zoya made the choice to not walk out and go back to NY so again her choice. Now that they have made it they need to respect it for whatever time frame they are bound in it. Or are they so pathetic and weak that they cant maintain a respectable distance for the so called seven days????

You are bang on with this post.

Originally posted by: delena90

Not that a situation like this would ever occur in real life but if you are married and you are engaging in such behavior it is in fact infidelity. If you don't love the person or don't care for the person you are married to then dump him and do what you will with your life. But if at the end of the day you made the choice to marry someone then respect it.

If people are so modern and progressive there is such a thing as being ethical and of course the inability to force you to do something.

In case of our story - Ayaan made the choice to claim zoya as his wife. His own choice. Zoya made the choice to not walk out and go back to NY so again her choice. Now that they have made it they need to respect it for whatever time frame they are bound in it. Or are they so pathetic and weak that they cant maintain a respectable distance for the so called seven days????

Originally posted by: Go4welkin

You are bang on with this post.

I too saw posts on adultery and it made me laugh. Sometimes people make issue out of nothing. There is absolutely no need for Zoya or Ayaan to restrain themselves from meeting their loved ones in private as they are doing this Nikah drama for public and they don't need to live the drama when they are alone. This Nikah is invalid to begin with but even if we assume that the nikah was performed in accordance with Nikah rules, the main concept consent is missing.

Paper work and signature etc are just formalities but here both bride and groom do not consider it as Nikah and thats the key. They are not obligated to respect this Nikah because this was forced on them against their will by ignorant and arrogant maulvi team and sadistic Haseena, which resulted in Nikat's sensitive state of mind. This drama is only a temporary arrangement to shut mouths of such public, who may indirectly drive Nikat who is not currently stable to death. All trio care about is to buy sometime to get Nikat out of her sensitive state of mind. Although there could be better ways to address this issue, they took path of drama and it will continue to be a drama for them, they don't need to live the drama when they are not in public eye.

Originally posted by: delena90

Not that a situation like this would ever occur in real life but if you are married and you are engaging in such behavior it is in fact infidelity. If you don't love the person or don't care for the person you are married to then dump him and do what you will with your life. But if at the end of the day you made the choice to marry someone then respect it.

If people are so modern and progressive there is such a thing as being ethical and of course the inability to force you to do something.

In case of our story - Ayaan made the choice to claim zoya as his wife. His own choice. Zoya made the choice to not walk out and go back to NY so again her choice. Now that they have made it they need to respect it for whatever time frame they are bound in it. Or are they so pathetic and weak that they cant maintain a respectable distance for the so called seven days????

Originally posted by: manognasai

Well said...and I also feel there is no wrong in AsYa and AyRa meeting bcoz Asad,Zoya and Ayan nvr considered it as a marriage...It was an accident and they dint say quboolhai in the real senses.AsYa and AyRa are made for each other.⭐️Marriage is not signing of papers...(even that is invalid here).As Zoya said ye ek vaada hai jo dil se nibhayi jaati hai...Jab tak shaadi ko dil se nahi maana jaata hai,uska koi matlab hi nahi hai.Although nothing of this sought happens in real life,still there is no wrong in AsYa and AyRa meeting each other...

Originally posted by: Ankita.M

Like I said, this decision is nothing short of pretending to be married, they've signed those papers because they were forced to. NONE of them want it, even if they've signed it. If they had a choice of dumping and walking away the marriage wouldn't have happened at all. Unethical would be if no one knew Asad and Zoya were to get married, or loved each other, same goes for Ayaan and Humaira. Everyone only did this for Nikhat,s well being and to secure her life (of course that was silly)

Why should they not meet or talk or so on in the seven days, neither does the marriage mean anything NOW nor will it later when they part after 7 days. It is a sham and will be.

Being forced is a ridiculous way of looking at it because nobody forced Ayaan to agree to this mess. He made the decision himself - seeing the state of his idiotic and suicidal sister. Instead of getting her help and telling Haseena to jump he made the decision to claim zoya as his wife.

Asad in turn made the decision to hand his fianc over to Ayaan and zoya made the decision not to walk away from the situation. In fact nothing stopped her from walking. She is an American citizen and she could have happily told everyone to Fo and walked but she didn't.

Now that they signed the papers, for whatever reason, it needs to be respected. All characters have acknowledged zoya as ayaans wife - especially asad who used "ayaans biwi" to stop dilshaad from getting zoya back. Zoya herself acknowledged the marriage by yelling at Ayaan for making marriage into a joke. It has been acknowledged. So, until Gul has one of her characters identify the marriage as invalid - all four of them are committing infidelity.

On a separate issue - zoya melting into asads arms after be literally bartered her life for his sister's is disgusting too. Where did progressive and modern zoya go? This sure as hell isn't her and where is the asad who got mad at dilshaad for meeting rashid.

Just a question - I am curious - if imran has married Nikhat and not believed it to be a real wedding or marriage had gone and met another woman he loved, would you call him a cheat? Genuine question.